We have never been seriously young, just getting older.

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In recent years, I have taken a family photo almost every Spring Festival, which makes people cry every time. Looking at the camera, my parents' gray sideburns are getting old and haggard, and my heart is sour.

Grandma lived for 9 1 year, and now she has been gone for almost ten years. She's not in the camera anymore. The dog who accompanied him for 8 years also died last year. They are the last thing the family wants to talk about.

In fact, everyone can understand that people, like animals, have no autonomy in life.

We are alive now, and we can't know exactly how far we can go. The only thing I can control is to live every moment.

However, the present is not easy to control, and the world itself has no eternal moment.

San Ji moved to another place and couldn't stop thinking about it. As the Diamond Sutra said, "You can't get the experience in the past, you can't get the experience now, and you can't get the experience in the future." The heart does not stop, and time does not stop.

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My parents work hard. At that time, there was always a lack of clothes and food, and there was not enough food and clothing. Grandma has eight brothers and sisters. Several brothers died one after another during the war. In peacetime, there is not much left. But even so, life is not easy.

The food at home is not good, only the life of doing farm work. Grandma doesn't know a word, even money. It's sad that the hard-earned grain is sold in the market, but it's fake money.

Adhering to the concept of having many children, she gave birth to six children and survived five, and her father ranked fifth in the family.

I thought I could turn over by my child, but when my father beat me to it, she was over seventy years old. My teeth began to loosen, I couldn't eat if I wanted to, and my body was not particularly tough, so I couldn't walk far.

In my old age, I often don't leave home, just go upstairs and downstairs.

Later, I couldn't even climb the stairs. I'm in and out of a room the size of a palm. After an accident, the living space is only the size of a bed. Broken bone, lying in bed for two months, and finally left.

Grandma's life ended like this, and my father continued to live with deep pain and love for us.

After leaving the leadership position, the work is not so busy, but with the growth of age, the body can't stand it. It is often uncomfortable here and there.

Loose teeth, unable to chew hard things; Uric acid is too high can't eat soup or seafood; Gout is serious, and the feet are swollen and can't walk; Have stomach trouble, but also suffer from many restrictions in diet. ...

Father always said that times are still good for you. You can live a good life while you are young. With our share, your burden is not so heavy.

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Live while you are young. This is our parents' hope and naturally our yearning.

But every generation has its own troubles, and every generation has its own troubles.

In a materialistic society, many people have been lost in their youth and don't know the direction. I used to be myself. 3. 1 minute life in the ivory tower has long been unable to accommodate a turbulent heart.

Often in the excitement with my classmates, I look at the high sky in a daze and dream of an unrealistic life.

Materially, I don't know how to control myself, and I always feel that my desires can't be filled. Slowly, trouble is coming. If you want to control your troubles, you can only work hard and earn money part-time, which will affect your studies. The college life you should enjoy has been put on the coat of running for survival.

Don't we want to live seriously? No, I don't understand the essence of life, and I don't know how to be content.

A truly peaceful life is always about what you do and what you take seriously.

Unfortunately, when I really realized it, I was already in middle age. When people reach middle age, everything is out of their control. There are old people and villains in the world, and there are careers in them. Look up at those people who need themselves but have nothing to rely on. Indeed, middle age is a busy day.

Zhu Xizhou's Shadow of Dreams says: "Youth should not be in prosperity, old age should not be in adversity, and middle age should not be idle."

Middle-aged people are busy and seldom enjoy time. The child is crying and laughing; The old man is tired and sick; I'm bored at work ..... They don't take up their time any more.

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For a long time, I was in a busy state. The busier I am, the more uneasy I am. Busy taking care of children every day, busy writing, and then busy dealing with various interpersonal relationships. Everything is external.

However, I don't know that the happiness of life lies in the determination and peace of mind, and in the care and seriousness of life.

However, I have been busy all my youth, always hesitating between pursuing and giving up, suffering from loss. Never took life seriously.

A truly serious life lies in choice. But how many people can see through it? Human nature is greedy, if you want to be satisfied with people in the world, unless Conan dreams of the West.

In recent days, perhaps the circle of contact has changed, and the edification has made the mind by going up one flight of stairs.

I spent the whole Spring Festival holiday with my children and family. My parents came to Nanning to see a doctor. My mind was shocked again, and with some physical discomfort, I knew I should stop to think and live a good life.

Marlowe, an English poet, said, "There is only one kind of success. You can live according to your own wishes." When you retired from Japan, you were successful.

In this way, from this moment on, we will embrace a successful life and begin to live seriously, writing, taking photos, attending classes and going to work ... every moment will be delicate, treat everyone who has a heart-to-heart, and taste the bitterness and joy of life with like-minded relatives and friends, because we are no longer young.

About the author: He: writer, screenwriter, graduated from Chinese Department, member of Writers Association, multi-platform signing author, lecturer in popular writing, lecturer in mind mapping. ?