Why do girlfriends hate having children?

Pregnancy 10 months, not only physical discomfort, but also psychological suffering.

Think about your girlfriend. After getting pregnant, she went to work. She smelled the jiaozi flavor of leek stuffing on the road, and immediately felt sick and nauseous, but she couldn't spit it out and kept retching.

Besides morning sickness, she also has stretch marks, which are itchy. This feeling is like countless bugs crawling and biting on her stomach.

Even if I sleep at night, I dare not turn over casually, because my vagina hurts.

She will be anxious because of many subsequent changes, and even more afraid that no one will understand her and take it for granted that she has a child.

The pain of giving birth is even more unimaginable.

In Shengmen, there is a passage about the production experience of female obstetrician Mao. She described her feelings as "more painful than cutting with a knife, and vomiting when eating". Prenatal labor pains have lasted for six and a half hours, and the cervical eloquence has opened a finger. Under this painful torture, her heart is dead.

The clinical grade of pain is 0- 10:

0-3 points is mild pain, from being bitten by mosquitoes to just cutting the skin;

4-6 is divided into moderate pain, such as gastroenteritis, hand being caught in the door, female dysmenorrhea, etc.

The score of 7- 10 is severe pain, electric shock, knife injury and childbirth;

To some extent, the pain of childbirth is really like being stirred by a knife, which lasts for seven or eight hours.

In addition, there is actually a fourth test.

There are old people in the world, you can't always be around; Some small ones can't grow up with them.

If you have a child, you will be afraid that you can't afford him. Milk powder money, education money, children will get sick. Not only will it cost a lot of money, but it will also be scary. You should always pay attention to his physical condition.

When I was a child, I was sickly. Once I suddenly had diarrhea, so dehydrated that I couldn't open my eyelids. My mom panicked, too At that time, her family was still in a small county, and the medical conditions were not good enough. Because there was no bus to Wuhan at night, she hugged me and begged a truck driver to drive us to Wuhan. Afterwards, my mother said that she was afraid that I would die like this.

I have to say, I really admire those girls who have children. You are really something.