What exactly is an only child?

I think it's all the love and care from my parents. After all, I am a child, and I won't be jealous because of other aspects. So this is 100% love, it is all love.

I am 39 years old. My parents were about 50 when I got married. My mother-in-law took care of me when I gave birth. After the maternity leave, the two mothers took turns to help with the children. It gives me the feeling that it is easy to raise children. Because I don't have to worry about anything. At that time, Chen Dong chose to start his own business and just found the first bucket of gold. He started a wedding photography studio in partnership with his friends, and the business is very good.

I am a financial officer of a pharmaceutical company. Although the work is hard, the income is ok. People just can't be too idle. At that time, my son had grandparents to help him with his homework, and we were not worried about anything. The two of us are typical urban only children, enjoying 100% love from our parents.

I didn't understand when I was a child. Perhaps I longed for everything my parents gave me and gave it to myself. When we grow up, we gradually find that we have all the love of our parents and lack another kind of love. I slowly discovered that parents' love is actually acceptable to share. Brothers and sisters are, to some extent, gifts from your parents for the rest of your life. When they grow up, they have company, and when they get old, they also have support.

We thought the only child would last a long time. But when we grew up, the times changed. We began to let go of the second child and slowly accepted the fact that we were actually a very special generation. The only child, literally, is a unique child born by parents, but from another literal point of view, it grew up alone. It's like growing up with all the love and expectations that have been treasured at home for a long time, only to find that childhood and growth can have different experiences.