What are the hidden pains and tears behind Gan Ping's "forced marriage door"?

Gan Ping was a famous singer in the 1990s. She sang many popular songs, such as Wet Heart, People Who Love You, Kissing the Mermaid and Big Brother, how are you? In 2004, Gan Ping disappeared from public view after marrying the famous football player Li Bing. Now 10 years have passed, what is Gan Ping's living condition?

Gan Ping, 1970, from Xiangyin County, Hunan Province. After graduating from the provincial art school, he was assigned to Hunan Ancient Painting Opera House. 1994 Gan Ping won the third prize of the National Young Singers TV Grand Prix, and then joined the Beijing Haizheng Song and Dance Troupe.

Gan Ping and Li Bing met at 1996, when they were invited by an advertising company to shoot cola advertisements. Because the height of Gan Ping is too different from that of Li Bing to shoot the same scene, the director found her two wooden boxes.

After the advertisement, Gan Ping learned that the tall, black man who partnered with him was Li Bing, the first football player in China. However, since then, the two have no contact and have not left contact information.

1997, Gan Ping flew to Chengdu. As soon as she got on the plane, she felt that the man around her seemed familiar. It suddenly occurred to her that the tall man had taken an advertisement with her. She smiled and said to Bing, "What a coincidence! When I met you, did you also go to Chengdu on business? " Seeing that it was Gan Ping, Li Bing quickly said, "I didn't do anything either. I went home."

Libing told Gan Ping that he lives in Chengdu, and his wife used to be a flight attendant, and now she works in Chengdu. He also said that he had heard Gan Ping's "Big Brother, how are you? He was deeply moved at an early age. Gan Ping told Li Bing that she went to Chengdu this time to visit a little girl named Xiao Jing. A few years ago, she adopted a child, whose family suffered misfortune, his mother was terminally ill and his father lost his labor force. In addition to supporting the family, she takes time out to visit Xiao Jing and take care of her for a few days every month. Li Bing was moved by Gan Ping's love.

After that, the two met many times in the star football team and became familiar with each other. At 200 1, Li Bing invited Gan Ping to dance, and Gan Ping went with another girlfriend. After watching the ball, Li Bing invited them to dinner. Gan Ping's girlfriend has something to leave early. Gan Ping doesn't want to be alone with a man. After all, he is a public figure, afraid of misunderstanding. Holding his girlfriend's hand and saying goodbye, Li Bing said, "Gan Ping, why do you look down on people so much? Invite you to dinner and refuse. " Girlfriend said, Gan Ping, you can stay. If you are afraid of being recognized, find a remote place to eat. Later, Gan Ping proposed to go to Xizhimen small restaurant for dinner, and Bing agreed.

After they sat down in the corner of the hotel, Gan Ping asked for some side dishes and Bing asked for two bottles of beer. After drinking two bottles of beer, libing talked more. Gan Ping asked Li Bing with concern, have you recently returned to your hometown in Chengdu? Bing shook his head. Gan Ping said, you always have to go back and see your wife. Li Bing suddenly jumped out: "I am divorced." Gan Ping was startled and smiled: "Are you kidding!"

Li Bing said, "I'm really divorced. I hate to tell you, but you are my good friend. It doesn't hurt to tell you. " She asked inexplicably, "You seem to have been married for several years. Why did you leave? " Where are the children? Li Bing said: "Our life is floating, and there are some contradictions, such as the separation between the two places, which eventually led to the breakup. The child was awarded to her mother and the house in Chengdu was given to her. " Gan Ping comforted Li Bing: You will definitely find another like-minded wife. Wish you all the best.

One weekend, Li Bing invited Gan Ping to play golf. Gan Ping asked, "Who else will attend?" Li Bing said: "There is no one else in the suburbs, only you and me." Gan Ping refused: "It's not that I don't want to go, it's that I play with you alone, which will attract a lot of suspicion and be bad for you and me." Li Bing quickly said, "Sorry, I didn't consider this."

In 2002, Li Bing left the national team. He said goodbye to some old friends when he left Beijing. At the farewell party, he said to Gan Ping, "Sister Little Mermaid, don't forget to see your old brother when you go to Chengdu."

Soon, Gan Ping went to Chengdu to visit Xiao Jing, the "adopted daughter". After arriving in Chengdu, she called her old friend Li Bing who came to see her. In the afternoon, Gan Ping went to see Xiao Jing with a big bag of newly bought clothes and school supplies, and Bing took the initiative to accompany Gan Ping. In Xiao Jing's home, Gan Ping takes care of the children like a mother and does housework like a master. Ice is very moved to watch. When he left, he said to Gan Ping, you must be a good wife and mother in the future. Gan Ping's face is full of praise.

Shortly after Gan Ping returned to Beijing, Li Bing called her and expressed her kindness to Gan Ping. Gan Ping said with a smile, don't be ridiculous. We can only be good friends, not lovers.

In September 2002, libing and his friends went to Beijing to do business and deal in sporting goods. After he settled in Beijing, he called Gan Ping and she invited Li Bing to dinner. During the dinner, Li Bing expressed his affection for Gan Ping. Gan Ping said, we are together, can we stop talking about this?

In fact, Bing has long fallen in love with Gan Ping, her talent, her kindness and her gentleness. Gan Ping's refusal not only didn't scare him, but inspired his man's persistence and courage. In the pursuit of Li Bing, Gan Ping accepted his feelings.

They kept a low profile to avoid media tracking. Even in public, they kept their distance, so their relationship was never seen through by the media.

Famous singer Gan Ping: Restoring the truth of the "forced marriage" incident that year.

Gan Ping is a good helper in Li Bing's business. He won the agency of a Singaporean brand in China for Li Bing, and let Li Bing formally set up a company in Beijing. Gan Ping's investment in Li Bing's commercial activities met with many questions. In 2004, they went to Guangzhou for a business activity. In the euphemism of some friends, Gan Ping admitted his love affair with Li Bing.

Soon, all the media in Guangzhou, large and small, used the headline "Gan Ping generously admitted his love affair with Li Bing", greatly exaggerating their feelings. Gan Ping doesn't care about media reports. Later, after the national media and some websites reported one after another, the taste of the whole incident changed. Some people confuse Li Bing's divorce with today's "Li Gan's love" to show their doubts. As a result, some media insisted that Li Bing's divorce from his ex-wife was related to Gan Ping, and there must be a third party involved. Then, fans of Gan Ping also called and accused Gan Ping of being immoral and likable.

Gossip was overwhelming, and Gan Ping didn't know how to face it at the moment. She just kept explaining to reporters on the phone: "After Li Bing divorced for two years, I fell in love with him. How can it be a third party? " But the worse things get. Gan Ping is very painful and his life is greatly affected. Even if he sings on the stage, he can't sing.

However, the media did not give up the theme of "Li Gan is in love". Whenever Gan Ping appears in public, people ask about her and Bing. Later, Gan Ping was afraid to go out at all. In particular, the accusations of fans have made Gan Ping's audience lose, and she can't bear the pressure from outside. After a period of consideration, Gan Ping decided to end this relationship and clear his name.

Gan Ping and Li Bing broke up. Although Li Bing is very painful, considering that Gan Ping has always enjoyed a good reputation in the entertainment circle, Li Bing has now decided to respect Gan Ping's opinion because he made her so notorious. This relationship ended like this.

After breaking up, Gan Ping didn't want to take part in the performance, and he was tortured by gossip at home every day. Libing can't bear to work. He makes people drink every day and is too lazy to do business. In order to get rid of the string of love, Gan Ping went out to travel. During her travels, she often receives blessing messages from Li Bing, but she always deletes them quickly.

One day, Bing came to Gan Ping's residence, and Gan Ping opened the door. Bing looked at Gan Ping affectionately and said nothing. Suddenly, he held Gan Ping in his arms and said, "Let's stop torturing each other. No matter how much pressure there is from the outside world, as long as we love each other, why should we care what others say? "

Bing's persistence and strength infected Gan Ping, who snuggled up to Bing's chest. She suddenly felt that with this chest as a backer, she could not stand any wind and rain. Li Bing said, "Let's get married." . It takes courage to get married at the forefront, but Li Bing's love is power, and Gan Ping agreed.

In February 2004, Gan Ping married Li Bing. In order not to attract the attention of the outside world and the media, they did not invite friends, but only invited their families to get together and have a meal. The media soon caught the fact that Li Bing and Gan Ping got married. As a result, a media in Nanjing reported their love affair with the title "Li Bing was involved in divorce because of Gan Ping". The article also said that all the facts were told by a close friend of Li Bing in Chengdu: As early as 1994, when Gan Ping and Li Bing were advertising in Beijing, Li Bing was an assistant coach of the national team and enjoyed the treatment of one person and one room. The two met in secret. Later, Gan Ping asked Li Bing for a divorce and married her, but Li Bing never promised to marry Gan Ping.

Facing the distorted facts of the media, Li Bingbing said with a smile: "I have never been an assistant coach of the national team, and no one has lived in a house. This is sheer nonsense. "Gan Ping and Li Bing can't stand this malicious hype and want to take up legal weapons to safeguard their rights and interests and get justice for themselves. They also invited lawyers to consult on relevant legal issues. Later, my friend reminded me that going to court is the object of state media hype. The two had no choice but to give up.

Gan Ping and Li Bing decided to use silence to deal with the hype. Li Bing decided to study in Britain for a year, away from the wrong places. Li Bing went to England and Gan Ping lived in seclusion. The hype finally subsided. At the end of 2004, their daughter Li Zixuan was born. After becoming a mother, Gan Ping put her family and daughter first and devoted herself to being a good wife and mother.

When her daughter grew up, Gan Ping was freed from the heavy housework. In addition to singing, volunteering and engaging in public welfare activities, she often "gets an electric shock" and participates in film and television dramas such as "Tongbai Hero" and "Heart is Heaven". Li Bing has been coaching in the club, and successfully brought Sichuan Anna Poorna team into the national football league, winning 15 games in a row.

Over the years, Gan Ping fell silent. But she doesn't feel lost. She has a family, husband and daughter. She feels that her life is complete and happy.

In February, 2020, Gan Ping and Li Bing 16 got married, and both reached middle age. They come from the storm, know how to cherish and help each other, and live an ordinary and happy life.