The so-called "making friends means you have a good life", is this sentence correct?

If the flow cannot be cleared, select the dependent flow, and then clear the flow in the dependent flow.

Cai Kangyong was asked in an interview, "What do you think of those people who don't send their friends away?" He replied: "Congratulations to those friends who don't make friends, because I want to believe that they are using their own energy to deal with real life." Yes, in real life, many people are too busy to care about their friends every day. The time and world of great events are not in the circle of friends.

There is also a clean stream in the entertainment circle called Li Jian. Not only does he not send a circle of friends, but he doesn't even have WeChat. From his powerful spiritual world. In his own words, "a lot of information is useless. What we need is knowledge, what we need is wisdom. " Choosing minimalism is the wisdom to avoid noise. However, such a minimalist advanced wisdom can't be imitated by ordinary people. Otherwise, try to quit the circle of friends completely. If the stream cannot be cleaned, select the dependent stream, and then clean the stream in the dependent stream.

Most people in life just watch the circle and don't send it. Among these people, there are politicians, important positions and cautious things; People who do great things by themselves have no time to take care of their "career"; There are a lot of people doing housework, at a loss, at a loss ... these people only appear occasionally.

But more people who don't play in circles may also be idle people. They don't brush their circle of friends, don't read fragmented information, and waste their leisure time in the circle of friends. They only look at rings, not wear them. Obviously, these people are not the people that Cai Kangyong "wants to believe".

Just like Li Jian, there are very few clean people. Cai Kangyong is not without a circle of friends. He will play some interesting jokes. In his words, "I want to' save' the smoky circle of friends." He said: "I want to believe that people who don't send their friends find the center of life." The background of this statement is that he saw that some artists obviously wasted too much time in the circle of friends, and even sent a few hours of sensational text messages like "I have been busy recently". Don't take it out of context. In fact, no one's life center of gravity will be in the circle of friends, and virtual can't replace real life after all.

I prefer to believe that friends who send friends off love life.

What is missing? Maybe you sent it and you have it.

Faced with such a normal social tool, it came into being for the convenience of the masses. If you use it with me, how can he establish a link without it? Since it has been produced, it will inevitably be used by everyone. So the public turned it into a connection with the outside world. Familiar, unfamiliar, or even unknown, a WeChat talks about "things". In contrast, it is much more embarrassing than direct dialing.

Yes, the "friends" in the circle of friends are far more than familiar friends, relatives and teachers. Many "friends" have never met, but they have taken care of each other for a long time in the circle of friends. Everyone may have established contact because of the same field, or they may have formed contact because of the same "product" ... In short, it is not unreasonable for anyone to add "friends".

As for sending friends or not, send more and send less? It may be related to personal situation, leisure, time and mentality. One view is to give you what you lack, but it may also be that you have it, and it is nothing if you don't give it to you. People who are not in the same environment should not label others indiscriminately. Sometimes, people who label are probably just their own mentality.

I have a particularly respected aunt Hong. She sends out some flowers and plants that she shoots every day. Living comfortably for a long time is bound to have some negative comments. What about the facts? This is actually only a small part of Hony's real life. She has her own listed company, and she resigned and returned to China when she was old. In her back garden, she didn't even hire a gardener, because she likes to deal with these "lives". Looking at my fruitful results, I couldn't help taking pictures and sending ribbons. To tell the truth, every time I look at her paintings of flowers, birds, insects and fish, I am traveling around the world. What is lacking is talent. Aunt Yu Hong just watched the music and recorded it.

Of course, some people are willing to move their lives to a circle of friends. Sister Juan loves photography, and her friends can see colorful scenes in her camera every day. However, it would be wrong to regard her as an idle person. Her real life is to take care of her grandchildren at home full time. How to balance hobbies and life? So in the filming, she found a way to balance her mind. Monday to Friday is her grandson's exhibition day. Saturday and Sunday are the time for her to get together with photographers or girlfriends, and the circle of friends presents natural scenery or all kinds of people. What's wrong with it? It is better to live a healthy and happy life than to complain about people who can't see their heads. I prefer to believe that Sister Juan's circle of friends shows her love for life.

Of course, for most people who live and work normally, making friends is just a balance point when they are idle. Finally, get together on weekends and take a walk; It's still as big as the world, and I want to see it. Take care of it, leave something worth recording, or enjoy it. Just doing nothing. A very important part of real life is outside the circle of friends. Without it, life will not be easy and lax.

In fact, the circle of friends is not only a place where people talk a lot, but also a place where some people take things seriously.

Having said that, today's circle of friends is really messy. Overwhelming advertisements, parents' short-term complaints, important news of major events at home and abroad, "gossip" in the entertainment circle, fake photos after porcelain muscle cosmetic contact lenses, all kinds of well-connected expert promotion, piles of copywriting with "goods" on the topic ... There are so many people in the world who want to know what happened, only you can't think of it, and no friend doesn't know it.

However, isn't this "chaos" a true portrayal of some people's lives at present?

Many advertisements, if you don't look at me, someone will. I have a partner, a university teacher, who I met when I was studying in the trainer class. Two months after the Spring Festival, I helped others "sell goods" and made advertisements that "we" ignored. Earned 65438+ ten thousand in two months. 654.38+100000 is nothing for people with a small goal of 654.38+100000, but it can really be "spicy" for ordinary working class. Then, she used the 6,543,800 yuan to continue to "pay tuition" and study her favorite courses. I remember when I learned that the news was true, I despised myself severely. In a special period, people who can earn money and study with peace of mind are admirable. For her, this circle of friends has become an "aristocratic circle" that makes money by hard work.

What about those you don't like? Don't watch it, or delete it altogether. To be honest, the mindless complaints of a few people in the circle of friends are really annoying. After a day's work, I found a delightful "story" around the circle. There is really no point in complaining or even scolding my father and wife. Everyone has the responsibility to maintain the public environment.

There is also an expert opinion that is arbitrary and attempts to monopolize the subconscious of friends. For this category, choose to ask yourself. Don't blindly follow, don't just be an attitude. If you agree, giving a compliment is also an attitude. After all, these people make a living by their opinions.

In this era, abandoning them will not be greeted, which will only make their cognition more and more limited. Equipped with most icebergs, you can see the wonderful water blooms that have surfaced. Perhaps, watching different voices will enlarge the spiritual world. It's hard to live. Don't take it for granted

I would like to believe you: to send a friend is to love life.

I have a cousin who occasionally sends something crazy and mindless. For example, I cooked a pot of water and forgot it was dry; Burning a fish, it was the smoke in the kitchen that choked her, only to remember that the fish in the pot was burnt ... and so on, but it would be a big mistake to judge her as a housewife with big stripes, nervousness, carelessness and dementia. She is meticulous in her work. A pot of water has dried up. Maybe she is concentrating on "being careful". Countless moments, she is helping those who need help out of trouble.

The circle of friends is really not a place to see the whole leopard. Don't take it for granted

I have a friend who occasionally sends a few words of dissatisfaction or even curses in a circle of friends, which is certainly not desirable. But it is wrong to assert that this woman is "vicious". She is not only kind and beautiful, but also attracted by everyone who approaches her. Her bright eyes are like her bright soul. Her complaint is just a way to vent in the middle of the night, and the next day you can see that she has deleted it. Hard work and positive energy are her standards.

Of course, for people with double marks, it is interesting to wear a hair band occasionally, and some people wear a hair band very boring and vulgar. This attitude is best ignored. Or kindly say to her: you are very happy.

Do you have a better hair band?

A high praise in Zhihu replied: "If you don't send your friends away, you will live seriously. If you send your friends away, you will love life." Although it caters to the public, it at least conveys more understanding among adults, far more generous than malicious speculation and slander.

Luo Zhenyu said in his New Year speech, "Children make choices. We will all do it when they grow up. "

In the adult world, emotions are different. Chances are that your happiness will make others uncomfortable. Her sadness and sympathy are hard for you to accept. If you don't accept this part, ignore it. Without empathy, it is better to treat each other with morality and live in peace.

Cai Kangyong would like to believe that friends who don't send their friends off find their center of gravity in real life.

I would like to believe that friends who send friends off love life.