Living in front of you is the best poem and distance.

& LTP> In 2007, I was moved by a character named Sister Haitang on Tea Fragrance Literature Online. Simple and simple, eloquent, with the sweetness and dullness of life. Write about her family, children, husband and travel. & lt/p & gt； & ltp> Travel is my biggest concern. & lt/p & gt； & ltp> has a family of three, a lively child under the camera, a smiling woman and a slightly simple and honest husband. & lt/p & gt； & ltp> and her husband and wife escape from the children's world, the quiet and peaceful photos of her, the natural love in the photos, and the beautiful scenery that seems to be plated with more exquisite colors in each other's eyes. & lt/p & gt； & ltp> Of course, she travels alone, the empty sky is boundless, and she always gives a back or side face a long skirt in the camera. & lt/p & gt； & ltp> At that time, I was impressed by her leisurely attitude, and I yearned for the same poetic life as her. I later paid attention to her blog, which was named after one of the three names of her family, and learned more about her life. I envy the words she wrote at her fingertips, the infinite scenery under the camera, and even the trivial life in the fleeting time. I even romantically asked my boyfriend at that time to learn photography to at least make me look good. & lt/p & gt； & ltp>, isn't it the best life to often take time off to give yourself a holiday and satisfy your poems and distant dreams? In the fleeting years, isn't it the most romantic thing to record beautiful or even clumsy moments with one note and freeze the beautiful scenery that once delighted us with the lens? I thought I could live a life full of flavor like sister Haitang, and I could be poetic from time to time. I must have good economic conditions. Otherwise, how can I have the mood, time and money to be poetic?

& lt/p & gt； & ltp> After several years, I didn't live the poetic life I wanted. He didn't study photography hard for himself, and even his husband didn't want to shoot his mobile phone; There is no chance and capital to go on a trip that says go; I don't have the time and mood to write what I want to express in my heart, even the basic daily written records are laborious ... I struggle all day for trivial work, mediocre life, child support, mother-in-law relationship, husband-wife relationship and all kinds of relationships that need to be dealt with. The wanton life I once imagined, the poems I once thought I would have and the distance seem to fade away in my heart, giving way to the bubble of reality. I dare not think about it again, leaving only endless distress.

& lt/p & gt； & ltp> This is not the life I want. I feel very painful and can't find an exit. One day, I was really depressed. When I saw my sister Haitang online on QQ, I chatted with her and poured out my troubles. After a while, my sister Haitang sent me a voice, which was very kind and not very pleasant, but there was an indescribable poetry. She said a lot, and she told me that the best life is to live poetically even if you are struggling now. Then she typed a message. Tell me about her life. & lt/p & gt； & ltp> She is not rich, not middle class, at best she is well-off. At the beginning, she and her husband only lived a carefree life, and even had poverty. As an accountant and a unit electrician, her income is not high. Building a family in a strange city, like a swallow nesting, brings all the materials needed for life bit by bit, injects love and affection, and slowly lives better and better. At first, the income was extremely low. Fortunately, neither of us is a material person. She likes romance, so she often suggests going for an outing and having a picnic. You can't go far away, and you can't afford to go far away, which can also satisfy your dream of going far away to the suburbs. Slowly, when the economic conditions are better, I plan to go far away every year. Save money, enrich and make progress for this dream. & lt/p & gt； & ltp> Sister Haitang said that it is not romantic and chic to travel, but that it is the most romantic for two people to make a little effort, accumulate, and strive to live a plain life and make it bloom for the dream of going far away. Even though we are still in a difficult camp, we still have poetic dreams in our hearts. Living in front of you is the best poem and distance. & lt/p & gt； & ltp> I'm relieved. Maybe you think it is the most poetic life to go far away, see the world, broaden your horizons, let great rivers and picturesque scenery shine in front of your eyes, and let your body and mind be on the road at the same time. Therefore, I hate the daily necessities in front of me, which are trivial. Therefore, in my own sense of reality, I dream of the distance and think it is happy. Therefore, it is more difficult to face the present life safely. However, you can't even live in front of you. How can you talk about poetry and distance? & lt/p & gt； & ltp> Real poetry and distance are in your heart. Only by emptying yourself and changing your mood can you live a comfortable life! Do you think there will be no mud if it rains in the distance? Only when you enjoy listening to the rain in front, will you not feel the procrastination of the rain in the distance! Change your mind and live in front of you, which is the best poem and distance! Enjoy the present, be quiet, peaceful and indifferent, don't give up the pursuit and efforts, don't complain, and try to live the present life quietly. Just like Sister Haitang, she was in financial trouble and was entangled in trivial matters, but she always kept her romantic dream in her heart and enjoyed the wonderful time on the trip when conditions permitted. & lt/p & gt； & ltp> Change your mood and live a good life. If you don't have a photographer to shoot beautiful women for you, learn by yourself and become a photographer. If you can't come for a while, try to save money and do a good job, and wait for the day when you have the opportunity; You can't leave your body on the road at will, read more books to improve your self-cultivation and let your soul be on the road. If you want to express your wishes, just take some time to write them down ... as long as you work hard, flowers can grow in the cracks. Even worse, green grass can decorate life! A little bit of growth, vigorous and positive. Any hesitation can be the best poem and distance. & lt/p & gt；