Is it worth forgiving a man who has cheated many times?

Many girls often break down when their boyfriends cheat.

Because when one of the two people in love betrays, girls often think about these three questions.

"One is whether the feelings of two people have settled;

Second, have you settled down?

Whether the future of this relationship has been decided. "

As the subject said, her boyfriend has cheated many times, and she will only become more and more uneasy about this relationship. How can she continue to entangle this relationship? Continue, will boyfriends cheat more often?

In fact, the reason why a girl doesn't know how to treat her boyfriend's infidelity and how to handle this relationship is because she doesn't know what kind of infidelity her boyfriend belongs to.

We need to analyze whether his cheating is true love, temporary love or "temporary" on the basis of judging the type of cheating clearly.

Even girls who are adhering to the mentality of "once unfaithful, don't use it a hundred times" might as well learn to analyze the types of boys' infidelity, so that girls can better see a man, which is also conducive to their coping with emotional crisis and psychological reconstruction after the crisis.

First of all, among the types of men's infidelity, the most common is "passionate infidelity". Such a man will occasionally cheat because of feelings or things, and the first thing in his mind afterwards is to "go ashore at once."

This kind of derailment is often caused by men losing control in a specific emotional state. I have received such a consultation. A girl complained to me that her boyfriend went back to his hometown to attend a class reunion and had a drink and chat with a female classmate he liked in the past.

The more they talk, the more speculative they are. After the party, they went to the bar together, and finally went to the boyfriend's bar together. Under the influence of alcohol, two people broke out. Even though I knew that the female classmate was married and had a girlfriend, my boyfriend still made a mistake.

After going home to see his girlfriend, the boy didn't mention it, as nothing happened and didn't dare to tell his girlfriend. The only difference is that "after returning home, he became more considerate and concerned about his girlfriend." Finally, the girl who consulted for a long time found it on the boy's mobile phone. If it is not the chat record between boys and girls, girls may be kept in the dark forever.

Therefore, for such an derailed man, there is guilt and fear in his heart. If a girl has an affair with this type of boyfriend, it can actually measure whether she still has feelings for him. If she still has feelings, it is worth trying again.

Secondly, there is another type of man's derailment, which is "conflict derailment". It means that two people in intimate relationships are always quarreling, disagreeing, and there are many conflicts and contradictions. At this time, men and women will be very tired and very eager for comfort and communication from outsiders.

Then, if a woman (commonly known as green tea) can comfort a man, can listen, communicate, understand and sing, then this man is easy to cheat.

When encountering an opponent and provoking green tea, the average woman will only point the finger at Xiaosan, but there is no reason to analyze that "it is because of the relationship between your that it has developed to this point."

If you want to give your boyfriend a chance in this situation, you must first solve the problems between yourself and your boyfriend.

If you feel that you have met more other types of men cheating, you can pay attention to the teacher and I will analyze and answer for you.