Why is life getting better and better, but we find it more and more difficult?

I have just come out of a gloomy mood recently and am in a good mood. Climbing mountains with parents, chatting with friends, seeing many new people and things, and having a lot of feelings about people's mentality now. Most people around me have had unhappy lives, but their moods are quite different.

Friend A: I forgot the alternation of years. I am born after 60. My junior high school friends and children are married and have children. They are in good health, and their pension 1 1,000 yuan. If you have nothing to do, invite me to dinner (our most expensive meal is California beef noodles in 70 yuan), care about my personal problems, and then show me his recent photo. I live in a city without a house and live in a child's house. Go if necessary, and have a good time every day. I asked the old man why you are so happy every day. The old man replied that I am so happy every day, not because we have suffered, but because we have few desires. A simple beef noodle and a nice photo are enough for me to be happy for several days. Every era has its own difficulties. The so-called difficulties are only obstacles set by ourselves!

Friend B: After B:85, classmates like sleeping, watching children and cooking. He dropped out of school early, and with the skills of his family, he had saved enough savings of 20 million before I graduated from college. Seeing him after work, he began to step into the stage of providing for the aged, doing nothing, picking up his wife and children every day, living on the rent money of that small industry, and wearing the same clothes as collecting junk every day. Because he developed earlier, many of the clothes he wore at school are still there, so call me if you are free, come and eat, and stew meat today. I told him, brother, how are you today? He said that picking up the children and your sister-in-law are too busy every day to do anything else.

Friend C: After 80s, when I was in college, I started a company to cooperate. Worth tens of millions at a young age. I am single and single, and I am in the company 24 hours a day. My daily dream is to take the company public. When I saw him last year, my original hair was changed to "Mediterranean" and I had to take antihypertensive drugs after meals. Call me to know which project my buddy invested in this year and how much he expects to earn. I replied, sign up for a gym. Health is the most important thing. Go home and have a look if you have nothing to do.

Friend Ding: After 1985, I grew up, had no stable job, got married three times, and drifted to the North for many years. After dropping out of high school, I opened a bigger hotel. During that time, I broke up with my partner, feeling depressed and unwilling to run the business. It didn't take long for it to go bankrupt. Later, it was rented out to do pyramid schemes. Later, I saved some money at the Guijie snack in Beijing and wanted to go home and start a business. Contact me that day and ask him how he wants to open a large hotel. It was almost eleven o'clock on the night of the call. Because I haven't seen him for years, I stopped working and drove to find him after receiving the phone call. As a result, I heard that his thoughts have not changed. All I can think about is making big money. No risk, no return. I finally only said one sentence, starting from a young age and taking life seriously.

Friend e: after E:85, a good friend. Manage a small restaurant run by my sister. I have done a lot of industry and game training. I am a chef (small chef) in Baoding guild hall, a security guard, a cave singer, air conditioning installation, and my home conditions are very poor. After years of hard work, I have bought a 60-square-meter house with a loan in the city. Although there are some worries, the overall mentality is particularly optimistic. And wake up the next morning and video with my family at noon on time.

? After talking about so many people and things, I found that it is not that the better our life is, the happier our life will be, but where your own center of gravity is. As the saying goes, the poor live a rich life.

The reason why people find it more and more difficult is that people now have more extensive ways to accept information. People who have no money, seeing friends who show off their wealth in their circle of friends, are moved, increase their troubles and just want to make money. There are thousands of people in Guangsha, and they still live in small houses of 80 to 90 square meters. Rich people, after seeing the news about how to preserve the value of assets in financial news, are bent on making assets into a golden rice bowl and are afraid of failure.

Whether life is getting harder and harder, the key is not whether life is getting better and better, but whether you want to be simple. A house of 80-90 square meters, others may not be able to buy it, but after failure, they just start all over again. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself and treading on thin ice, it is better to hide your strength, accumulate wealth and do something you like.

Finally, I wish everyone can find their own happiness!