Is it wrong for the groom to cancel the wedding directly when he sees the banner of "domineering"

Nowadays, young people's weddings are really varied and endless. Many young people like to tease the groom at the wedding banquet to enliven the atmosphere. They are all peers, joking together. This is a very happy and beautiful picture. However, in some cases, it must not be excessive. If friends and relatives fool around blindly, it will only put the bride and groom in an embarrassing predicament.

Recently, several "domineering banners" at the wedding scene suddenly became popular on the Internet, which triggered a heated discussion for a time. It is understood that Mr. Zhang and his girlfriend Miss Sun are a couple who have been in love for three years. They have complementary tempers. Mr. Zhang is straightforward and his girlfriend is gentle. They are in harmony together.

Although the girlfriend is gentle, but the family is not vegetarian, it is very strong, especially the younger brother and the prospective brother-in-law are very incompatible, and they are not pleasing to the eye. This brother-in-law has always been not optimistic about his brother-in-law, thinking that his sister's conditions are worth marrying a better family. But my sister takes care of Mr. Zhang, and Mr. Zhang tries his best to meet the requirements of relatives at home. RV is as good as bride price.

Unexpectedly, on the wedding day, Mr. Zhang and his groomsmen drove to the community to welcome relatives. The bride's door is covered with banners, which are very domineering and say, "Sister is gentle and generous. If one day she returns to her mother's house with tears in her eyes, she will definitely fry you in the oil pan until golden. "

Seeing such a "domineering" banner, the groomsmen all laughed and the neighbors came out to watch. At this time, the bride's younger brother appeared, saying that it was specially made for her sister, saying that this "domineering banner" is popular now. As a family member, she wrote some warning words in order to ask the groom to be kind to his sister.

At this time, the bride was complacent at home and felt that the home was too imposing. Seeing that the bride's family was so disrespectful, Mr. Zhang lost his temper and turned to drive away.

This time, the bride's family was dumbfounded. When the bride saw the big trouble, she blamed her brother for doing things regardless of occasion. She thinks that his brother deliberately made things difficult for her boyfriend on such an important occasion as the wedding, which made him lose face. The bride also regretted her behavior just now, and cried bitterly, but her brother ignored it.

Some people think it's normal for young people to joke, and the groom doesn't need to make a mountain out of a molehill. Others think that the bride's family has gone too far, and outsiders can't stand such insulting practices, let alone the groom.

So husband and wife must respect each other. If the woman really goes too far and insults the man's dignity, the bride should stop it in time, instead of having fun together, even if she is joking, she should separate places. Only when husband and wife respect each other will the family be more harmonious.

How should husband and wife respect each other? 1, understand each other

Husband and wife should understand each other at ordinary times, and the wife should be gentle at ordinary times, so that the other party can relax and speak freely with you. A husband needs to understand his wife's intentions, give back to her understanding, do more romantic actions, give her more care and let her feel love.

Husband and wife should take care of each other. After you have achieved something, don't be complacent, think you are great and despise each other's feelings. Behind an excellent person are partners in the same boat through thick and thin, so it should be said that family is the basic condition for career success. Go to adversity and share happiness; Even if you have food and clothing, you should try to take care of it.