Your eyes reveal your life

A friend said to her, in recent photos of you, you can’t see the original you, your eyes are confused.

She smiled and answered that it might be because I changed my contact lenses

Then she started to stare at these eyes repeatedly in the mirror, looking through the years in her mind experience.

Look, plane? Look, look, the plane is leaving, haha, let’s chase it together. N years ago, she felt so excited when she saw the plane in her eyes, like an innocent My child, she was just 20 at that time. She came to Shanghai from a small county town. It was the first time she saw a plane so close to her, right above her head. She was so happy and innocent that she also made the person walking behind her very excited. , such a simple and lovely child, tried to run and catch up with her, and then promised to take her to take her on a plane one day. At that time, her eyes were full of expectation and longing.

Hello, madam, please adjust your seat, buckle your seat belt, and turn off your mobile phone. The plane will take off soon, the beautiful flight attendant said, and then handed her a blanket.

OK, thank you. She responded with a smile, and her tone was determined and calm. Two years later, in the workplace, she embarked on a flight journey to an unfamiliar city, giving herself a trip that she could just go.

But the person who promised her escaped and retreated due to the invisible pressure of Shanghai, and left her life. When all her longings turned into dust, she smelled the breath of self-reliance and self-reliance.

The moment the plane landed, she secretly picked up her mobile phone and took a selfie. There was a lot of energy in her eyes in the photo. She thought to herself that relying on heaven and earth is not as good as relying on myself. Only she can do it. Be practical and accomplish what you set your mind to.

During that journey, she visited five cities and saw different scenery and people. What impressed her most was that she liked to go to the small-style streets and opened a few small shops, but each one The names of the stores are all accompanied by the poetic dwelling. Go in and have a chat with the store owner. Sometimes you will sit down for a long time and exchange stories with each other.

When a woman has more knowledge and experience, her eyes begin to become richer. She can laugh and be full of secret fragrance, or she can be sad and secretly sad.

For a while, she bought a reverse camera. At first, she especially liked taking selfies. Every photo she took was intoxicated and excited. People around her also praised her when they saw it. Then she started She takes pictures of other people and scenery, and makes them look beautiful. Many people who didn't like taking pictures were attracted by her. They began to fall in love with taking pictures and discovered their own hidden beauty.

She also has a dream, that is, to be a photographer. For a while, she wanted to be a photographer's assistant. She had already discussed and prepared to study, but was later persuaded by a friend to come back. That year She is about to turn 26. My friend said, you are no longer chasing dreams, so stop dreaming about an 18-year-old girl, live in real life, continue to work, and complete major events in your life, such as getting married and having children.

Later I thought about it, what a fucking bullshit. A dream chaser should never care about other people’s feelings, because she is not you, let alone use age as an excuse to set limits. The real pursuit of your dreams lies in your inner voice and desire, and you just have to take action.

Every woman cannot escape the inevitable cycle of life - getting married and having children.

A woman's marriage determines the status of the rest of her life. In fact, it is her marriage that really changes her. Her eyes become full of gray tones, so empty and gloomy.

When her dreams are getting farther and farther away from you, and she is even helpless, she will be very anxious and depressed, and all her original longings will be slapped hard by real life. For a short period of time, she was helpless, and the life she saw in her eyes was terrible.

She tried to change. Although she was restrained in her actions and bound by her children, she began to struggle mentally. Through the Internet, she began to seek an outlet to be a better version of herself. Not being oppressed by real life, working hard to break through and endure huge pressure, and escape from the dilemma of a housewife, the process must be difficult.

That’s why she is worried about gains and losses, so her eyes are full of darkness

What my friend said is true, your appearance shows the state of life behind it, even if you haven’t seen her for a long time, your Photos can also reveal the life behind them.

What I want to tell her today is that even if life is not easy for the time being, it will not be your fate, because you are the leader of your own life. Just strive for the life you want to live, even if there are people around you. There are many shackles, try to break through, the process of success is painful, and walking through strong winds and waves will have the majesty of the waves crashing on the shore.

Off topic, I recently discussed with a friend the issue of spiritual abundance and financial abundance.

There is essentially no debate as to whether a person's spiritual wealth truly comes from her financial wealth. For most people, the answer is yes, because human nature comes first in terms of perception. Only when you pursue material possessions can you feel spiritual stability.

But there are also a large number of people, even if they are poor, they still have a small style in their hearts and live a prosperous life with a mentality. This kind of person is worthy of admiration, and she needs to learn a lot. People are poor but ambitious, and life will one day happily bless her.