An example of love

The pain will go away,

Only true love will always pay attention.

When my father talks to me, he always says, "Did I tell you how much I love you today?" From this

In short, I can deeply feel my father's love for me. With the passage of time, my father has entered old age and his physical strength is not as good as before.

However, the affection between our father and daughter is getting deeper and deeper every day.

At the age of 82, he is ready to let go, and I want him to get rid of his illness as soon as possible. we

Holding each other's hands, smiling and saying goodbye to each other, but my eyes are still full of tears. I said, "Dad, I'm waiting for you to leave.

Later, I hope to receive your message of peace. "He said with a smile that my idea is ridiculous because my father doesn't believe in reincarnation.

Samsara, in fact, I don't believe in ghosts and gods, but many of my personal experiences have made me doubt the other side.

People can communicate with us.

The so-called love between father and daughter, when my father left, I could feel his heart attack in my chest. Zuiling

I'm sorry that I couldn't hold his hand when he took his last breath due to some hospital regulations.

After my father left, I prayed to hear his voice every day and looked forward to his dream every night, but there was still no news;

For four months, I only heard condolences from relatives and friends. My mother died of Alzheimer's disease five years ago and lost her parents.

Even in middle age, I still feel helpless like a child.

One day, I hid in a dark and quiet room, waiting for my master to help me massage. For a while, I missed my father very much.

Chest full, I began to wonder if I was too eager to hear his voice. Suddenly, I realized that since

My mind is sharp and abnormal, and my mind is surprisingly clear. Even if you give me a long list of numbers, I can add and subtract freely. At first, I

I suspected that I was dreaming, but I was later sure that this feeling was 100% true. The initial confusion was that

My heart is like a drop of water disturbing the calm lake water, but it is unusually calm at this time. My heart was amazed at this change, which made me

I realized: maybe I shouldn't be so demanding to get information from my father.

Suddenly, I saw my mother's face in the dark-the rich face before she got sick was full of love: she still

White hair, still with a smile on his face. My mother's image is so vivid that I can feel it with my hands. she

She looks the same as before, and I even smell her favorite perfume of joy. She stood quietly in front of me, saying nothing.

Send. I wonder why I thought of my father, but my mother appeared. I feel that I haven't thought of my mother for a long time.

A little guilty.

I said, "Mom, that illness in your later years made you suffer."

Mother gently turned her head to one side, as if she understood my thoughts. She gave me a beautiful smile, but

Later, he said, "However, love is all my memories." Then she disappeared without a trace.

There was a sudden chill in the room, which made me shiver. At this time, I deeply feel that the most important thing is that we have.

Caring for each other; The pain will disappear, and only true love will always pay attention.

My mother's words woke me up. Until now, I still can't forget the moment I met her.

Although there has been no news of my father, I am convinced that one day, he will unexpectedly appear in front of me, and then

Say once: "Did I tell you how much I love you today?"

(Barbie Brostin)

true love

Jesus Christ. A hunchbacked woman would be a tragedy. Please give me a hunchback and leave my beauty to my bride.

Mercy Mendelssohn is the grandfather of a famous German composer. Apart from his short stature, his appearance is extremely ordinary.

And an interesting camel.

One day, he went to Hamburg to visit a businessman who had a beloved daughter named Fauci.

He fell in love with her, but Fauci turned him down because of his deformed appearance.

When it was time to leave, Moses got up the courage, went upstairs to Fossey's room and finally caught her.

A chance to speak. She has an angelic face, but to his great dismay, Fauci always refuses to look him in the eye. famous book

After trying to communicate many times, he shyly asked, "Do you believe that marriage is destiny takes a hand?"

She stared at the floor and answered, "I believe it", and then asked him, "Do you believe it?"

He replied, "I heard that before every boy is born, God will tell him which woman he will marry in the future."

Kid. When I was born, my future bride was betrothed to me. God told me that my bride was a camel.

"I implore God:' God! A hunchbacked woman will be a tragedy. Please give me a hunchback.

Leave my beauty to my bride. "

At that time, Fauci looked into Mersey's eyes and was troubled by some deep memories. She held out her hand to him.

Later, he became his most beloved wife.

(Bailey and Joyce Vizer)

Hug the judge

How simple it is to make other people's lives a little different and a little brighter!

Li Shapiro is a retired judge. He is very caring by nature. Throughout his life, he always took love as the premise.

Because he knows that love is the greatest power. So he always hugs others. His college classmates gave him the "hug method"

"The police officer's nickname. Even the bumper of the car says, "Leave me alone! Hug me! "

About six years ago, he invented the so-called "hug device". It says outside, "A hugging heart."

It contains 30 embroidered red hearts and can be attached to the back. He often brings "hug equipment" to the crowd, by giving a

Heart, a hug.

Li is famous for this, so many people invite him to speak at relevant meetings or conferences; He always shares it with others.

Enjoy the concept of "unconditional love". Once, at a meeting in Los Angeles, the local tabloid challenged him: "Hug ginseng.

Of course, it is easy for people to join the meeting because they choose to attend, but this is not feasible in real life.

Yes "

They asked Li if he could hug passers-by on the streets of Los Angeles. A large number of TV crews followed Li to the streets.

Visit. First, Li greeted the passing women: "Hi! I'm Li Shapiro, and everyone calls me' Hug the judges'.

If I can exchange this love for a hug with you. "Women readily agreed, but local news commentators thought it was

It's too simple. Li looked around. He saw a policewoman giving a ticket to the owner of a BMW. Li congrong

I stepped forward without hesitation, and all the cameras followed. Then he said, "You look like you need a hug,

I am a' hug judge', and I can give a hug for free. "The policewoman accepted.

The TV commentator did the last question: "Look, here comes a bus." . As we all know,

Bus drivers in Los Angeles are the most difficult, complaining and bad-tempered. Let's see what you can get from the driver.

Hug? "Li accepted the challenge.

When the bus stopped at the side of the road, Li and the driver said, "Hi! I'm Judge Li, and everyone calls me' Hug'.

Judge driving is a stressful job! I want to hug some people today, so that people can unload their burdens and then

Keep working. Do you need a hug? The bus driver, who is 6 feet 2 inches tall and weighs 230 pounds, left his seat.

Get off the bus and say happily, "Good!"

Li hugged him and gave him a red heart. He watched the car leave and said goodbye. All the employees interviewed

Be speechless. Finally, the commentator had to admit that he lost.

One day, Lee's friend Nancy Janston came to visit him. She is a professional clown, wearing a clown costume and drawing small pictures.

Ugly face.

She came to invite Li to bring "hug equipment" to visit friends in the home for the disabled.

When they arrived, they began to distribute balloons, hats and hearts, and hugged the patients there. Li felt in his heart

It's sad because he never hugged a dying patient, a person with severe mental retardation or quadriplegia. I was reluctant at first, but

After a while, with the encouragement of doctors and nurses, Nancy and Lee feel much more relaxed.

A few hours later, they finally came to the last ward. There, Li saw everything he saw in his life.

The worst 34 patients, suddenly his mood became very complicated. Their task is to separate love and light up illness.

The lights in people's hearts came on, so Li and Nancy began to exude joy. At this time, the whole room was crowded with inspired medical staff.

They have small red hearts at the neckline and lovely balloon caps on their heads.

Finally, Li came to the last patient, Leonard. Leo looks lazy in a white bib.

Drooling. Seeing his mouth watering, Li said to Nancy, "Let's jump over and ignore him!" " "Nancy replied," but.

He is one of us! "Then she put the funny balloon hat on Leo's head. Li posted a picture of Zhang Xiaohong.

The heart is on the bib. He took a deep breath and bent down to hug Leo.

Suddenly, Leo began to giggle and other patients began to jingle in the room. Li thought back.

When I asked the medical staff what was going on, I saw all the doctors and nurses crying with joy. Li had to ask the long-haired nurse

What happened?

I will never forget her answer: "For the first time in 23 years, we saw Leo smiling."

How simple it is to make other people's lives a little different and a little brighter!

(Jack canfield, Mark Victor Harsen)

I am very important.

People who respect others will be respected by others. It's like standing in front of a mirror, you're angry with him, you

Laugh, and he laughs.

A teacher who teaches in new york decided to show her gratitude to her students by telling them how important they are.

She decided to adopt a practice that I advocated, that is, call the students to the podium one by one, and then tell everyone about this classmate.

Learning is important to the whole class and to her, and give everyone a blue ribbon with "I am" written in gold.

Important. "

After that, the teacher wants to make a class research plan to see what impact such actions will have on a community.

Have a little influence. She gave each student three ribbon pins, taught them to go out and give others the same thank-you ceremony, and then observed.

The results will be reported to the class in a week.

A boy in the class went to a nearby company to find a young supervisor because he guided him to complete his life plan.

The boy pinned a blue ribbon on his shirt and two others, and then explained, "I"

We are doing a research. We must go out and give the blue ribbon to those who thank you and give you extra pins.

So they can do the same thank-you ceremony to others. Next time, please tell me the result this time. "

A few days later, the young supervisor went to see his boss. In some ways, his boss is irritable, not.

Easy-going colleague, but very talented, expressed his admiration for his creative talent to his boss, who was very surprised.

The young supervisor asked him to accept the blue ribbon and allowed him to help him put it on. The boss with a surprised face replied brightly.

Yes

The young man pinned the ribbon on the boss's coat, just above his chest, gave him the rest of the pins, and then

Ask him, "Can you do me a favor? Give this ribbon to the person you thank. This is a gift from a boy.

He is doing a research. We want to continue this thank-you ceremony and see what it will bring to everyone.

Effect. "

That night, the boss came home, sat next to his 14-year-old son and told him, "something happened today."

Incredible things. In the office, a young colleague told me that he appreciated my creative talent very much.

Gave me a blue ribbon. Think about it, he thinks my creative talent is so respectable that he will even print' I am very

Don't pin the ribbon on my jacket, give me an extra pin so that I can give it to myself to thank the people I respect.

When I drove home tonight, I began to think about who to give the brooch to. I thought of you, and you are the one I want to thank.

"These days, I didn't spend a lot of energy to take care of you, and I didn't accompany you when I went home. I'm really ashamed.

Sometimes I yell at you because your academic performance is not good enough and your room is too messy. But tonight, I just want to sit.

Here, let you know how important you are to me. You are the most important person in my life besides your mother. Good boy,

I love you. "

His children were very surprised. He began to sob, and finally burst into tears uncontrollably, and his body kept shaking. he

I looked at my father and said tearfully, "Dad, I was going to kill myself tomorrow. I thought you didn't love me at all. now

I don't think it's necessary. "

gift

Love never grows old, it keeps an eternal flame and immortal brilliance, and the existence of the world depends on it.

Zola

This touching story happened on a bus, which stumbled along a remote road in the south.

The passenger in the car is a thin old man with a bunch of flowers in his hand. When the car passed the church, a girl came over.

Staring at the old man's flowers.

When the old man was about to get off the bus, he suddenly impulsively pushed the flowers in his hand into the girl's arms. He hurried to solve it.

Shi said, "I can see that you like this bunch of flowers very much, and I think my wife will be glad that you have this bunch of flowers." I'll sue

Tell her I gave you the flowers. "

After receiving the bouquet, the girl watched the old man get off the bus and watched him slowly walk to the door of a small cemetery.

Brother's wish

People should keep themselves in their hearts, not those who are happier than us, but only those who are happier than us.

A man worthy of sympathy.

-Rousseau

At Christmas, Paul's brother gave him a new car. On Christmas day, when Paul left the office, a boy

Around the shiny new car, he asked enviously, "Sir, is this your car?"

Paul nodded. "This is a Christmas present from my brother." The boy was surprised and said falteringly:

"You mean this is a gift from your brother, and it didn't cost you a dime? I wish I could ... "

Of course, Paul thought he wanted a brother to give him a car, but what the boy said shocked Paul very much.

"I hope I can be a brother who sends a car to my brother." The boy continued.

Paul looked at the boy in surprise and impulsively invited him: "Do you want to take a ride in my car?"

The boy happily got on the bus and made a short detour. The boy's eyes were full of excitement and said, "Sir,

Can you drive in front of my house? "

Paul smiled, thinking that the boy must show off to his neighbors and let everyone know that he went home in a big car.

I didn't expect Paul to guess wrong again. "Can you park your car in front of those two steps?" The boy asked.

The boy ran up the stairs. After a while, Paul heard his voice coming back, but it seemed a little slow. the original

He came out with his lame brother, put him on the steps, hugged him tightly and pointed to the new car.

I heard the boy tell his brother, "Look, this is the new car I told you about upstairs just now. This is Paul.

His brother gave it to him! I'll give you a car like this in the future, and then you can go and see those hanging cars.

Beautiful decorations in the Christmas window. "

Paul got out of the car and carried the lame boy to the front seat of the car. The big boy with sparkling eyes climbed into the car and sat down.

Next to my brother. In this way, the three of them started an unforgettable holiday ride.

On that Christmas Eve, Paul really realized what Jesus said: "It is more blessed to give than to receive".

(dan clark)

courage

As long as we can live and die together, even pain becomes joy.

-romain rolland

"Do you think I have the courage?" She asked.

"Yes, you have a lot of courage."

"If I have some courage, it is because I can give you a listen to it after being enlightened by several mentors.

Many years ago, I volunteered at Stanford Hospital, when I met a little girl named Lisa. She was very ill,

This situation is very rare, and the only chance to save her life is to receive a blood transfusion from her five-year-old brother, because her brother also has it.

Suffered from this disease, but miraculously saved, and now antibodies against this virus are produced in the body. The doctor asked the little

The boy explained the situation and asked him if he would donate blood to his sister. I saw him hesitate for only half a second, and then took a deep breath.

Said,' If I can save Lisa, I will.' "

"During the blood transfusion, he lay quietly beside his sister, and when her cheeks returned to ruddy, he couldn't help laughing.

But then he put away his smile, looked at the doctor's pale face and asked in a trembling voice, "I'm going to die soon."

Really? "

"It turned out that he was too young to understand the doctor's meaning and thought he would lose all his blood to his sister."

"Yes, I know what courage is," she added, "because I saw an example."

(dan millman)

Say your love.

Who can't love, who doesn't understand life.

Gorky

Once, I was invited to give a speech on effective management in a foreign country. On the night of arrival, several people from the organizer

Invite me to dinner and talk about the audience who will come to the lecture tomorrow.

Ed is obviously the leader of these people, big and low-pitched. He told me that he was a big family.

The manager of an international enterprise is mainly responsible for going to some branches to deal with the more difficult personnel problems in the company.

Terminate the employment of some senior executives.

"Joe," he said, "I'm really looking forward to tomorrow's speech, because after listening to your ideas, these people will

Know that my management style is correct. "He smiled proudly at me.

I smiled, because I knew that the situation tomorrow was definitely different from what he imagined.

The next day, Ed listened to the whole speech without expression, and then left the meeting without saying a word.

Three years later, I returned to my old place and delivered another speech on management to the same audience. I am in the audience again.

Found ed. Just as the speech was about to begin, he suddenly stood up and asked me at the top of his lungs, "Joe, can I say a few words first?"

A word? "

I said jokingly, "Of course, you are so old that you can say whatever you like, and I dare not stop you."

Ed went on to say, "Everyone here knows me, and some of them know my recent changes. Today I

I want to share my personal experience with you. Joe, I'm sure my words will make you feel gratified. "

"In a speech three years ago, Joe once said that if you want to cultivate a tough will, you must first learn to be with you.

People close to me say I love you. I didn't think much about it at first, thinking that such disgusting words and perseverance would do.

What does it have to do with this? Joe said toughness and hardness are different. Toughness is like leather and hardness is like granite. One is strong-willed.

Tough people should be open-minded, indomitable, self-disciplined and flexible. I agree with these words, but it has something to do with love.

What does it matter? "

"That night, my wife and I sat at the two ends of the living room, still thinking about Joe's words. I suddenly found myself playing drums.

I have no courage to express my love to my wife. I cleared my throat several times, but the words came to my lips and only made some vague sounds.

The rest were swallowed back. My wife looked up and asked me what I had just mumbled. I answered casually, no.

Things. Suddenly, I got up and walked up to her, nervously took the newspaper from her hand and said, "Alice, I like it." .

She was speechless for a long time, tears welled up in her eyes, and then she said softly, "Ed, I love you, too." .

You, this is the first time in 25 years that you say you love me. "

"We were deeply moved at that time and deeply realized that love can resolve all disputes and frictions. All of a sudden, I feel like I've been drummed.

Dance, immediately dialed the telephone of the eldest son in new york, we haven't contacted for a long time. As soon as I heard his voice

I blurted out,' Son, maybe you think I'm drunk, but I'm sober now. I just called to tell you.

You and I both love you. "

"He was silent for a moment at the other end of the microphone, and then said quietly,' Dad, I know you love me, so I'm glad to be like this.

After hearing you tell me yourself, I will tell you that I love you. "

We started chatting and had a good time. Then I called my youngest son in San Francisco and told him

The same thing, as a result, our father and son talked for a long time, and I never felt that warm again.

"That night, I was lying in bed thinking, and finally realized that what Joe said had a deeper meaning: if I could

Really understanding the meaning of treating others with love and practicing it will definitely have a positive impact on my management style. "

"I started reading books on related subjects and learned a lot of valuable experience from them, which made me know this set better.

Philosophy can be applied to all aspects of life, whether at home or at work. "

"Some of you know that I have completely changed the way I interact with people. I began to listen carefully to other people's ideas;

I learned to appreciate the advantages of others more and care less about their shortcomings; I also know how fast it is to help others build confidence.

Music. But most importantly, I understand now that the best way to respect others is to encourage them to give full play to their abilities.

Force, to achieve the goal of everyone * * *. "

"Joe, by taking this opportunity today, I want to say thank you. By the way, I'm in the company now.

Deputy director, the leadership ability is quite certain. All right, everybody, now concentrate on his speech! "

(Joe Betton)

One more compliment.

The more people hope for each other, the more they want to give each other ... the closer they must be.

A few days ago, I took a taxi with a friend in new york. When I got off the bus, my friend said to the driver, "Thank you, give me a ride."

This car is very comfortable. "The driver was shocked and then said," Are you a gangster? "

"No, driver, I'm not making fun of you. I admire you for holding your breath in traffic jams. "

"Yes!" The driver said that and drove away.

"Why do you say that?" I asked in confusion.

"I hope new york is more humane," he replied. "Only in this way can the city be saved."

"How can you do it alone?"

"I just take the lead. I believe that a little compliment can make the driver happy all day if he

There are 20 passengers on the bus today. He will be kind to these 20 passengers, who will be infected by the driver.

Be kind to people around you. So my goodwill can be indirectly conveyed to 1000 people, isn't it? "

"But how can you expect the taxi driver to do what you think?"

"I didn't expect it to be him," my friend replied. "I know this practice is rare, so I tried my best.

Be kind to others and praise others more, even if the success rate is only 30% a day, it can still affect as many as 3000 people. "

"I admit that this theory is very nice, but how practical can it be?"

"Even if you don't succeed, I have no loss! I don't need a few seconds to praise the driver, and he won't charge less.

Tip. It doesn't matter if that person is indifferent. I can praise another taxi driver tomorrow! "

"I think your head is a little childish."

"From this we can see that you are becoming more and more indifferent. I have investigated the employees of the post office, and they are the most depressed except the salary.

Apart from the lack of water, others don't admit their work. "

"But their service is really poor!"

"That's because they think nobody cares about their service quality. Why don't we give them more encouragement? "

We walked and talked, passing by a construction site, and five workers were having lunch. My friend stopped.

Step, "this building is well built. Your job must be very dangerous and hard, right? " This group of workers looks suspicious.

Look at my friends.

"When will this project be completed?" The friend continued to ask.

"June." A worker replied in a low voice.

"You must be very proud of such excellent results."

After leaving the construction site, I said to him, "People like you can also be listed as endangered animals."

"These people may work harder because of my words, which is not good for everyone.

And then what? "

"But what's the use of you alone? You are just a nobody. "

"I often tell myself never to be discouraged. It is not a simple matter to make this society more affectionate. I can influence it.

One is one, but two is two ... "

"The woman who just walked by is plain, but you still smile at her?" I interrupted and asked.

"yes! I know, "he replied," if she is a teacher, I think the people who attend her class today must be like Mu Chun.

The wind. "

(Astra Buschwald)

One last thing. ...

Silent innocence is often more touching than words.

-Shakespeare

The 26-year-old mother stared at her son suffering from hemophilia. Although her heart is full of sadness, at the same time,

She also made up her mind that, like other parents, she wanted her son to realize all his dreams when he grew up. such as

All this is impossible today, because the disease will always haunt him. Even so, she still hopes that her son's dream can come true.

Realize.

She held her son's hand and asked, "Babsy, have you ever thought about what you want to be when you grow up?" What do you think of your life,

Have you had any dreams? "

"Mom, I always wanted to be a fireman when I grow up."

Mother choked back her sadness and said with a smile, "I'll see if I can make your wish come true." Later that day, she

I went to the local fire brigade in Phoenix, Arizona, and found fireman Bob, who has a big heart. This mother

I explained my son's last wish to him and asked him if he could get on the fire truck and walk around the corner a few times.

Bob said, "Not only that, we can do better. If you put your son at 7: 00 on Wednesday morning,

Bring it here, and we'll make him an honorary fireman all day. He can come to the fire station and eat with us.

Eat together, go to work together. By the way, if you give me his size, we can also customize a real fire control system for him.

Eye, attach a real fire hat, not a toy hat, with the badge of Phoenix Fire Department printed on it, which is what we wear.

Yellow waterproof clothing and rubber boots. These things are all made by Phoenix and can be obtained quickly. "

Three days later, fireman Bob took Babsy, helped him put on his fire uniform and escorted him from his hospital bed to the hospital.

Anti-vehicle. Babysi had to sit in the back seat of the car, and Bob led him back to the fire station, as if he were in heaven.

There were three fires in Phoenix that day, and Babysi was on duty every time. He took different fire engines and ambulances.

Cars, even the fire chief's car. He also makes videos for local news programs.

Babysi was deeply moved because his dream came true and all the love and care were injected into him. He is better than a doctor.

I lived three months longer than expected.

One night, all his vital signs began to drop sharply, and the head nurse hurriedly called his family to the hospital.

Then she remembered that Babesy used to be a fireman, so she also called the fire chief and asked him if he could send one.

Firefighters in uniform came to the hospital to accompany Babesy on his deathbed. The captain replied, "We can do better.

All right. We will arrive in five minutes. Can you do me a favor? Please inform the hospital when you hear the siren and see the warning light flashing.

This is not a real fire alarm, but the fire brigade came to see their good friend for the last time. Please open the window of his room,

Thank you. "

About five minutes later, a fire truck rushed to the hospital and extended the ladder to the window on the third floor of Ba Bethea. There are 14 firefighters.

Team members and two female firefighters climbed the ladder and entered Babysi's room. With his mother's consent, they hugged him,

Shake hands with him and tell him how much they love him.

Before taking his last breath, Babisi looked at the fire chief and said, "Captain, I can be regarded as a real fire brigade now."

Member? "

"Come on! Babesi. " The captain said.

With these words, Babysi closed her eyes with a smile.

(Jack canfield, Mark Victor Harsen)