This is the atmosphere of blind date now. Under the introduction of the matchmaker, the blind date girl won't see you without inviting you to dinner. Want to see that woman?

At the age of 30, I finally gave in to the pressure of reality and talked to jeni once. She never looked at me before.

Jeni is very popular in the blind date market. He is a civil servant, aged 3 1, with a house and no loan, and a monthly salary of 5000+.

I am a researcher with a monthly salary of 12000. Bought a small house and was self-sufficient in repayment.

Jeni seems to be the most suitable marriage partner for me. Is it true?/You don't say.

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Honest and dull is Liu Qi's first impression of jeni when dating.

This inarticulate man is completely different from Liu Qi's ideal partner, but jeni is the one that suits her best in the eyes of her parents and elders, and even Liu Qi thinks it suits her very well.

Although the salary is not high, the job is stable and the benefits are good.

Although my parents are divorced, they are all retired from public institutions and have complete insurance. Don't worry about the younger generation.

And Liu Qi, although her salary is higher than Yang Lin's and her job doesn't look bad, her family condition is not as good as jeni's. Her parents are both rural people facing the loess, not to mention social security. Fortunately, she is in good health now and can do some farm work. Liu Qi can also help her.

Therefore, this condition of two people is appropriate to outsiders.

Jeni seldom talks. Every date is started by Liu Qi, and then there is a silence. After many times, Liu Qi stopped talking. They ate, watched movies, went home, and used WeChat as a routine.

Liu Qi once suspected that jeni was not interested in herself at all, and was forced by family pressure to make do by herself.

Until the lunch break that day, I saw jeni carrying a thermos pot downstairs in the company.

"You said yesterday that your stomach was upset. I made some soup. Remember to drink it and nourish your stomach. " Jeni blushed and put the thermos bottle in Liu Qi's hand. Before she could react, she hurried back to work and ran away.

Liu Qi looked down at the thermos pot in his hand, thinking that he just complained last night, but the other party actually remembered it and laughed.

It seems that it is not without feelings.

Taking this opportunity, the relationship between the two people finally took a big step.

Jeni duly put forward the idea that the mother wanted to meet her son. Liu Qijiao felt that they were old enough to meet their elders, so she agreed.

However, after work, jeni took Liu Qi straight to the vegetable market.

"My mother heard that you are a good cook, so she wants to try your cooking. Do you mind? " Seeing his girlfriend's questioning eyes, jeni explained two sentences.

"Of course I don't mind. You still tell this to your aunt ... "

Liu Qi did invite jeni to his house for dinner several times. Two people, a chef and a boy, cooperate well.

But which son and girlfriend let people cook for the first time?

Do you really appreciate your cooking?

Liu Qi always feels strange, but looking at the smile on her boyfriend's face, she has to put these small thoughts down first.

The two men came to jeni's house with the food they bought. As soon as they entered the door, Lin's mother warmly greeted them and took Liu Qi's hand and boasted, "Oh, it's really a good place for our family jeni to meet such a good girl as you. He tells me every day that your cooking is delicious, and I don't think my cooking is tasteless. No, you came here today to cook a meal for both of us and let me learn. 」

Reach out and don't laugh. In the face of such enthusiastic mother Lin, Liu Qi had to hold back the little emotion in his heart first.

I had to answer with a smile first, take the food and walk to the kitchen to get ready for work.

Jeni habitually followed him to help his girlfriend, but his mother helped him. "I just want to ask jeni for help. Can Xiao Qi be alone? " 」

"Oh, nothing, you are busy, you are busy." Liu Qi embarrassedly took back the dishes that she was going to wash for her boyfriend.

It doesn't seem very good to order my son to work when he comes to the door for the first time, but why can't he be very excited when he listens to the sound of TV in the living room and cleans up his own food here?

After a busy day, I finally got the dishes ready and served them on the table. I saw mother Lin staring at a big table of dishes and finally said, "Hey, Xiao Qi, our Jenny is allergic to peanuts, don't you know?" Be careful next time. Besides, he likes to eat chopped onions ... "

Looking at Lin's mother pointing to the food on the table and chanting to herself, Liu Qi could only stand on the side and ask her boyfriend for help with her eyes.

She can see that. It is obvious that she is betraying herself.

It happened that jeni ate all the food after it was served. There were taboos there, and he didn't notice the atmosphere of a secret fight between his girlfriend and his mother at the dinner table.

Liu Qi skimmed the pie mouth, this meal is tasteless.

"Aunt Jenny, she doesn't like me?" Coming out of Lin Yang's house, Liu Qi couldn't help asking.

"No, I think mom likes you. Forget it. " Jenny looked at her girlfriend doubtfully, and obviously didn't think there was anything wrong with this meal today.

Which eye can tell that your mother likes me? Liu Qi couldn't help but turn supercilious look and finally didn't speak.

If you don't like it, you don't like it Anyway, I just don't live together after marriage. I married jeni, not his mother.

Even Liu Qi's idea was quickly shattered by jeni's mother.

Mother Lin expressed the hope that the young couple would live in her house and take care of each other after marriage.

"Didn't we agree? Living in the house where I am repaying the loan, plus your name, let your mother live comfortably alone. 」

When we first started dating, Liu Qi made it clear that she didn't want to live with her elders after marriage. Besides, she also has a room, which is good for each other. Jeni also promised very well at that time, and said that she hoped to spend time with Liu Qi as soon as possible.

It's all right now, but mother Lin defected as soon as she said it.

"Mainly what my mother said is true. Your home is far from my mother's. It's not convenient to send it around after having children. It's better to live with my mother directly, which will save trouble. Didn't my mother take them all? The house is ready-made, even the decoration is saved. 」

Is it for the children or to save the decoration fee? Liu Qi silently rolled her eyes at the bottom of her heart, but still endured her anger and continued to analyze the pros and cons with her boyfriend.

"But after all, we are two generations, and there will be a generation gap in life, including having children in the future. I don't want these problems to affect our feelings, do you understand what I mean? Besides, how far can such a big place be? It takes more than ten minutes to drive a car. 」

Jeni's face appeared a little hesitant. It seems that his girlfriend has a point.

"That ... I'll go back and talk to my mother. It's true that my mother is here, and something is inconvenient. 」

After listening to his own opinion, Liu Qi finally showed a smile on his face. Ok, if you really live with Lin's mother, you should be crazy.

But Liu Qi was unhappy these two days, so she received a phone call from jeni. Mother Lin accidentally fell down the stairs.

"Aunt, are you okay? As soon as she got off work, she rushed to her boyfriend's house, only to find Lin's mother lying in bed sickly and her boyfriend cooking dinner in the kitchen.

"It's okay, that is, people are old, their eyes are bad, and they are empty. jeni makes a fuss. Please come over after work and have a meal before you go. 」

Although her boyfriend's mother was as polite as last time, with her last experience, Liu Qi really didn't want to be alone with her partner, so she found an excuse to help in the kitchen.

"Kiki, I wanted to think, but I still don't trust my mother to live alone. You see, at this time, if I don't live with her, no one will know that something is wrong. 」

"If you are worried about your mother, we can come and see more at ordinary times! As early as I learned that Lin's mother was injured, I was worried that my boyfriend would "defect" again, and it happened.

Xu has realized that her tone is too excited. Liu Qi turned to look at Lin Yan's mother's room, lowered her voice and continued to do ideological work with her boyfriend. "I understand that it is not easy for you and your mother to live together since childhood, but you should think about the future of our small family. What should I do if I live together in the future and have a knot in my heart? 」

"My mother is not that kind of person. Don't say that again. It's not good for my mother to hear them. " For the first time, Jenny walked towards the restaurant with a cold face and prepared food.

Liu Qi stood in the same place at a loss, which was the first time that her boyfriend dumped her face.

"Mom, the meal is ready, can you move it? I'll help you go out for dinner. 」

"It's okay, it's twisted, not broken ..."

There was a conversation between mother and son in the dining room, and no one spoke to Liu Qi who was still in the kitchen.

Pressing down the grievances and unhappiness in his heart, Liu Qi took the rest of the dishes out.

"Xiao Qi, I'm sorry, I'm old, drag you down, don't worry, later, you tell you, I will only help to look after the children, keep the home clean and tidy for you. 」

"Mom, what are you talking about! What did the family say? Right, Kiki? 」

Jeni turned to ask his girlfriend, with a hint of begging in his eyes, as if he were a wicked man who separated their mother and son, so that Liu Qi held her breath and couldn't get on.

"Yes, it's all a family, it's okay." Liu Qijiang finished the meal with a smiling face.

After returning home, Liu Qi became more and more uncomfortable. She understands that jeni is caught in the middle and it is difficult to be a man. But why did she give in? And she didn't live together after marriage. Obviously, the other party has promised himself.

Liu Qi decided to talk to Lin's mother privately. Jeni is too soft-tempered to disobey her mother's wishes, but she is not so easy to grasp. This matter must be made clear before marriage!

However, when Liu Qi deliberately asked for leave to visit Mother Lin in the name of visiting the sick, she happened to be at the door of the elderly activity room in the community and saw Mother Lin holding two big fans and comparing paintings with dancers. Her figure is too flexible to see that she was lying in bed with her ankles twisted two days ago.

Their eyes met in an instant.

"Aunt, how are your legs and feet?" Liu Qi holding up anger asked.

What doesn't she understand when she sees this scene? Letting her son live with her is a "bitter plan"!

"Oh, I have said it's okay. Jeni didn't trust me, so I had to lie down for another two days. I'm old, old, I'm useless ... "Lin mother passive Nuo Nuo, didn't not bashful to look at Liu Qi.

Well, Liu Qi can see that she doesn't have to talk to Lin's mother, and the other party won't agree to let jeni move out to live with herself after marriage.

After coming out from Lin's mother, Liu Qi invited jeni to meet her in the evening.

"You know your mother's feet are no problem at all, and she danced with her aunt in the community in the afternoon. 」

"Did you go to see my mother? Why don't you say something to me? " Jeni's face flashed with guilt. When he saw it, Liu Qi stared in disbelief and asked, "jeni, did you know from beginning to end that your mother was faking it? ! 」

"Kiki, my mother doesn't want me to stay too far away from her. It was not easy for her to bring me up by herself. Please be considerate of her. She means no harm. " Jeni didn't answer his girlfriend's question directly.

"I ask you, do you know from beginning to end that your mother is faking it? 」

Liu Qi felt that his brain had exploded at the moment. She thought it was just mother Lin's bitter plan. I didn't expect her boyfriend to participate in the program, so I lied to her that she was an outsider.

"I ... I learned later ... Kiki, that's my mother." Jenny turned her head and didn't dare to look at his girlfriend.

"I ask you again, do you insist on living with your mother after marriage? 」

"Kiki, don't embarrass me. 」

This is the first time that Liu Qi has been disappointed in jeni. She thinks jeni is just soft-hearted and has some basic views. Now it seems that she is simply a mambo who obeys her mother unconditionally!

Is this kind of man really suitable for marriage?

Their marriage was unilaterally shelved by Liu Qi.

She needs to consider this relationship.

This can worry the parents at home.

"Xiao Qi, you are old, Kobayashi condition is very good, there is no need to make the wedding room too ugly, you are not without a house, almost come on. 」

"Yes, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good since ancient times. You can earn it yourself, spend it yourself, and don't ask them. The important thing is that jeni is good to you. You should prioritize and consider your own actual situation. 」

Afraid that Liu Qi would do stupid things too hard, Lu Dad brainwashed his daughter and analyzed various advantages and disadvantages.

Parents' concerns Liu Qi understands that this is also Liu Qi's concern.

She is thirty years old. She can't be willful any more. Be realistic.

In all fairness, jeni's conditions are really ok, except for fucking things, which can be said to be obedient to himself.

I will come to pick me up from work in the evening when I work overtime, rain or shine. When my stomach is uncomfortable, I will cook soup and send it to the unit, and then I will go back to work.

Will it be better than jeni next?

Liu Qi stared at the computer in front of him and fell into confusion again. Is she asking too much of jeni? What is perfect in this world?

Bearing in mind jeni's kindness, I went downstairs from work and saw jeni under the company building.

"Why are you here?" Liu Qi didn't show it on the surface, but his heart still welled up a little secretly pleased.

"I know you work overtime today, and it's not convenient to go home too late. Let's have a look ... "Jeni is still silent, but her eyes are full of sincerity, which makes Liu Qi unable to refuse.

That's all. Isn't that his temper? Liu Qi resigned with a sigh and took jeni's arm. "I want to drink your soup. 」

"Yes, I'll get it back tonight! 」

The matter of the wedding room seems to have quietly turned over.

The families of both sides have a meal and set a wedding date.

Weddings, wedding photos, hotels, everything is on track.

Wearing a white wedding dress and holding jeni's arm, Liu Qi smiled happily at the camera under the guidance of the photographer, but she was in a trance for a moment.

Really, so married?

"good! Very good, a few more, and then we'll change. " The photographer's voice interrupted Liu Qi's thoughts.

Liu Qi looked up at jeni, who smiled the same around her, and almost cheered.

It can be seen that the wedding day is getting closer and closer, and the bride price of Yang Lin's family has not been sent yet.

Both sides are from the same place, so there is no problem of different customs. Liu Qi's family didn't ask for a high bride price, but asked for a bonus of 88,000, which was returned with him on the wedding day. Liu Qi didn't take a penny at home, so Liu Qi's own house is a dowry, which is also very attractive in general.

Older unmarried, confiscated bride price, married a suite. Isn't that a bad idea?

Somehow it spread in the village, and Liu Qi's parents couldn't stand the gossip in the neighborhood, so they couldn't help but run to the town and ask their daughter what was going on.

"We are not urging Xiao Lin's family to send a bride price, but it is basically settled now, just a formality. If you don't ask Xiao Lin, we will be fine, and they dare not wronged you. 」

Seeing her parents' careful concern for her marriage, Liu Qi felt guilty and helpless. What is this?

I had to try to comfort my parents' worries in a relaxed tone. "Nothing, I should have forgotten it. I'll ask jeni later. 」

After seeing off her parents, Liu Qi called Jenny. Even if her parents didn't mention it, she was ready to mention the bride price.

"jeni, how long will it take us to get the license, you know? 」

Seeing that her boyfriend answered the phone, she rushed to her home at once. Liu Qi's mood finally improved, his tone softened and he gave it a try.

"I know, I just discussed it with my mother at home. It's too wronged for you to get married and live in such an old house. I just came to discuss with you ... "

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Liu Qi flashed a string of question marks in his heart. Really, jeni would be so kind to think about this for herself?

"My mother means to change a small villa, with two floors up and down, so that our lives can be separated and unaffected. She lives downstairs and we live upstairs. In the future, if you have children at home, you will have a place to play and a room to entertain guests. Now our house is really too small and old, so it is inconvenient for relatives and friends to come in the future. 」

"It costs a lot of money to change a villa. It is better to redecorate the house. " Liu Qi always feels strange after listening to her boyfriend's words. Life is really better this way, but jeni is so fucking good?

"Not much, not much, sold our house and your house almost just enough to pay the down payment. How about the new beautiful park? Our relatives do it inside, and there is an internal discount if they buy it. My mother already knows about it. 」

Seeing her boyfriend getting more and more excited, Liu Qi almost didn't laugh. Obviously, she arranged it herself.

"Yes, then I will repay the loan, and you and your mother will enjoy success, right? 」

This abacus is useful. Originally, as long as the house was returned before marriage, the loan was almost the same. This kind of business has become husband and wife's property, and jeni earns a little salary every month. Finally, the debt is not her own.

"Kiki, how do you say so ugly, my mother is also considering for us. You said you wanted privacy. Isn't it killing two birds with one stone to change a bigger house? " Jenny is a little unhappy.

"I speak bad? Your family hasn't given the bride price yet, and you are still thinking about my suite. How can I speak? Grateful? Jeni! 」

Liu Qi didn't expect that Yang Lin's family made a new moth before she mentioned the bride price.

"Bride?" Jeni's face flashed with embarrassment. "Well, Kiki, my uncle had an operation recently and asked our family to borrow some money. Your bride price may not be given at once. Look, can you give me 20 thousand It's just a formality anyway. 」

"Twenty thousand? ! I bought more than 3 million villas as soon as I bought them, so it's my turn to have no money to ask for a bride price of 88 thousand? Jeni, can you believe it? Don't tell me you didn't even save 80 thousand yuan after graduation? ! 」

Liu Qi is understood. Jeni's family never intended to pay for this bride price from beginning to end. Today, if she hadn't kept her mouth shut, she would even be ready to fuck around after receiving the certificate. At that time, she will get married. What else can she do?

"My salary is with my mother. My mother said that no money means no money. Haven't you bought a villa yet? We had it when we sold the house, Kiki. We are not young, so why care about the eyes of outsiders and just live a good life by ourselves. 」

Jeni didn't seem to understand why Liu Qi's reaction was so great, and her tone was a little disappointed.

"How are you and your mother? Do you and your mother take me seriously from beginning to end? I give in step by step, you push your luck step by step! 」

Liu Qi looked sarcastically at jeni, an outsider's eye?

So, if she can't get married at the age of 30, she deserves to be looked down upon and get married upside down without asking for anything in return, right?

She knew that jeni's mother didn't like herself, but for jeni's sake, she put up with it and gave up. Anyway, she can make money or be confident, and this is the result.

I began to plan my pre-marital property before I got married, and even wanted to save 88 thousand bride price.

Lin Yanggu never thought of Liu Qi for her from beginning to end.

"Kiki, really have no money at home, so don't embarrass me, ok? The wedding is coming, the invitations have been sent out and the hotel has been booked. What's your opinion? Let's talk about it after we get married, okay? 」

Jeni took her eyes off the question of her girlfriend, but she didn't mention the bride price and the house.

"Anyway, my words flow here, I won't sell the house. If you want to change your home, you can change it yourself, or you can live in my home. I will pay for the decoration. The bride price money must be given to my parents before marriage, otherwise the marriage will not be concluded! 」

Jeni's attitude once again disappointed Liu Qi. She knew there was nothing to talk about with jeni. She also went home and asked her mother for advice, and then told herself like a megaphone.

The hidden trouble buried in the wedding room finally broke out at this moment.

Their conversation ended in discord, and Liu Qi and jeni gave themselves a reasonable explanation when they got home.

However, instead of waiting for jeni, Liu Qi waited for a phone call from jeni's mother.

"Xiao Qi, you are a clever girl. Jeni likes you, and I'm very satisfied with you. You don't know, jeni cried when she came back that night, which made me feel bad. Can't you just say something?

"I know you young people don't like living with elders like us, so we just want to change a bigger house and take care of each other. It's not as complicated as you think. Besides, we are all a family, why do we have to calculate so clearly? It really hurts. I can't get the bride price money. This 20 thousand is still patchwork. You should also consider the actual situation!

"You are not young, there is no need to waste time with us for such a trivial matter. It is better to be a down-to-earth person and live a good life. Why care about vanity, right? 」

"Aunt, where is jeni? He married me. I want to hear him tell me himself. 」

Liu Qi is not stupid. She can't understand each other's subtext. To put it simply, she can say: This is our home. You can get married or not.

Jeni, on the other hand, never showed up.

Qilu sent him a message: "Is this marriage still possible? 」