Why don't young people nowadays want to have a wedding?

In fact, a decent wedding can't make much money. Suppose a table is 3000, each table 10 people, and each person gives 500. On the surface, there is still a surplus of 2000 yuan, but considering the cost of the wedding company, team, service, return gifts and various places that need face, it is good to have a flat or a slight surplus in the end. Of course, you can also save money to expand your surplus, so you must deduct it and search everywhere. You might as well not do it.

The second is trouble. The tedious process is nothing, but more about coordinating many complicated interpersonal relationships in the process. It hurts to think about it. In the process of wedding preparation, there are a lot of contradictions between two people and two families, which are full of all kinds of human ugliness.

The third is that the wedding is stylized and boring. I don't know who invented the contemporary wedding, but it is the product of foreign guns and local guns. Master of ceremonies, cultural performances, wine pool meat forest. I clearly remember once attending a wedding, the violin was still playing on the stage, and the audience was full of people eating and drinking. The feeling at that time was very complicated. As for the culture of filling the groom with wine and making trouble in the bridal chamber, that is even worse.

Anyway, I think this shows that young people now live more clearly than our parents. They have been proving something to others all their lives. I want what others have and I want what others do. After all, we understand that life is our own, just feel comfortable and don't care so much.

When I got married, I didn't have a wedding, didn't take wedding photos, and didn't buy any three gold and four gold. Of course, it is not the so-called modern nonsense like independent women, but it is not suitable for that occasion and I don't like that culture. And I feel trouble, most afraid of trouble. Simple operation for four times, found that the economy is unprofitable, completely lost interest. It doesn't matter if newcomers are tired, relatives and friends are tired, and guests are tired.

Why don't we have some hard dishes and give you a lively buffet to eat and drink, and save everything else. Marriage is not only the happy ending of a relationship, but the beginning of a small family. At this time, money is the most scarce.

Besides, don't keep asking what's wrong with your age. We have nothing to do. We are simply squeezed by capitalists and have no money to live on. We can't pursue feelings. If you pursue a sense of ceremony, it will not affect everyone's life, but it is not a small expense. No one will be unwilling to make a fuss about the whole thing. This is also a very important point. We have no money, so we can save unnecessary expenses. It's that simple.