Character or Fate: What happened in Shang Yan and Le Jia from the spotlight to the street?

"Hello everyone, congratulations on seeing Le Jia alive."

10 years ago, when Le Jia was in full swing, he greeted the audience like this.

The people below are also very face-saving, screaming "oh oh".

Le Jia has long been used to such a scene. In those years, every time he appeared with another "bald head", women would scream.

Because in China, there may be almost no women who haven't seen Jiangsu Satellite TV, a popular dating show, If You Are the One.

Until now, especially during the Chinese New Year, some "wonderful" clips are still being replayed. But things have changed. In recent years, it has been found that Le Jia disappeared silently on TV.

He returned to his old job: lecturing and training, and occasionally took over some jobs hosted by Shang Yan Street and the annual meeting.

Although the money has not been earned less, compared with the peak of the career, it is inevitable to be down and out.

He can't blame others, the future is ruined by himself, all because of his hot personality.

But how can a person who gives personality training to others everywhere not even manage his own personality well?

Le Jia's 46 years are like a living textbook of "Character and Fate".

0 1

1975, Wu Guixian, the first strong woman in politics and female deputy prime minister, appeared in China.

In the same year, an ordinary family in Jing 'an District of Shanghai also had their own child named "Le Jia".

This name sounds very festive. My parents don't expect much of him. They just want to be happy and live a good life.

At that time, Le Jia's parents never imagined that their son would create a set of theories many years later and firmly said to the camera: "Most strong women in politics are yellow figures ... Vice Premier Wu Yi is also yellow."

People who may not understand this theory don't know what "yellow characters" are at all, but just think this person is "mysterious", but this is another story.

When Le Jia was born, Shanghai was the armed base of the Gang of Four, and the situation was very unstable.

When I was two months old, my parents left Shanghai with Le Jia when he was a baby and moved to a village in Weinan, Shaanxi.

When I was a child, Le Jia was very active, naughty and had many tricks.

But it happened that his father was an intellectual and there were thousands of books at home. At the age of five, Le Jia began to make trouble outside and began to read books when he got home.

But it is not easy to live in this 800-mile Qinchuan. Le Jia's family is not rich. The so-called but not as people who have been poor together know, his parents quarrel all day because of trivial matters, and his father sometimes goes back to his mother.

Le Jia saw it and learned the bad habit of "hands-on".

However, Le Jia will not be seen until he wrestles with his wife after marriage. What influenced him most at that time was his rebellious character.

Le Jia didn't study hard and his grades plummeted. I also hate my parents and want to leave them.

But Le Jia didn't succeed. 13 years old, moved back to Shanghai with his parents, and studied in the third grade in Shanghai. Because of poor foundation and poor grades, I was not admitted to a good high school.

/kloc-at the age of 0/4, the Le Jia family returned to their ancestral home in Ningbo, Zhejiang. This time, I was admitted to Ningbo Technical Secondary School, majoring in financial accounting.

At that time, Le Jia was still young, with hair on his head and smooth eyebrows, but he was very competitive.

Once, he bet with his classmates that the loser shaved his head and walked around the school.

Le Jia was confident and agreed, but the result was that he lost. Despite the blow to his self-esteem, Le Jia was willing to "agree" and immediately shaved his head and even his eyebrows.

That day, Le Jia walked around the school with his head bare and became the object of onlookers, but he was not ashamed, but he was quite proud:

"Everyone thinks I'm strange, but I'm proud. I caught the attention of others and felt very independent. "

But what's the use of just having a hairstyle? Men have to look at technology.

Soon, it was Le Jia's turn to show his strength.

02

Le Jia learned this truth from his parents at an early age.

After graduating from technical secondary school, Le Jia listened to her mother and stayed in a bank in Ningbo as an accountant. This is my mother's wish. You can work hard and earn some money to support yourself.

Cola Jia is not reconciled.

Sitting in that cubicle, no one was watching, and his tendinitis didn't play any role: "that job didn't give me happiness." I want a job that deals with many people, not just the 100 person in the bank. "

But this is still 199 1 year, and Le Jia is only 16 years old. In her mother's eyes, without this "iron rice bowl", there will be problems in her future life.

Perhaps because of fear or other reasons, Le Jia stayed in the bank for two years until he couldn't stand it, and then he resigned from the bank.

/kloc-Le Jia, 0/8 years old, started to sell real estate.

But at that time, selling a house was still a technical job, and you couldn't just rely on your mouth. Because Le Jia couldn't read the architectural drawings, he found it boring to sell the house and left bitterly.

Fortunately, he was tall and in good shape, and soon found a new sales job-selling cosmetics.

Le Jia, who just started working, can only "kill people" because he has no other clients. His first client was a female colleague of the former bank.

This female colleague is also saving face and bought 900 pieces of cosmetics in one breath.

This is 1993, the monthly salary of Lejia is only 170 yuan, and the monthly salary per capita in Zhejiang is 327 yuan.

And because of this single transaction, Le Jia took 200 yuan's commission from 900 yuan, and the money he got suddenly exceeded the average level of Zhejiang Province.

Le Jia felt that he had found the direction of his life, and this thing that could talk and make money was the most suitable thing for him.

Since then, Le Jia has tried his best to show his golden words to women and won the support of many female friends, which has nothing to do with him.

This Le Jia was born early. If we catch this good opportunity, "Lipstick Brothers" will definitely have nothing to do with Li Jiaqi.

In the first year, Le Jia won the first place in the annual sales list of Zhejiang Avon Company.

He also took time to go to Ningbo TV University to get a new diploma, and a brand-new life is just around the corner.

That year, in Le Jia's own words, because of his outstanding performance, Avon Shanghai headquarters attached great importance to it, and the headquarters decided to let him come to Shanghai Avon Training Department as a tutor.

Teach others how to sell cosmetics.

After receiving the notice, Le Jia went to Shanghai without hesitation and escaped from his mother's clutches. My mother has been strict with Le Jia since she was a child. If you don't listen, slap him with a belt buckle. This time, she finally couldn't get it.

1994, 19-year-old Le Jia became Avon's youngest direct sales trainer.

On the podium, Le Jia has twice as much energy as others, plus he is tall and loud. Although he is very young, he has a special momentum.

But also gained a group of fans selling cosmetics, one sister left and one sister right.

But it didn't last long. A year later, the president of the company who appreciated him was laid off because of internal strife in the group.

Le Jia, who was on the wrong team, was also excluded, and had little chance to get on the podium again. Because there was no performance stage, Le Jia was very miserable and chose to leave.

However, as the old saying goes, what is lost is gained. Although frustrated at work, Le Jia is particularly proud of her love. At the age of 20, he is about to become a father.

03

"I had a son at the age of 20."

What Le Jia said is true. From 65438 to 0995, Le Jia met an expert, a training teacher from Taiwan Province.

Le Jia studied two courses with this teacher: one is called "The Potential of Life" and the other is called "How to Set Life Goals".

After studying, Le Jia soon got along well with these two new skills in a new training company. People who come to listen to his training, from ordinary grassroots to rich ladies, like to chat with him.

This is not, chatting and chatting will make you feel. Le Jia met a rich girl and they hit it off. Both of them are very impulsive and will talk about marriage soon.

But his parents don't like him at all. They think Le Jia is a hooligan. They not only look down on him, but also despise him. If the girls were not pregnant before marriage, they would never agree to the marriage.

Obviously, married life is not satisfactory. Le Jia is depressed in front of this family. He felt that he had worked hard all his life and could not earn the 95 cents in her father's pocket.

Helpless, the two were forced to divorce. Le Jia was hit hard by this.

He hates, he wants to curse his wife's parents with the most vicious language; He hates it. He hates these people who are poor and love wealth. They are just snobs.

Therefore, Le Jia is determined to make money. It coincides with the opening of Amway, the largest "marketing company" in the world, in China.

Without thinking, Le Jia plunged into the "direct selling army" that was popular all over the country at that time. Whether this kind of direct selling is good or bad, it is true that there are talents in Le Jia. In two years, he toured all over the country, conducted more than 200 publicity activities and formed a team of 10,000 people.

Arguably, at this time of Le Jia has not bad money. But in the interview, he said that 1998 was his most difficult time, and he had 40 yuan to spend a week.

Whether it's true or not, because Le Jia has decided not to do direct selling and is ready to start a business with friends.

But everyone who knows Le Jia knows that he is arbitrary and the people who work with him always have no good results. The company has only been open for a few months, but it broke up in discord.

Le Jia can only go it alone. He started his own speech company. He doesn't want to teach others to sell, he wants to teach others to speak.

Le Jia always said, you see, the president of the United States can talk a lot, but our leaders are still reading the manuscript.

But you can't start a company with only one mouth, you have to have a brain. There are certainly not as many people who want to learn to speak as those who want to learn to sell things to make money. It can be said that there are very few people and there is no market at all. Le Jia can only think of other ways.

In 200 1 year, Le Jia founded "China Personality Color Research Center", which he learned by accident from a speech. At that time, the man was talking about behavioral psychology. Le Jia didn't understand psychology, but he thought it could be done.

Plagiarism or reference, anyway, Le Jia is definitely not the first person to associate personality with color.

But he has a good mouth and has accumulated a lot of fans.

200 1 By 2008, Le Jia turned into an "expert" and designed an image for himself: bald head+earrings on his left ear.

On weekdays, there are not many such people, so he "debuted" and broke into this world with his own theory.

Le Jia claimed to be a "preacher of character and color", and also wrote a book "People with Colored Eyes", nicknamed "Sex maniac".

"In 2008, I have reached the peak."

Although Le Jia thought so himself, his rich girl ex-wife gave him a push.

His ex-wife introduced a producer to Le Jia, which turned his peak into a "myth".

04

Maybe someone was inspired by Xiaogang Feng's movies.

In 2009, Jiangsu Satellite TV finalized a blind date and dating program with the same name as the movie, called "If You Are the One".

Wang Gang, the chief producer, wants to think about it. So many women's programs still need two men.

He hired Morphy, who was already famous at that time, as the host, but he still lacked a partner.

Wang Gang initially assumed that Murphy was in charge of the opening and this partner was in charge of the ending.

He is responsible for the last hurdle for boys to choose girls, and it is best to create some conflicts, preferably newcomers, and it would be better if he could know more about psychology.

Unfortunately, Le Jia's ex-wife's friend happened to know Wang Gang and knew that he was looking for someone, so he said something.

Although Le Jia doesn't like his ex-wife's family, after all, there is a son in the middle, who is also in contact with his ex-wife on weekdays, and friends around him are also happy to see the stories of these two people, so it has become one thing.

20 10 1, "If You Are the One" was broadcast on Jiangsu Satellite TV. The combination of two bald heads is strange, but one is calm and restrained and the other is sharp.

More importantly, the 24 female guests are better than each other.

Just saying "I prefer to cry in BMW" is enough to make the chief producer Wang Gang laugh in his dream. "If You Are the One" became famous at an unprecedented speed.

People all over the country know that there is a program to find someone, which is very good.

There was a fire in Murphy and Le Jia. Grandma in the streets can recognize these two bald heads at a glance.

This big guy with muscles, in particular, hit the nail on the head, and made a great impression.

But the audience in front of the TV didn't know that this man claimed to be a "preacher of personality and color", and he didn't know that he had a team of more than 10 thousand people when direct selling was the most powerful.

Everyone only knows that this man is really a man and a woman. He is not an "emotional expert" but also a "gold medal tutor".

I have a strong sense of substitution and feel more anxious than the guests themselves. I cried while I was still on the show.

But this person has a problem and is particularly impulsive.

After the festival, he went to the food stall to drink with the team. When he is drunk, he can lie on the ground crying and hug people's thighs.

Do not converge on the program, often speak freely and make up your own mind.

He once said that two female guests who had been athletes were lewd.

He also said to the male guest: "If you can do more than 50 push-ups on the spot, she will go with you!"

But at that time, female guests didn't have a crush on male guests at all. Finally, Murphy came forward to mediate and explained to the male guests that this was just Le Jia's wishful thinking and did not represent the female guests.

However, this does not prevent the audience from liking him.

When Le Jia attended the event, dozens of security guards surrounded him. Thousands of fans screamed, lights flashed and roses were everywhere. Fans want to hug him when they see him. Some people bought 20 of his books at one go.

Wherever you go, you are treated as a star.

But Le Jia said, "I hate it when people say I'm an artist."

But it sounds uncomfortable. Obviously, "If You Are the One" has created a TV star, and he still doesn't admit it.

What is even more exasperating is that Lejia increasingly regards "If You Are the One" as his performance stage, always performing roaring and aggressive dramas.

There has always been dissatisfaction with him, and contradictions are on the verge.

05

Speaking of which, if someone "shoots" in the back, we won't know.

Only Le Jia and Murphy can be seen in the tooling, and the smell of gunpowder is getting stronger and stronger.

In fact, when "If You Are the One" was first broadcast, Le Jia and Murphy had a good relationship and sold rot. They said vaguely, "Only the other side can touch our bald heads."

But the truth can't fool people. Ever since Le Jia used the damaged vocal cords as an excuse, a month after "If You Are the One" disappeared, the contradiction was doomed to break out.

The worst fight between them was when male guest No.5 quarreled while recording. They were flushed and were driven out of the recording studio.

However, there is no way to prove whether there is a fight backstage.

Later, Morphy sent such a Weibo: "Pay attention to the people around you, and you will find that the so-called sharpness is often a mean mouth, and the so-called hitting the nail on the head is often uneducated."

Le Jia did not show weakness, and then sent a Weibo: "Some people in the world vilify me, humiliate me, despise me, cheat me and humiliate me. How to deal with it? " Picked up a smiling face and said, just bear with him, let him be patient, respect him, ignore him and see him in a few years. "

One day in June 20 13, Le Jia came home from the studio after recording the program. He turned on his mobile phone and played only one song "Injury" in a loop. He said that he had listened to this song for at least 400 times.

Five months later, Le Jia officially left his If You Are the One.

When he left, Le Jia was full of confidence. He feels that with his current reputation and influence, leaving If You Are the One is as simple as his divorce.

As a man who has been married three times, Le Jia is not afraid at all. Anyway, there will be new people after leaving.

But this time, he was wrong.

06

"How can you drink on the show, players won't drink? If drinking affects the player's play, who will bear the consequences? " Lu Yu coaxed.

"Shut up and don't talk!" Drink too much Le Jia nu way.

This is the scene of Lu Yu and Le Jia in the third season of Super Speaker, and the scene is full of gunpowder.

But these two were not like this before.

Le Jia often said that Lu Yu was the object he had always admired, and every word came to his heart. But when this admiration rises, Le Jia will touch Lu Yu's little hand with excitement and affection.

That day, Lu Yu left angrily, and Venus also said that she was frightened by Le Jia.

This is 20 15 years. Because of this "drinking and making trouble", Le Jia was implicitly banned, and his career plummeted. No TV station dares to ask him to do any programs in the future.

Speaking of it, it was all his own "death" in Le Jia.

After leaving If You Are the One, Le Jia's career actually rose instead of falling, and he also took the place of Sa Beining to host the CCTV chief nightly talk.

When talking to Cui Jian, Le Jia didn't care at all. Twenty years ago, Le Jia was a fan of Cui Jian. Every time he takes a cold bath in the dormitory, he sings nothingness to resist nothingness.

As soon as Le Jia came up, he asked Cui Jian, "Do you like me?"

Cui Jian sincerely replied, "Yes. Because you are the host of the speech. "

At the end of that visit, Le Jia was satisfied that his career was in full swing and he had children and children.

He felt that his popularity was equal to that of Cui Jian, the godfather of rock and roll, and his time was coming.

Except for one thing, our education is forged by Fang:

"The American University of Armstrong, which awarded Le Jia's degree, is a pheasant school registered by the Chinese in Wangxing, California. The telephone number is 1996. It sold diplomas in China at the end of last century and the beginning of this century, and now it has closed. "

Le Jia is not afraid. He explained that he was attending a one-and-a-half-year undergraduate course sponsored by the school and a joint school in China. The tuition fee totaled 35,000 yuan, and he got a bachelor's degree.

Besides, it is beyond reproach that Le Jia has been selling itself to the outside world through technical secondary education. But as an expert, especially a psychologist, I left a message for others without some academic support.

In particular, he can't control his own strength, and it is even more unbelievable that he can teach others to manage their personality.

On 20 14, Le Jia hosted "Mr. Super" and made a quiet fire. Even the audience thought the fire was really puzzling.

Le Jia's mood was very intense. Finally, Nana solved the problem.

Speaking of Nana, in this program, Le Jia tried to kiss Nana, which also attracted many fans.

"Disgusting", "liar" and "psycho". Since Le Jia released himself, more and more people have called him names in Weibo.

But the more others scold, the more Le Jia blushes.

His offline speeches and book signing meetings are also more popular.

Le Jia's speech has already talked about Cambridge University. From time to time, there are cases of "going to the table and stepping on the stool" when signing offline, and some swearing words are also exposed from time to time.

I don't know why, whenever he scolds "I X" and "Go to XX", cheers and applause will be heard below.

Needless to say, not only the fans in Le Jia like to watch this scene, but also the producers of TV programs, so few people take the initiative to create hot spots for TV programs.

However, the Super Speaker program group never imagined that the tutor they invited could go so far.

On the recording day, Le Jia took out a bottle of 53-degree white wine to cheer up the contestants. The player didn't drink too much, but he got drunk first and threw a drunken frenzy on the stage.

Lu Yu, a mentor, was silent, angry with Venus, and accused Wendu Tao, who would dissuade him.

Afterwards, Le Jia also sent Weibo to ask the netizen, "Do you know how much I can drink?" .

The dead duck mouth shut operation, can be compared with him, perhaps only Zheng Shuang.

Of course, the outcome of these two people is the same. Liberation Daily criticized Le Jia.

Le Jia withdrew from the circle.

Helpless or banned, in short, it is difficult to see this once bald head on TV.

07

Flowers bloom and flowers fall, and Le Jia quickly fell to the bottom from a gold medal host who was popular all over the country, but in five years.

Teenagers become famous by inspiration, while middle-aged buildings collapse.

Le Jia, 46, returned to his old job, giving lectures and training.

But people who have seen Le Jia's performances no longer believe in his personality and color theory. People can't expect a person who can't even manage his own personality to teach others to manage his own personality.

This is a more unacceptable blow to him than being suspended.

20 10 or so, Le Jia vowed to say:

10 years later, when I put 20 monographs on personality color in front of everyone. I can shut up many people who think I can't write.

Now 10 years have passed, and Le Jia has not only failed to shut them up, but has become a joke in the eyes of experts.

A photo of Le Jia's speech in the street came out, and people lamented that Le Jia was so down and out.

In fact, this photo is not a recent photo, but a hot scene of his street signing at the peak.

A photo, different circumstances, in the eyes of others, are two completely different lives.

This is the fate that Le Jia, who fell from the altar, cannot escape.

Success is also a character, so is failure.

However, the entertainment industry has always been like this. When a person is shaped into a myth, he is a god and is sought after by everyone; When a person becomes a joke, he may be worse than ordinary people, and anyone can step on it.

Le Jia once said in an interview: "In fact, I am particularly fragile and timid, especially afraid of being hit. Sometimes I will be devastated and cry at home for several days. "

I don't know if Le Jia, 46, will go home and cry when he sees several students in the audience, and then think about it. Did his personality make his fate, or did it affect his personality?