How to treat the private money hidden by the other half?

I think in marriage, I can accept that the other party has private money, because everyone should have his own money and spend it. His own money should be kept secret and not interfered by others, because private money only accounts for a small part or less than half of the main money. If these private money is earned through his labor or in some way, they should have the right to deal with it. So I can accept that the other party has some private money.

In one case, there is too much private money, in which case derailment may occur. This situation is often difficult to control, so I think this kind of private money should be carefully guarded against. If the private money is not enough or just some pocket money, it doesn't matter, so I think everyone or a large number of people should not care that the other party has such private money.

Sometimes leaving some private money will solve some problems, such as some family changes or some capital chain breaks. With these private money, a large part of financial problems can be solved. Many times, private money is enough to solve the problem of economic fracture. Because these private money belongs to real money, it can be used to buy necessary materials for life in difficult times, and it can be used to buy rice and white flour to solve the urgent needs of the family.

Some people are naturally fond of saving money. They can save some private money. They never spend, or seldom spend. They have inner pleasure because they save private money. In this case, it can make the atmosphere of a family better, so I think these private money can produce great significance. If some people save private money not for selfish reasons, but for a happier and more harmonious family, then this behavior can still be encouraged.

The above are some personal opinions and ideas for your reference only.