Exercise eloquence

Emotional choice 1:

How to exercise eloquence

People who work hard in business should strive to enhance their confidence in speaking and improve their speaking potential. Only in this way can we avoid social failure and work difficulties, promote the success of my career and make my life colorful, comfortable and happy. In work and career, people who dare to speak and are good at speaking can completely convince others with their language communication potential, so that the work can go smoothly and reach both ends. Self-confidence and charm of speech are necessary conditions for career success. People grow up slowly, and the more they grow, the more they discover; Eloquence plays an important role in communication. Communication is the premise of success. Therefore, if you want to succeed, you must practice your breath well. So, what kind of eloquence can be called good eloquence? What do people with good eloquence need? What is the fundamental difference between a good eloquence person and a poor eloquence person? Here, let's discuss it together. As a cigarette, let's talk about our own experience. Debut for more than a year, equivalent to those who have been in the business for ten or eight years, is nothing at all, but compared with my peers at school or at the same time when I debuted, my experience can be called an experience. People, that's it, experience slowly and grow slowly. Because of his straightforward personality, he doesn't like flattery and walks like a wall. It is because of this character that I have serious hatred and dissatisfaction with this ugly social state. I can't deny that eloquence has always accounted for a large proportion, whether it's flattery or starting your own business.

There is a limit to being quiet in your career. You must stand up and speak. Since you have chosen to start a business, you must bravely deal with all difficulties. The first thing you have to learn is to "speak"!

Every time I go out to start a business, I see a different situation. The population is good, I can get a order in one second. No matter how sincere you are, you dare not speak. There is nothing to mend. Of course, this is not to deny your sincerity. I regret to say: I'm sorry, you are not suitable for this job!

What is eloquence? What do you mean, poor eloquence? Maybe no one can explain this problem clearly. Personally, I think the difference between good eloquence and bad eloquence lies in opening and continuous conversation. Therefore, we should have the courage to speak out. I have always believed: dare to say that it is a winner!

How to make your speech more infectious?

Image is also an important issue. What is the definition of image? Let's not discuss it for the time being. No matter what you do, people's first impression of you is what you wear and then what you say. So we should pay attention to the image problem individually. This is related to whether you can enter the state or not. In communication, image plays the first role! We should be good at creating a pleasant conversation atmosphere. Say what you see. This is not flattering, but speaking skills, which most young people can't do. Because they are young and arrogant, many things are impulsive, let alone let them create an atmosphere and talk to people. If customers deliberately make things difficult for them, maybe the business is over. Therefore, at present, many enterprises are not optimistic about fresh graduates when recruiting employees. Personally, I think this is one of the reasons. Humor never lags behind in business or communication. Humor is an affinity. This will bring us closer together and promote our career. This is a lubricant.

Politeness is essential for new customers. The most successful way to meet new brothers and sisters is to be a loyal listener and give the right to speak to others. Of course, everything is not absolute, and it will vary from person to person! Everyone should improvise. Play it by ear:)

Self-confidence is very important. You must firmly believe that you will succeed. This is the premise of success. Speak in the same way. Everyone should firmly believe that each of us is an excellent speaker.

Language potential is one of the essential qualities of modern talents. Speaking is not only a science, but also a constantly changing new capital for you to win things and get things done. A good mouth will bring you good luck and wealth, so a good eloquence means a brilliant future. No matter how smart you are, how well educated you are, how beautiful clothes you wear and how rich your assets are, if you can't express yourself fluently and appropriately, you still can't really realize your self-worth. (dreaming of washing your hair)

The above is a brief talk about marriage. Welcome to discuss the benefits of eloquence and what factors need to be paid attention to and improved when replying. For everyone to have a happy day of mutual understanding and cooperation, for these lofty purposes, let's exercise our eloquence well!

Exercise the boldest speech, the loudest speech and the most fluent speech.

Time to achieve the goal: 30 days

First, carry out psychological training with your heart.

1. Self-suggestion: meditate every morning 10 times. "I must speak most boldly, I must speak most loudly, and I must speak most fluently. I have to do this. This day must be a happy day! " (I usually give myself advice, say it silently or write it out, at least 10 times. )

2, imagination training: at least 5 minutes to imagine my successful speech in public, imagine my success.

3. Understand the smile at least 5 minutes in front of the mirror and show your gestures and forms.

Second, eloquence exercise.

(1) Take at least 10 minutes of deep breathing training every day.

(2) Seize every opportunity to speak and practice eloquence. (Sentence in a bad mood)

1, consciously exchange ideas with at least 5 people every day.

2. Read aloud or speak loudly for at least 5 minutes every day.

Train yourself to "speak in three minutes" or "meditate in three minutes" once a day.

4. Tell at least one story or a complete story to relatives and colleagues every day.

5. Pay attention to some skills when speaking.

A. Before speaking, take a deep breath, calm down, smile, make eye contact, and then start speaking.

B, say the first sentence bravely, speak louder and slower, and say short sentences in the middle without interruption.

C. When you find a nerve blockage, stop, take a deep breath consciously, and then say it with your breath.

D, if the performance is not good, comfort yourself: "Why were you nervous just now? It doesn't matter, continue to speak steadily "; At the same time, conquer fear with confidence in feeling and action.

E. When you are nervous, you can do relaxation exercises, take a deep breath, or try to clench your fist and relax quickly for 10 times in a row. (strong personality signature)

Third, auxiliary exercise.

1, read inspirational books or eloquence books for at least 20 minutes every day to cultivate self-intention and learn some skills.

2. Laugh 10 times a day, be optimistic and relax.

3. Train to understand the sight and gaze of others, and cultivate self-confidence and observation potential.

4. Cultivate the habit of smiling, smile brightly and sincerely, and exercise affinity.

5. Learn to comprehend and review, sum up gains and losses every day, and write your experiences. Every week, we should comprehensively summarize the achievements and shortcomings and determine the goals for next week.

Emotional choice 2:

How do introverts exercise their eloquence?

Generally speaking, people who are not good at words are mostly introverted and taciturn.

They listen more and say less. The key is that they dare not say it. Therefore, I think that to practice eloquence, we must first practice the courage to speak. The establishment of personal courage should be based on good self-confidence.

Recommended:

1, get up every day and read the inspirational words for success: a I am the best speaker in the world.

My eloquence is getting better every day.

C I have good communication potential. The more brothers and sisters, the more I have.

D I have incomparable charm and good temperament.

I am free to deal with different types of people.

(Read every sentence 10 times) Enter the subconscious!

2。 Talk to three different people every day.

3。 Read some colloquial articles every day and read them out loud, preferably until your mouth is numb.

The most important thing is: insist! Hold on! Hold on!

How to talk about yourself in life and social situations

Soliloquy has been bothering many people. Many people are afraid to talk about themselves, and feel that they don't know what they are talking about, except their names. In fact, soliloquy plays a very important role in our life. Good soliloquy can leave a deep impression on others and play a very good role in accumulating contacts or working life. Many students often ask me how to design self-talk. On this day, I will sort out my thoughts, write a few simple points and analyze them, hoping to be of necessary help to everyone.

Self-talk is divided into different occasions and different environments, so you should be prepared for self-talk in different occasions. It is necessary to take some time to prepare carefully. Generally speaking, your designed self-talk can last for at least a few years, and you will use it when you need it, so you don't have to worry about not knowing how to say it.

Self-talk in life and social situations should be concise and clear, usually around 10 second, sometimes accompanied by shaking hands.

Example: Hello! My name is Gong, and I am a writer with both civil and military skills. I won the championship in one fell swoop. I was educated by Sixian (nice to meet you).

This soliloquy is divided into three parts: the first part: the name; The second part: a simple explanation of the name (convenient for others to remember); Part III: Where did it come from? As a social occasion in life, this kind of self-talk is enough. Sometimes, the second part can be removed according to the situation, just say what your name is and where you come from.

How to talk about yourself in public?

Talking to yourself in public is different from talking to yourself in social life. It can't be as simple as talking to yourself in life. After all, you are standing on a stage. Now that you're on, let everyone know more about you, and you should seize the opportunity to promote yourself.

Self-promotion is actually a very important thing, just like Ma Yun will talk about his Alibaba wherever he goes, Niu Gensheng will talk about his Mengniu wherever he goes, and he will talk about his New Oriental wherever he goes. We should constantly promote ourselves through learning and understanding, let more people know about you and leave a deep impression on you.

Dear brothers and sisters, good afternoon! My name is Zhang Wenkui. I am a writer with both civil and military skills. I come from Sixian Education. I'm glad to see so many excellent brothers and sisters there today. I wish every brother and sister here a happy family and a more successful career, because I know Wen Kui. Thank you very much (Time: about 30 seconds)

The most important thing is to let others remember your name. I've seen many people gush about themselves as soon as they come on stage. He will step down when he finishes speaking. The people in the audience were anxious and asked, "Brothers and sisters, you haven't told me your names yet!" " It is not good to talk too much about hobbies in just 30 seconds in front of the public (if the time is three minutes, you can talk about hobbies). You have only one purpose for 30 seconds, that is, to make others remember your name.

In the above example, I mentioned my name four times in just 30 seconds, and these four mentions only expressed one meaning: You must remember that my name is Zhang Wenkui!

How to talk about yourself in a job interview

Self-talk in a job interview usually takes three minutes. This self-talk means that the examiner wants to know more about you, so he tries to convey as much information as possible in these three minutes.

For example:

Hello! My name is Zhang Wenkui, and I graduated from Wuhan Huazhong University of Science and Technology in 2005. Since 2005, I have been working as a lecturer in the course of speech eloquence in Sixian Education. My main job is a large-scale public lecture and a two-day and one-night public lecture training class.

During my college years, I began to systematically study the valuable experiences of Carnegie, anthony robbins, a master of world potential, Chen Anzhi, a successful authority in Asia, joe girard, the god of marketing, Ceng Shiqiang, a management expert in China and other successful people.

In 2006, he went to Shanghai to study speech and eloquence, and was guided by many successful people, such as Mr. Lin, the general representative of China, the international training institution, Zhang Bin, the first president of China wedding photography industry, and one of the eight Asian lecturers.

In 2007, invited by a famous training company in Wuhan, as a special lecturer of the company, he gave lectures and eloquence training for college students, and the students were all over Wuhan.

Then I went to Beijing to study charismatic eloquence and public speaking systematically, and discussed with many famous speakers in Beijing how to improve their eloquence and public speaking potential. After returning to Hangzhou, I combined my own characteristics and formed a unique speech training system.

So far, he has given hundreds of lecture tours in colleges and universities all over the country, which has inspired many college students to exercise and improve their eloquence, and also helped many college students build up their confidence in public speaking.

I am good at public speaking and public speaking training, and I look forward to contributing to your company. Thank you.

Job interview is generally divided into the following parts: name, where you graduated, what position you have held, which one you have been in charge of, what kind of experience you have and what you are good at.

When we finished these six parts, we actually had the necessary basic understanding of you. Of course, this six-part self-talk is just a better way for me. If you have other better ways, you can do it. Please give me more advice.

To practice eloquence, you must first practice listening.

Many people think that a talking population is good, which is incorrect. For example, a bitch scolds the street She can scold and talk in the street all day, but she really needs it. When you give her a scene, she doesn't have to say it. People with good eloquence don't talk much, just be incisive. If you can speak incisively, you must first listen well. Only by listening well can you speak well.

When listening, you should especially listen to the implication of others and listen to what others say.

Once upon a time, there was an old man whose wife left early. He felt a little lonely alone, wanted to find another wife, and was embarrassed to tell his son directly, so he said to his son, "Alas, it's really cold to sleep alone at night." This son is also very filial. As soon as he heard that it was cold to sleep alone at night, he went to buy an electric blanket and put it on the bed. Grandpa was unhappy when he saw the electric blanket and said, "Alas, no one scratched my back when I slept." When my son heard this, he immediately understood the meaning and ran to buy him a tickler. One day, my uncle's son decided to get married. At this time, the uncle said angrily to his son, "What marriage? Just buy an electric blanket and a back scratcher! "

Many people will say I know, but I really don't know how to listen. Can't understand the implication of others. I'll give you some advice there.

First, listen attentively. When communicating with others, don't be absent-minded, improve your self-concern and understand what others say.

Second, think hard. After listening, you should think about why others say so, why he says so, what he wants to express, and so on. You may not think of it at first, but as long as you keep it in mind, after a while, you will gradually understand the implication of others, and then go to the heart to understand and summarize. If you encounter such a situation next time, others are likely to be expressing something, and gradually, you will listen.

Third, communicate with thoughtful people. People who are good at thinking often have a lot of aftertaste in what they say. From these memorable places, you can understand the meaning, and at the same time you can understand how to express your ideas skillfully.

Three beliefs in practicing eloquence

First, the importance of faith to our eloquence.

I often hear people say, "I grew up in a bad environment and didn't have a chance to practice my eloquence." "My working environment is so bad that I have no chance to exercise at all." Some people even say, "My eloquence is not good because my parents can't talk."

In fact, a person's success has little to do with environment and birth. Our Chairman Mao grew up in the countryside, and the turbulent social environment did not create our great new China. Because of his poor family, Hua dropped out of junior high school and became a famous math lover. Andrew carnegie, the "king of steel", made a living by hand spinning linen plaid, while his mother sewed shoes as a sideline. His family is poor, but through self-improvement, he created the myth of starting from scratch. There are too many such examples.

A person's thoughts actually determine a person's behavior, a person's behavior determines a person's habits, a person's habits determine a person's character, and a person's character determines a person's fate. We often succeed in people we imagine. If you think you can't practice eloquence well, you will never practice eloquence well; If you think that eloquence is practiced and there is no bad eloquence, it is only a matter of time before you have a good eloquence. A person's belief in things often directly determines our fate.

Second, let faith enter our subconscious.

Born Tracy, a master of world potential, once said: "The power of the subconscious is more than 30,000 times that of consciousness." Let faith continue in our subconscious, only through constant self-suggestion.

Three beliefs in practicing eloquence

1, as long as I have a chance to talk, I will say it.

As long as I have the opportunity to go on stage, I will rush to the stage.

As long as I have the opportunity to practice, I will practice with my heart.

If you can really apply these three beliefs to your life, I can't think of a month, and your eloquence level will definitely make a qualitative leap.

Only a broad mind can have a good eloquence.

A person must have a broad mind to have a good eloquence. One should judge the situation and put the overall situation first. If he is not broad-minded enough to speak fast for himself, it will be difficult to speak properly, well and show good eloquence.

In interpersonal communication, if we can handle the contradiction with others with tolerance and humility, and tolerate each other with tolerance, then we will turn our enemies into friends.

Lin Xiangru was a native of Zhao at the end of the Warring States Period. He was a guest of Miao Xian, an official of Zhao State. After returning to Zhao State intact, he met Mianchi and became a senior minister of Zhao State.

Lian Po, a senior official of the State of Zhao, made outstanding achievements and was a sublime vassal. Lin Xiangru came from behind, which made Lian Po very angry. He thought, I used General Zhao, who fought many battles, fought and fought, and made great contributions to the siege field. It's really hard to understand that you, Lin Xiangru, are above me, but you are eloquent. He said angrily, "I was humiliated when I saw each other." From then on, every time he went to court, in order to avoid competing with Lian Po, Lin Xiangru always admitted that he was sick.

On one occasion, Lin Xiangru went out with the public. When I saw Lian Po coming, I quickly told my men to turn around and avoid him. Seeing this, the doorman said to Lin Xiangru, "We follow this gentleman, but we admire his integrity. At the moment, you are in the same position as General Lian Po. When you see him, it is a shame for ordinary people to do so, let alone a leader! Even we are ashamed to follow our husbands. "

Lin Xiangru asked, "You think I'm timid. Which is better, General Lian or King Qin? "

The doorman replied, "Of course, the king of Qin has power."

Lin Xiangru said, "Since the King of Qin has power, I dare to reprimand him in the court and insult his ministers. Am I not even afraid of the king of Qin, but even the general? "

Lin Xiangru later said, "I think I didn't dare to send troops to attack Zhao because I was in power with General Lian. If we fight, we can't coexist. The reason why I do this is to put national interests first and personal things behind! "

After listening to it, the public suddenly realized. General Lian Po felt ashamed after hearing this, so he offered a humble apology, became iron-fisted friends with Lin Xiangru, and staged a scene of "making peace" that was never heard again.

It is precisely because of Lin Xiangru's broad mind, which puts national interests first, that his reputation has been passed down through the ages.

In our life, if we haggle over every ounce, we must speak quickly. It is difficult for such people to succeed in interpersonal communication, to gain the respect of others and to show their excellent eloquence.