Why do men hide private money?

I think it is rare for men to hide private money. Men's income is basically given to their own women, but some women are misers, and men are seriously henpecked, but such men are often the best at hiding private money. It's normal for men to have three or five friends when they go out, but they can't always pay for it, can they? At this time, if the wife loses face, men often have the idea of hiding private money. We all have our own hobbies, so do men? At this time, we also need money to satisfy them. Then if women strongly oppose it, it will arouse men's desire to hide private money. Of course, men's love for flowers is definitely not supported.

The differences between husband and wife's consumption views after marriage are mainly reflected in men, such as games, smoking, socializing and drinking. In order to control men's consumption, women will limit men's money restrictions. At present, personal feelings are understandable. For men, smoking and socializing may be what they think they should do. I don't want to ask women for money because of these trifles, so I will save some pocket money appropriately. The contradiction on this point is inherent.

Men sometimes feel insecure if they don't save some money that they can decide, although it may be useless for them to ask for it. But I want some emergency money. You can take it out directly without consulting the woman. This happens because the man lacks certain trust in the woman, or the two sides may have different consumption concepts before.

Moreover, some families will support the elderly, or spoil their children, and some will support the elderly, which may be patriarchal or male chauvinism. When a man doesn't want to use money urgently, he will discuss with his wife, which will make him decide whether to lose face or not to show his actual situation in front of his parents. For children, sometimes I want to give them something. There may be a reason for this. Everyone knows whether the last one is cheating or other reasons.