Korean pregnant women's guide: who do women live for all their lives?

"Hang up the clothes you wear before marriage or the small clothes you want to wear after production, and watch them when you want to eat too much or don't want to exercise." In 20021year, the Maternal Information Center of Seoul City Government of South Korea issued a "Guide for Pregnant Women", which caused numerous disputes on the Internet. Even fast food such as curry and black bean sauce should be prepared for husbands who are not familiar with cooking. Underwear, socks, shirts, handkerchiefs and coats should also be prepared for husbands and children.

For a woman, pregnancy will definitely be one of the most unforgettable days in her life. Besides the joy of a new life, it is more uncomfortable. Faced with many problems such as body shape change, physical discomfort, excessive pressure caused by the increase of progesterone and estrogen, the guide that should be given to pregnant women's physical and mental care and help has now become a shackle. The contents of Pregnant Women's Guide convey the idea that "having a baby can't bring inconvenience to your family" and "recovering as soon as possible after giving birth so as not to make your husband uncomfortable", and once again convey the deep-rooted patriarchy to the world.

Who does a woman live for all her life?

Compared with men, women's lives will be treated more unfairly. Even in developed countries, women are discriminated against from different aspects. At present, although there is no feudal idea of "following the father at home and marrying the husband" in China, there is still discrimination against women in many aspects of society, especially employment discrimination.

In social relations, women are vulnerable groups. In recent years, violent incidents have emerged one after another in China, but most domestic violence incidents are male-to-female violence, and female-to-male violence cases are rare. For many men and even the families behind them, women should be "docile" housekeepers, treat their in-laws, husbands and children with respect, and be "obedient and virtuous", but no one has ever asked, as an independent person, why do women live in various roles and when do they really live for themselves?

Some time ago, an aunt from Henan became popular on the Internet, because she left her family life for decades, stopped being a free nanny and started her own journey on the road. This liberation was discussed by countless people for a time, some envied, some questioned, some agreed and some opposed. Regardless of the comments on the Internet, Auntie bravely went her own way and no longer accepted being ridiculed by her husband. However, so brave and fearless, she made a choice after taking care of her family and started her own life after she was 50 years old.

I don't know how many girl compatriots have been asked to follow this "guide" over and over again and have been forced to live by others. Only in the dead of night do I dare to plan the idea of "escape" in my mind over and over again and whisper to the pillow.

Dear, remember that everyone is an independent individual, please love yourself first, and then love others. Appearance, personality ... don't doubt yourself because of other people's judgment, you are the best. Life is too short, please don't waste it on someone who doesn't deserve to be loved. Please live in the sun! Live for yourself!