What should I give my girlfriend for Valentine's Day on Tanabata? Recommend a good gift.

Many times, couples will choose to give gifts to each other to express their love. And every time we give gifts, everyone is the biggest headache. This expensive gift may make you eat instant noodles for months. The most important thing is that the expensive gift is not necessarily what the other person likes. And if the gift is not so expensive, maybe your girlfriend will think your sincerity is not enough.

For example, every time I give a gift, my head hurts. If the gift I buy is cheap, I am afraid that the object will think it is particularly cheap and that I am insincere. Of course, sometimes, giving some gifts is not that expensive. But if my other half often doesn't like my gifts because of this, they are too cheap. Then I know whether he thinks it's cheap because things are too cheap or because things are not sincere enough.

Some gifts feel cheap, perhaps because the gifts themselves are not sincere enough, such as an umbrella bought everywhere or a small flower sent by the roadside. Although the gift is well-intentioned, it will still make the object feel that the gift is not sincere. Then at this time we need to reflect, have we done something wrong? When choosing gifts, you should think more about yourself. Try asking the giver what he really wants.

But if you clearly prepared this gift, you still have to spend a lot of thought, but the object still feels dissatisfied. So maybe many times, we need to think about whether the object is dissatisfied with our gifts or with us. Do as much as you have money, and never pretend to be fat in your face. If you really understand you, you will understand your mind, but if you don't, no matter what you do, he won't be moved.

So when my partner thinks my gift is cheap, I will first reflect on whether my gift is appropriate. If it doesn't fit, then the problem is with me. But if the person who really chooses a gift for me is still not satisfied, why not ask him what he really wants? In this way, both of them can be happy.