Wen Kui's Happy Mind Map: The 29th Educational Theory of Wulin Plan: Seeing the Success or Failure of Life from Mu Yi's Perspective.

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Mentor Wang

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Helmsman Liu

This article uses a pyramid model, I don't know if it's right, please give me your advice! ! !

Educational theory: the success or failure of life from the change of wood

The same piece of wood, half made into a Buddha and half made into a floor, the floor asked the Buddha unconvinced: We are a piece of wood, why do people trample on me and worship you? Buddha said: because you only got a knife, but I experienced a lot of chopping ... at this time, the venue was silent. The meeting was silent, but I was lost in thought. Can it be said that being carved into a Buddha is the so-called success, and being trampled on the floor by thousands of people is the so-called failure? No, don't judge life by success or failure!

Through the dialogue between Lou and Buddha to taste life, I have realized three truths: First, people are always choosing or being chosen all their lives, and your ability gives you the corresponding choice. Secondly, everyone has his own position and role. Don't underestimate the strength of everyone in the team. Finally, we should have a correct attitude. The reality in your eyes is not real, so don't be jealous or complain, because behind the aura you can't see is the hardships and persistence of others or the opaque darkness. ......

Whether wood will eventually become a floor or be carved into a Buddha statue, I think the choice is not wood, but craftsmen. Parents began to help their children do multiple-choice questions from the moment they were born. From milk powder to training courses to choosing schools and jobs, when children are unable to do multiple-choice questions, decision makers are often parents. Every time I see the children crying involuntarily in the training class and the impatient reprimands of adults, I will reflect on whether I have complied with the natural development law of children. Parents give their children multiple-choice questions, and children naturally get used to being chosen. Therefore, in the critical period of choosing schools and majors, children are often confused, have no clear goals and don't know their future development direction. It seems that the virtual game world is where they can play freely and do whatever they want. In fact, in the child's enlightenment stage, parents should respect the child's wishes and guide the child to learn to do multiple-choice questions by himself. Let children gradually define their life goals, gather energy, cultivate their abilities, and have more initiative in the future, not being chosen, but making choices according to their own inner wishes.

Going upstairs with Buddha is actually a team, and everyone is indispensable. Imagine, if there is only a Buddha without a road, or only a road without a Buddha, will there be a scene where thousands of people worship? So, don't underestimate everyone's ability and role. The achievement of a team is not achieved by one person, but by the concerted efforts of the whole team, Qi Xin and Qi Xin. An excellent TV series or movie depends not only on the star's face value or popularity, but also on the location, lighting, field affairs, camera shooting, editing, director, screenwriter and so on. Imagine that without these, a high-quality film and television work cannot be realized. However, the choice of scripts, the positioning of stars, and the public relations handling of emergencies by brokerage companies all affect the self-development and future direction of these stars. Therefore, when parents educate their children, they should also pay attention to the cultivation of their emotional intelligence. Willing to communicate, good at sharing, * * * cooperate, and * * * complete some challenges with friends. Cultivating team consciousness from an early age will play a key role in children's growth.

The floor only saw that the Buddha was worshipped by everyone, and I didn't know the hardships of carving it into a Buddha. In fact, what we see with the naked eye is only the appearance of things. If you want to explore the story behind the phenomenon, maybe you will have another feeling. Look at the success of others correctly, and don't blindly envy, envy or complain. If you want to be a person at the top of the pyramid, you must be prepared to endure hardships, face all difficulties and be brave in challenges. Even if you accidentally slip in the process of climbing, you should go ahead regardless of difficulties and obstacles. If you don't have such a strong heart to meet the challenge, it is ok to be a person who silently contributes in an ordinary post. As long as you have a good idea, smiling at life is another kind of happiness! Therefore, when parents guide their children, they should follow their own hearts and slowly cultivate their resilience. It is the responsibility of parents to stay away from anxiety and depression and let their children have a healthy attitude, no matter whether they choose to climb the peak or go forward bravely in the future.

Life is a kind of practice, don't judge heroes by success or failure!