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What happened to the female teacher who wrote "The world is so big, I want to see it" six years ago?

20 15 In April, a letter of resignation with the word 10 became popular on the Internet and was called the most sensational resignation letter in history by netizens.

The world is so big that I want to see it.

Now, six years later, what happened to the female teacher who stirred up the inner waves of countless people with one sentence? Did she see the world she wanted to see?

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Time goes back to the early spring of 20 15.

In psychology class, Gu Shaoqiang asked the children in Grade One to write a letter to themselves three years later. Looking at the students who are thinking below, she suddenly had an idea:

If I continue to be a teacher here, many dreams may not come true. It's time to put a perfect end to this experience.

After class, she returned to the office and wrote the resignation letter that set off the whole network.

At that time, Gu Shaoqiang had been a teacher in Henan Experimental Middle School for 1 1 year, holding an iron rice bowl envied by everyone, stable and decent, and many people didn't understand why she resigned.

Life is a process of continuous experience with time as the axis. He who can't give up anything can't change anything.

Between invariance and infinite possibility, Gu Shaoqiang chose the latter.

On the third day after submitting his resignation letter, Gu Shaoqiang simply packed up his things and left the city where he had lived for 35 years to start another life.

There is a voice in my heart:

From now on, I can go wherever I want, do whatever I want, and love whoever I want.

Her first stop was Chengdu.

Why Chengdu? Because there is a man who worries her-Yu Fu.

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Gu Shaoqiang and Yufu met in a youth hostel near Erhai Lake, where she was a volunteer.

On this day, Gu Shaoqiang was riding a single "The Hill" to do cleaning, and accidentally put the song outside. Yu Fu sitting in the corner reading a book, immediately speaking out of turn way:

"This song is very nice. Can you play it again? "

Gu Shaoqiang looked at some rough men and noticed that the book in his hand was Sanmao, her beloved writer.

Jonathan Lee sang softly: "I didn't mean to hide it, nor did I mean to make you sad ..."

Two people who traveled separately on the track met for the first time.

Later, Yu Fu came to the store for a cup of coffee almost every day, sometimes alone, sometimes chatting with friends, and occasionally chatting with Gu Shaoqiang.

Day after day, it seems that nothing has happened, and it seems that something is growing slowly.

On the day he left Erhai Lake, Yufu asked Gu Shaoqiang's name and asked for his contact information.

After that, they returned to their respective lives and communicated through the Internet from time to time, only to find that both of them wanted to escape from the city and had an inn dream that had been hidden for more than ten years.

It turns out that there are people in the world who are so in tune with themselves.

Therefore, after leaving school, Gu Shaoqiang chose Chengdu as his first stop.

Recalling the choice at that time, she regrets:

At that time, I thought, there is still a 50% chance of winning, or I will lose if I don't go. Fortunately, I won completely.

I have to say that brave people have a better chance of being cared for by God.

When she arrived in Chengdu, Yu Fu accompanied her to walk in the streets and lanes of the old street, drinking tea and chatting, just like friends who have known each other for a long time. But Gu Shaoqiang didn't decide to stay here at that time, and the distance was calling her strongly, so she embarked on a journey again.

In Ciqikou Town, Chongqing, the streets are full of spicy flavor. Stop and go, think nothing, and enjoy the freedom of this moment.

Be a gentle southern girl in a green cheongsam in the south of the Yangtze River.

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In this way, Chongqing, Wuzhen, Hangzhou, Dalian ... Gu Shaoqiang measured the world with his footsteps. The more he saw, the clearer his heart became and the more convinced he was of what he wanted.

A few months later, Gu Shaoqiang returned to Chengdu and returned to the person who made her feel at ease.

Later, they traveled all over the cities of China together.

One day, they wandered around the ancient tea-horse road. It's drizzling, and gardenias are blooming in the street. Everything is just right. Yu Fu turned his head and said, "What do you think of this place?"

Gu Shaoqiang replied: "Very good."

She thought Fu Yu was asking casually, but he went on to say:

"Why don't we stay here?"

It hit it off, and they decided to open an inn in Jiezi ancient town. The name of the inn is "Yuangui", which is homophonic "Yuangui".

Haruki Murakami said that the lost people are lost, and the reunited people will meet again. Gu Shaoqiang and Yu Fu met again and decided to be together.

There is no age to get married, only the feelings of getting married.

A few months later, they held a simple wedding in the inn. There is no complicated ceremony and no dowry. As long as they look at each other, all happiness is guaranteed.

The most beautiful thing in love is not a wedding dress, a diamond ring or an RV, but meeting you at the best age.

At the age of 35, Gu Shaoqiang waited for the right person and moved on to the next life.

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From Mr. Gu to the shopkeeper, from the three-foot podium to the quilt cover, all these changes are sudden and natural for Gu Shaoqiang.

She once couldn't wait to boil water, but now she is willing to soak in the kitchen to wash her hands and make soup for her lover.

The rough-looking jade lotus has become more and more delicate and gentle, and has learned to do all kinds of housework.

They take care of their small homes carefully, picking up soil, painting walls, installing light bulbs and doing many things themselves.

In order to save labor costs in 200 yuan, female teachers who are used to holding paper and pens repair furniture with electric drills themselves.

Laying sheets, cleaning and welcoming tourists ... The life in the inn is busy and full. Tourists from all over the world come to stay here, and Gu Shaoqiang especially likes to listen to their stories and adventures.

There is everything between the squares, which is another way to see the world.

Make love with the person you love. That's what it's like to meet love.

Two people immersed in happiness soon welcomed their little angel and their daughter "Little Fish" as scheduled.

The name comes from Zhuangzi's famous sentence: You don't know the joy of fish until you are a fish.

Gu Shaoqiang said that the biggest expectation for her daughter is to find what she thinks is a good life. What she has to do is to guide her children to find this "good" standard.

As a mother, Gu Shaoqiang loves this little life wholeheartedly.

She and Yufuhui took their daughters to the fair, watched the mountains and water by the river, danced in Chenguang Square, and showed her some people and things around.

Every festival is serious, and every moment is a serious experience.

Companionship is the longest confession, but her love for her daughter is never blind.

"I love you, but I have to love myself first. I will accompany you, but we are independent of each other. "

When the little fish grows up, mother and daughter get along more like friends. If she needs to work away from home, Gu Shaoqiang will tell her daughter what her mother is going to do and why she is trying to get her daughter's understanding.

Gu Shaoqiang gave her daughter to her husband to relax when she met her beloved master of Shaoxing Opera.

You will find that she is a mother, and she is still the independent and free-spirited teacher Gu.

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So Gu Shaoqiang, who opened an inn and became a mother, never saw the world again?

Of course not.

For more than six years, running an inn in the peak season and traveling in the off-season have become the established lifestyle of this small family. After all, she and Yu Fu have a restless soul in their hearts.

In Xi 'an, 14 years passed, and the girl who was secretly sad for her work beside the soldiers and figures became a mother, watching her daughter eat mutton kebabs and laughing happily.

In Ningbo, take a walk in the ancient town of Qiantong, where Xu Xiake started his trip, and visit the scene in the barber shop.

In Zhangye, enjoy the beautiful and colorful Danxia and sigh the wonders of nature.

In Dunhuang, Gu Shaoqiang visited the Mogao Grottoes alone nine years ago. Nine years later, she was surrounded by him and her.

In Tibet, Tibetans kowtow and bright prayer wheels are the shadows of faith.

In Zhoushan, I met a little crab in the dark.

In Shenzhen, a family of three watched the Men's Basketball World Cup. My parents are crazy about basketball, and Xiaoyuer is most concerned about basketball baby.

In Chaka Salt Lake, looking at the mirror of the sky, I was in awe of heaven and earth.

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I especially like a conversation recorded by Gu Shaoqiang between her and her daughter:

You ask me, what is the world like? I said, you touched it with your hands, and you felt it with your heart.

At the age of three months, Xiaoyuer began to travel around the world with his parents. Now, as a little girl, she has been to more than ten cities, such as Beijing, Shanghai, Changsha and Guizhou.

She can't give her children a big house and expensive toys. What Gu Shaoqiang wants to give her is a sea of stars.

Once she saw the world alone, then she walked side by side with her lover, and now they are on the road.

The world is so big that they want to see it together.

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Last year, Xiaoyu was 3 years old and stepped on his 30-year-old tail. Gu Shaoqiang and Yu Fu decided to pack their bags, change a city, and change a life.

They entrusted others to take care of the hotel and moved to Mianyang, which is only two hours' drive from Jiezi Ancient Town.

Here, Xiaoyuer began to attend kindergarten, and Gu Shaoqiang had more time to himself.

She opened a psychology studio, sometimes preparing lessons and writing lesson plans at home, and sometimes doing individual counseling to continue to engage in her favorite psychology.

In the past two months, I began to adhere to yoga fitness, get up at five o'clock every day, exercise and read books, and strive to polish myself in the years, both physically and mentally.

She said that she also planned to practice skateboarding and learn to swim. As I get older, I want to do more and more things.

In another month, Gu Shaoqiang will celebrate his 40th birthday. Because of work and other reasons, the family will move again soon.

Five years ago, with a resignation letter, the internet became popular. Later, he was criticized for opening an inn. Later, I became a mother and settled in the city. ...

Along the way, the scenery has changed and changed, and the number of people around me has gradually increased. However, no matter what happens, Gu Shaoqiang is like a sunflower written by Van Gogh, growing seriously and enthusiastically.

Perhaps, poetry and distance are not so far away, it lies in your own state of mind, and what you think is there.

Five years is not a long time, and Gu Shaoqiang is constantly changing the times, looking for new possibilities in trivial life.

We don't need to copy her way to express our inner attitude, but her courage can be seen by everyone:

Live the life you want, love the person you really love, and don't care about the eyes of others.

Everyone can only write a unique answer in a hurry on the examination paper of life. Listen to your heart and you will find the answer.

In the years to come, I hope you can be especially beautiful, especially bold, especially calm and free and easy.