Do wedding photography at the age of 40

With the improvement of people's living standards, people's consumption concepts are gradually changing. Compared with the frugality of the older generation, more and more people are willing to spend money on the cutting edge. Take parent-child photos as an example. Nowadays, young mothers are more willing to take a group of parent-child photos with their babies to record their growth.

In order to highlight the "uniqueness" of parent-child photos as much as possible, parents always come up with some ingenious new ideas, some of which are very eye-catching and some are difficult for outsiders to accept.

No, some time ago, a group of photos of Angel's father and son embraced each other, which caused extensive discussion among netizens because they were too close.

Speaking of actor angels, everyone will not feel strange. Since the divorce, this strong single mother has devoted all her energy to her son. In an interview, Angel once proudly claimed to be his son's princess, and this photo of his parents realized Angel's dream of a princess in advance.

Angel and his son Dingding are very close in this group of parent-child photos taken by Angel.

I saw Dingding wearing a sunny and handsome suit, while her mother "dressed up" and wore a charming wedding dress. They took photos hand in hand and looked very loving.

Netizens were surprised by Angel's idea of taking a photo of his parents as a wedding photo. But then the intimate behavior of Angel and his son surprised everyone. Although they are mother and son, Dingding is already a boy of 1 1 years old. After all, kissing in public is too intimate.

Some netizens even bluntly said that Angel didn't understand the danger of "children hiding from their mothers when they were young".

In fact, this is not the first time Angel has been questioned because of his close relationship with his son. Angel has publicly stated that he will kiss his son 100 times a day, and he will also ask to talk to his son in the tone of his girlfriend.

This abnormal mother-child relationship model has also triggered a heated discussion among netizens. Some netizens think that Angel only gets along with his son according to the western parenting model, with the aim of cultivating his son's gentlemanly character and respect for women.

However, more netizens think that Angel's "son as husband" will blur children's gender awareness, affect children's self-awareness and have a great impact on children's growth.

1) Different gender education concepts

Parents in China are very lack of awareness of gender education for their children. In the face of growing children, parents will unconsciously tell their children what is the physical difference between you and your father (mother).

In the absence of this educational concept, if parents and children keep too close contact, it will not only lead to children's vague understanding of gender, but also make children curious about "sex" in ignorance, which will lead to precocious puberty.

In contrast, foreign parents will give their children adequate gender education before intimate contact with their children, and children will be more aware that the intimate contact between their mothers and themselves is the embodiment of family affection.

2) Social acceptance is different.

Compared with foreign countries, China's parents are much more conservative. They don't even take the initiative to say "I love you" to their children, and they don't accept more intimate activities.

Especially in the photos taken by Angel, it is not easy for China's parents to accept it frankly.

1) Don't change clothes in front of the children.

Generally speaking, children have formed a preliminary understanding of gender at the age of 3, and they will begin to wonder why they are biologically different from their fathers (mothers). Parents should be careful not to change clothes in front of their children, especially fathers not to go shirtless in front of their daughters, and don't easily prevaricate with the sentence that children are still young.

2) Sleep in separate beds at the right age.

Bed separation and weaning are two necessary links in the growth of children. Parents will sleep in separate beds with their children when they are older, usually around 3 years old.

This can not only help children form a correct understanding of men and women, but also exercise their independence.

3) Pay attention to keeping a proper distance from children.

What parents need to pay attention to is that keeping a distance here does not mean isolating love. Instead, parents are required to avoid intimate actions with their children when they are young, such as kissing or physical contact.

Parents should educate their children to protect their bodies and not let strangers touch them. The best way is to start from yourself.