That year Aden met the most beautiful love.

Daocheng Yading is a small county located in Ganzi Prefecture, Sichuan Province. After the film "Passing Through Your World" was released, it spread all over the country overnight and became a love shrine in the hearts of Chinese people.

At that time, friends around me often asked me, Xiao Deng, haven't you been there? How is it there?

I said, this is a great place, where I see the best side of love.

02

It was the summer of 20 1 1, and our family was fascinated by the second year of going to road trip.

We started from Xi 'an and took the famous Sichuan-Tibet Line 3 18 National Highway. At that time, the line had not been renovated, and it was mountainous, steep and rainy. More than 40 breakpoints on the road from xinduqiao to Daocheng were washed away by flash floods. This extreme natural condition drove away 90% of go on road trip passengers.

There are three cars in our group, which is about the remaining 10%, which is the so-called two-missing family combination. Hand in hand, we experienced directional blasting, landslides, gasoline shortage and car body failure all the way, and finally passed through the customs to fight monsters and saw the true face of Mount Aden.

At that moment, we sincerely felt that it was worthwhile to redouble our efforts along the way.

03

It was here that I met my handsome and shy Tibetan brother Peng Cuo.

He is our guide, an out-and-out Tibetan in Aden. He will not only tell us about the Tibetan beliefs in the Three Gods Mountain in Aden, but also about his family life.

This is the first time that we have such a profound understanding of Tibetans. Their way of life is completely different from the modern city where we live. We are only two years apart, but we live a completely different life: I study English, love photography and travel; He drinks, herds sheep, builds houses and worships God.

Sometimes I even have the illusion that Peng Cuo and I seem to live in two parallel worlds.

04

Once, Peng Cuo and I talked about a topic that only peers can talk about.

"Do you have a boyfriend?

"No."

"This place is very good. You should come with your boyfriend. "

"I am still young." I deliberately imitated my parents' tone.

"Your age is not small here! It's very late to get married this year! "

The first time I heard Tibetans talk about marriage, I couldn't help wondering: "Is there a bride price or dowry for getting married here?" Do you want to meet your parents, buy a house, or ... "Thinking that they have been herding cattle and sheep here, I swallowed the stupid question of whether to ask me about my future work plan.

In the face of my series of questions, his answer was short: "No need. We have a good relationship. "

05

According to him, it is natural for two young people to get married on good terms.

This can't be done. I must work with him to popularize correct values! Although I have never been in love, I have heard a lot! So he immediately put on a well-meaning look to "teach" him.

"Our city is not like this. Even if two people really love each other, the boy has to have a car and a house before the girl is willing to marry. Sometimes, although girls are not disgusted, boys will feel that they can't let girls live a good life and feel guilty. "

"But after I got married with my girlfriend, my life was not bad."

"No, it's not like that." I'm a little anxious, but after thinking for a long time, I can't find any reason to refute it. Finally, I have to say, "We like to complicate things. Often two people who love each other can't get married, and when they get married, they are not the people they really love. In short, this kind of thing is very common. "

"Oh, I see, no wonder many people here are not their wives. Poor you. "

I rolled my eyes and gave up the topic completely.

06

We walked and talked all the way, and finally came to the Pearl Lake at the foot of Sun Mountain. Looking up at this snowy mountain at such a close distance, my heart is very quiet. The water in the Pearl Lake and the clouds floating on the mountain all look spiritual. There may really be a god here.

Pengcuo said that the holy mountain here is the patron saint of Tibetans in Aden. Worship the holy mountain three times and you will realize your wish.

So I knelt down devoutly, just as he taught me: put my hands folded over my head, my forehead touched the ground, and finally spread my palms to welcome the blessings of the mountain. As for wishes, I take Sanmao as an example. Every time I worship, I say a word in my heart, and I say it three times: "I wish people long, I wish people long, I wish people long."

There is no specific person for this wish. I wish Peng Cuo and all lovers in the world.

I didn't experience love at that time, and I didn't expect to be with anyone for a long time. I just suddenly feel that people who can live together in two of a kind are lucky.

07

The climate in the plateau mountainous area is changeable, and it was sunny when it came in. In a blink of an eye, it rained hail the size of soybeans. We had to suspend our plans and return early. He accompanied us all the way down the mountain and said he would take us back to the entrance of the scenic spot.

When we reached the last observation deck, it was sunny again. The sunshine is so bright, as if the hail just now was an illusion. We climbed the high platform one by one, overlooking the Chuqingxian Mountain after the snow, and made a final farewell to him in our hearts.

I also take pictures of my parents with my camera. But how to fiddle with the position is wrong: either the prayer flags are too high, or the two are too far away, or the snow-capped mountains can't see them.

At this time, Peng Cuo suddenly shouted to his parents behind him: "Kiss me! Kiss one! " Like a naughty child.

Thanks to his input, I took the best picture of my parents ever.

I've never seen my parents look so playful and beautiful.

08

We went to Aden seven years ago. At that time, WeChat was not popular. Peng Cuo just left a mobile phone number and asked me if I could develop the photos related to him and send them to him when I got home. I was surprised at this request. It seems that I haven't done such a thing for many years. Are we really two people living in parallel space?

On the second day after I returned to Xi 'an, I took my SLR camera to the print shop, developed all the photos related to him, and conveniently printed out the photos of my parents under the snowy mountain, framed them and hung them in the restaurant.

Later, he sent us a big bag of plateau specialties as a thank you: Saussurea involucrata, Cordyceps sinensis, and a lot of strange medicinal materials that he didn't know. Later, I lost my mobile phone and his contact information, and I haven't contacted him since.

But I have never forgotten the existence of Peng Cuo. He is like a friend who came through time and space. He met me by chance and then returned to his own time and space.

I guess he will often think of me when he looks through those photos in the future, and think of a girl who talked with her about mountains and love. Maybe he will point to the photo and tell his wife that the girl who sent me the photo doesn't know whether she married the person she likes in the end.

09

Seven years later, my parents still like to travel and go to Tibetan areas whenever possible. The photo is still hanging in the restaurant, brightly colored and never fades. The family sat at the dinner table and occasionally talked about the scene of the year.

They are in the distance, in front of us, outside the painting.

Now I understand one thing: maybe I didn't experience love at that time, but I knew love first. It's Mr. and Mrs. Pengcuo, and it's also my parents. It has nothing to do with my theory on paper. There have never been so many twists and turns. When you meet it, you will catch it. If you like it, you will cherish it It's simple and direct, plain but worth remembering. Good love is the most romantic love letter I have ever written to you. I don't always look forward to the distant future and beyond, and I don't spend every minute of the rest of my life together.

It is 20 1 1 year. I passed by Aden and saw the most beautiful appearance of love.