Do you know what is the most precious souvenir of love?

The most precious souvenir of love is not the watch or necklace you gave me, nor the sweet information or photos you gave me, but the change you made to me, just like the river left to the terrain.

This is a sentence that Cai Kangyong once said. I have been in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for seven years and got married. This sentence has become the best footnote of my favorite story.

1

In the dressing room, when the makeup artist tried his best to dress me up as a beautiful bride, the photographer tried to help me record the beauty of this moment, but I was afraid of mirrors, but I couldn't show a natural smile.

He was being interviewed by a photographer in the next room. When the cameraman asked, "What impressed me most in love?" I immediately pricked up my ears and waited for his answer. At the same time, countless pictures turned over and over in my mind. Then I heard the simple answer in the composition of primary school students, "It was the two of us who rode across Nanchang Bridge together, surrounded by endless traffic." At that moment, I felt that the whole world was ours! "

I couldn't help laughing, and the photographer immediately raised his camera and recorded the moment.

In the subsequent follow-up, as soon as I show a serious expression, the photographer immediately catches him in front of me, and I will immediately break my work and go all out. The photographer can't help shouting about dog abuse.

After seven years together, I seem to have got used to his company. I think he is used to my company. It is natural to enter marriage. I never thought of using any melodramatic sentences to describe our story, but in the eyes of others, we are so sweet that we can smile as long as we look at each other.

Later, the cameraman asked me what attracted you to him. On second thought, I told him a little thing.

That's when I took an exam and two people rushed to Guangzhou. I didn't study hard for the exam, but he did. He showed me the examination room and stepped on it on the spot. Who knows, I made a careless mistake. I took a copy of my ID card as an admission ticket by mistake and was stopped directly outside the venue. I already thought about giving up at that time. I didn't prepare for the exam seriously anyway. I'd better forget it.

He insisted-since he came, he had to take the exam.

But the admission ticket was pulled to the hotel 30 minutes away from the examination room, and it was too late once and for all. He thought for a moment and said, I'll help you reprint the admission ticket, and then watch his running back disappear into the huge campus.

10 minutes later, he came back panting, holding two admission tickets in his hand, and did not forget to touch my head and watch me enter the examination room.

Science and engineering boys never say sweet words. If I answer directly, I can't tell his merits, but I can tell many examples.

2

After reading the above paragraph, you may think that I have found a 24-year-old boyfriend.

But in fact, the perfect partner never exists.

There is a saying that even the most loving partner has tried to strangle each other countless times.

It's true.

I have a very good girlfriend. Basically, the most we do together is to spit on each other's boyfriends.

That for a while, we all felt that the other party had found a love rat.

But in fact, what we tell each other is only one side of love. Haruki Murakami once had such a congratulatory message at a friend's daughter's wedding.

A Xiang, congratulations on your wedding. I've only been married once, and I don't know much about many things, but it's good when the marriage is good. When it's not so good, I'm always thinking about other things. But it's good when it's good. I hope you have many good times. I wish you happiness.

In my opinion, love is the same.

First love, about the best time, is blind and can't see each other's shortcomings.

Love has faded, and burnout has come. I just want to keep my distance from each other and return to that single and unrestrained self.

Two people are like two hedgehogs warming each other in winter. They are near, painful, far and cold.

You have to pull out the thorns for each other to snuggle up to each other.

In this process, we have to test each other, quarrel, make up, and go on endlessly to find that balance point.

Many people give up at this stage.

Only enjoy the sweetness of love, do not bear the pain of love, and will never be able to dock.

Just like Guo Tianwang's famous argument that shoes don't fit.

Two people who love each other, ups and downs, must taste together in order to join hands in fireworks.

three

If you set a question at the wedding, when is your partner the most asshole?

I can also explain—

For example, he used to be addicted to computer games. I still remember when he was taking the postgraduate entrance examination, I went to school to look for him, but I couldn't find him anywhere. Finally, I found him in an Internet cafe. I took him out of the Internet cafe with a black face, and he followed me like a pupil.

For example, he is a little male chauvinist. Every time he seriously discusses a question, he will win the final victory of the debate at all costs.

But after a long time, I gradually found that even shortcomings can be counted.

Of course, there have been difficult times,

Graduation year, the most war-torn year, we became a long-distance relationship.

I can't adapt to the sudden loneliness. I can call him a dozen times a day.

No matter what's going on over there and talking about irrelevant topics, he just won't disconnect.

After the romance was exposed, it was fiercely opposed by parents, and there were quarrels and tears every day.

He went to his city without hesitation, only to find that there were few employment opportunities here.

During the six months of unemployment, I became a time bomb bursting with negative energy.

All this finally vanished at the moment of holding hands for a lifetime.

Even, I am grateful, grateful for all the bad, grateful for all the tests.

Let's not only accompany each other, but also grow together.

four

I don't think there is a conclusion about what good love is like.

But I always liked the love between Chandler and Monica in Friends.

Chandler always plays the loser in love, and Monica always meets people.

Before the arrival of love, they were old friends who knew all the stories of each other.

Not only is Chandler's parents divorced, but his father is also a homosexual who has an affair with his nanny.

Monica is a second child and has not been loved like her brother for a long time.

These two unhappy people from unhappy families were more or less traumatized.

Chandler likes to tell some cold jokes that don't hit the point at all.

Monica has obsessive-compulsive disorder and is very neat.

Chandler is afraid of marriage, and Monica is a marriage maniac.

Two people came together by mistake and healed each other.

They are like wedding invitations from Wallace Huo and Ruby Lin.

Ten years of good friends make true love.

This kind of love is a long stream of water.

It's a mutual witness.

I am very grateful-

Years have passed, leaving behind the changes you brought me.

This should be the best gift you gave me!

I want to dedicate this article to my other half.

It is also dedicated to all those who are experiencing and preparing for love.

You will understand how wonderful it is to have a companion to grow together and change each other in the lush years.