Do you want to give him the freedom to fly, or do you want to hold him firmly in your hand? If you are bored or swearing, please go around.

I know a girl of your type is very much like my girlfriend, a standard post-80s generation. In fact, you might as well try to adjust your mentality. You should have a sense of crisis. You think, if one day, he can't stand your willfulness and runs away, what should you do? Do you regret what you did today? It is better to grasp it now than to regret it later, and you should also give him a sense of crisis. Although you love him, don't act so strongly, as if he can't live without him, and then he will start yelling, right? The long-term happiness of two people together is based on equal treatment, and no one owes anyone. In fact, it's quite right for you to find someone eight years older than you. Girls born after 1980s are all allowed to accommodate others. They can tolerate you to the greatest extent, so you will be happy in the future. I hope you can be happy.