Five years ago, a 23-year-old boy in Chongqing insisted on marrying a 46-year-old aunt despite his family's opposition. What about marriage?

Although people are not so easy to accept "love for the past year", what is even more difficult to accept is a pair of people who really love each other, but they are separated by Yin and Yang because of their age, which is very regrettable.

But it's comforting to know that not all "love for the past year" is a tragedy. There is a 23-year-old young man who, regardless of secular vision, resolutely married a 46-year-old divorced aunt, and still loved each other as before five years later.

Tan Wanping, a 23-year-old boy from liangping county, Chongqing, is a Nong Erdai. Although his family is not rich, it is not poor. After graduating from high school, Tan Wanping gave up his studies and learned a cooking skill with a chef. He became a chef himself. Although his salary is not high, he is still well-off to support himself.

Because young people who don't go to school in rural areas marry early, Tan Wanping, 23, has reached the age of marriage. Parents at home broke their hearts about the only son's marriage and introduced many blind dates. Tan Wanping refused blind dates on the grounds that he was still young and wanted to be free for a few more years.

As a young boy born in 199s, among all his hobbies, he likes cycling best, and it is also because of this interest that he got to know his life partner-Li Liangyou.

Li Liangyou is a medical worker with a vice-senior title in a hospital in Liangping. He is also a member of Chongqing Photographers Association and loves cycling. I have been divorced and have children of my own. The two met in the QQ group of cycling enthusiasts, and gradually became online bosom friends because of their similar interests and very chatting.

Tan Wanping is becoming more and more interested in this online confidant and wants to see her face. One day, Tan Wanping decided to meet Li Liangyou, and they made an appointment online.

Li Liangyou became nervous unconsciously, and chatting online was ok, but once she met face to face, she was afraid of embarrassment, and she was afraid that her age would scare the young man who talked with her happily and seemed to like her very much. After all, she had a family and was a mother.

In order to prevent embarrassment after meeting, Li Liangyou decided to be honest with Tan Wanping. She told the truth about herself. She is 46 years old, divorced and has children.

Tan Wanping was very surprised after hearing this. He thought that this confidant who knew and understood him so well should be a young woman of her own age, but she didn't expect to be so different from her own age.

The huge gap with his own expectations made Tan Wanping feel uneasy for a long time. He thought about it all night and decided to follow his heart. He felt that he had fallen in love, and this love could cross the age limit. Tan Wanping still met Li Liangyou as promised.

get to know each other and love each other

after an appointment, both of them carefully prepared to meet for the first time, that is, they were expecting and nervous, much like young people in their first love.

After that, both of them arrived at the meeting place on time and as promised. Tan Wanping met Li Liangyou and felt that there was not a big gap between her and her imagination. She was gentle, atmospheric and dignified, which was the appearance of her ideal girlfriend.

After that, they met to take part in a bicycle riding competition. During the riding process, Li Liangyou, who has a relatively professional riding level, fell down carelessly because of the slippery road and fast speed during the turning. Tan Wanping did not hesitate to give up the cycling competition and ran to the hospital with his injured Li Liangyou on his back.

During the hospitalization, Tan Wanping often visited Li Liangyou and stayed to take care of her from time to time. They got to know each other better during Li Liangyou's hospitalization. Perhaps it was a warm greeting or a casual physical contact, so that Li Liangyou, who wanted to get along with Tan Wanping only as an ordinary friend, gradually became fond of him.

The man in front of me, gentle and careful, takes care of her like a child, which makes her 46-year-old heart beat, as if she had disappeared for nearly 3 years and returned to her girlhood.

During their time together, Li Liangyou feels as if he is still young, and he likes to wear younger and more fashionable clothes. After that, they officially confirmed their relationship. After falling in love for two months, Tan Wanping felt that their relationship was suitable for further development and proposed to Li Liangyou.

All ends well, jack shall have Jill

The love between two lovers is not so smooth, what's more, the first obstacle to this kind of "forgetting love" is the parents' opposition.

Tan Wanping's parents knew that their son was going to marry a divorced woman his own age, so they strongly disagreed and complained angrily that Tan Wanping took marriage as a joke.

It turns out that Tan Wanping is serious. Despite the opposition of his family, he resolutely married Li Liangyou. Their marriage was neither supported by his family nor favored by his friends.

After Li Liangyou and Tan Wanping got married, their lives were not peaceful. Tan Wanping's parents often went to Li Liangyou's work unit to make trouble and asked Li Liangyou to leave his son. However, every time Li Liangyou expressed his determination and patiently looked after Tan Wanping's parents. The parents had been quarreling for a long time, but they still did not destroy their feelings. Slowly, they stopped quarreling and were forced to accept this fact.

Li Liangyou knows that her in-laws hate her, but she still visits them often and always gets along well with her parents. Gradually, Tan Wanping's parents accepted the daughter-in-law.

In addition, this "mother-child love" which is 23 years apart is always a topic of idle talk by others, and it is always ridiculed by outsiders. They also face more practical problems. For example, when it comes to having children, it is difficult for Li Liangyou, who is old, to get pregnant, and it is also dangerous to get pregnant. However, Tan Wanping said that he did not care about children's problems.

Later, in order to create better living conditions, Tan Wanping quit his job as a chef and prepared to work as a car beauty worker with higher salary. In their married life, they are as inevitable as other couples, but they always solve the problem on the same day. After five years of marriage, they still love each other as before.

Summary:

There are always many setbacks and obstacles in love. Sanmao and musician Wang Luobin are the same age in love setbacks, but they didn't have the courage to face setbacks and overcome difficulties, and finally they missed their beloved in the form of tragedy, which is really regrettable.

So, we might as well learn from Li Liangyou and Tan Wanping. Since we meet love, we should take the initiative to grasp it, and don't wait until we lose it before regretting it. If Tan Wanping gave up Li Liangyou because of his age, he would not only lose a confidant forever, but more likely he would never meet such a heart-warming person again.

Li Liangyou's happiness now lies in his original insistence. He didn't feel inferior because of his age and didn't accept Tan Wanping's love. He didn't attach too much importance to outsiders' eyes and didn't repeat the love tragedy of musician Wang Luobin.

So, no matter what outsiders think, what matters is ourselves. When we meet love, others can't experience it personally and stay in it. Others' opinions are just reference. Happiness is our own, so we should grasp it ourselves.