A photographer.

A photographer can refer to a person or a profession. Some people may say, "Photographers are too playboy, fickle, surrounded by beautiful women, and can't keep their original heart." Maybe I met an exception, because my husband is a photographer!

Speaking of my husband, I have an inexplicable admiration and pride! Because he is a photographer, he can freeze the beautiful moments and the beauty of life with his camera! Whenever I watch him work with a camera in his hand, his posture and movements are simply awesome and cool. He is three years older than me. Although he is not so handsome, he is always the most handsome in my eyes, and he thinks so himself.

My acquaintance with my husband is a wonderful fate!

It was in 2004, I just graduated from college, and I had no idea about the road after graduation. Although I majored in marketing, I have no interest in it at all. Of course, I didn't study hard, so I found a job after graduation. At that time, I entered an electronics factory in Foshan as a fresh graduate. It is a labor-intensive enterprise with assembly line operation, and it is actually a small site management.

After working for several months, the teacher called to get the diploma, and she took a few days off to go back to school. At that time, I bought a mobile phone that looked good at that time with the salary of hard work. It is also the first mobile phone in my life, and I can get it in front of my classmates. When I got my diploma, I wanted to go home and visit my parents, so I sent a message to one of my classmates asking him to give me a ride. As a result, I actually entered a wrong number in the phone number (later I learned). So I sent the message to another strange man, and then my cell phone rang. I think it must be my classmate. I was distressed by the phone bill and didn't answer it. I hung up quickly and sent a message saying, "My mobile phone is a Shenzhouxing card. It's expensive to answer the phone, please call my dormitory. " Then I told him the phone number of the dormitory. Soon the dormitory phone rang and the nearest roommate answered it. Because he didn't know my name at all, he said to find the one who just sent him a message, so my roommate gave me the phone. I ran over at once, and when I heard something wrong, I quickly apologized and hung up urgently. It seems that I made a mistake, and the classmate next to me has told me the correct phone number at this time. I sent another message, but unfortunately my classmate said something was wrong and he couldn't drive me home.

At this time, the mobile phone received another message, which was sent by the person I sent to him by mistake just now. Now I can't remember the content of the message, except that he introduced himself-told me his name, where he lived and what he did. He was working in a film and television company in Changsha at that time. He said he was a photographer, and occasionally he made a guest appearance. He is not a born actor. He has to be directed many times every time, and he is a little uncomfortable. Then he asked my name. At first glance, he is also a fellow villager in the same province and city. Although I have never met before, I seem to feel cordial, so I also told him my name and my occupation honestly. Then he said he wanted to meet me in the car, but he really couldn't spare the time. I said, it doesn't matter. Nice to meet you. In this way, because of a mobile phone, because of a short message, a message I sent by mistake, we gradually feel familiar!

When I got home, my sister was pregnant and just rested at home. I didn't tell my parents any information about him, but briefly described it to my sister in a few words. My sister didn't think so at first, thinking that I met some bad people, but she was secretly longing for it. You know, I really didn't fall in love in college. I didn't realize the romance and sweetness of that relationship. Because as soon as we entered the university, the teacher gave us a vaccination. "It is a burden to fall in love in college, but it is a pity not to fall in love." I made up my mind at that time. "Even if I leave regrets, I don't want to increase the burden." After all, it was really difficult for me to go to college. My parents worked so hard for me. How can I make them worry about me again? In this way, I kept my promise, and I still didn't know how to talk about a love until graduation. I feel that somehow, the appearance of this person may really fill my emotional gap over the years. Obviously, I'm serious, even though I haven't met him yet. But my intuition tells me that he can be my boyfriend.

One dead of night, a short message from him floated to my mobile phone, "I love you." Maybe this is exactly what I expected. I immediately replied, "I love you too. I fell in love with you before you said you loved me. " I don't know how I was so brave, I didn't have any reserve at all, and I just said those three words stupidly. At that time, we were very happy together, and he also said that he would tell his friends that I was his girlfriend. He also said that he would take a photo album for me. I can't tell you how happy I am. In this way, we established a love relationship before we met, and I finally fell in love, although I didn't know him yet.

Back to work, we just kept in touch, a cell phone, n text messages, an occasional phone call, busy with their respective jobs, but thinking about each other's little things. Many times, I am sending him a message, and he happens to be sending me a message, even when eating, sleeping or even going to the toilet. Maybe this is the so-called heart. Today, I can't remember the content of the message. After all, I have lost that mobile phone for many years, only knowing that I am happy every day. Time flies, and half a year has slipped away in our messages. It's almost the end of the year, and I'm not going home for the New Year. At that time, I wanted to change my job and quit my previous job. I haven't found a suitable one yet, and I am a little anxious. One day, when I applied for a job in the talent market, I happened to meet my colleagues who used to work together. He rented a house in Guangzhou, and we chatted, so I wanted to share a house with her. She readily agreed, so I came to Guangzhou from Foshan. And he also told me that he quit his previous job and went back to his hometown for the New Year.

After the New Year, my colleague and I continued to run around the talent market, hoping to find a job we like, but he said he would come to Guangzhou to find me. At that time, when he said this, I didn't want to, because I felt that I had not found a job and was a little down and out. I don't want him to see me at this time. But he insisted on coming, so he agreed to come. In desperation, I joined an insurance company and started selling insurance. At that time, it was an expensive job. Although I studied insurance in college, and my teacher sells insurance himself, I really don't know how to tell others about insurance, because people's awareness of insurance is not high. Many people are disgusted when they hear about insurance, and strange visits are frequently rejected, which really makes me feel bad. My colleagues have no confidence in my work, and they often throw cold water on me. Only he does not support or object, and often helps me find a way. My supervisor often cheers me up and makes me regain a little confidence in persistence.

My meeting with my husband is a tortuous and true story!

In February 2005, he really came to Guangzhou to find me, and that day was also my Saturday. One day, I told my colleague to show her the information he sent me, but my colleague said I was too stupid and naive, and you believed such a thing. I also said, "I have a friend who is in the same situation, but she married another woman." I really lied to you. How can you believe that? " No matter what he said, I was still immersed in his message of care and love. I want to stay with my colleague until he comes, so I rented a single room for him.

Finally, it's time to meet. That Saturday, I didn't go to work because I invited him to come over this day. I plan to take him to see my sister next Sunday holiday. My sister's brother-in-law was in Foshan at that time. He told me that he would arrive in Guangzhou around 3 pm and said that he would take a bus. I don't know what route he took, and I don't know which station to meet him at. After passing 1, I went to Guangzhou Railway Station and asked if it might be Liuhua Station, just at the exit. It's almost 3 o'clock, and waves of people are coming out of the station. "He should be here soon." I thought to myself, I have been calling him and sending him messages, but I haven't seen any reply, and my mobile phone has been turned off. I waited patiently, waited and waited, but no one walked through the autumn water. The original hypothesis-"Will he come to me with a rose in his hand" has been shattered. My stomach began to growl, so I had to go to the restaurant next to me to fill my stomach and call his home while eating. I want to ask his parents when his car left, but his mother couldn't understand the other end of the phone because she didn't know what car he took and when he left. So I started complaining. "I waited for him all afternoon, but no one came. If I don't come, I won't wait for him. " Then he hung up the phone. Obviously, I'm a little angry. The result was teased by a boy in the hotel. "Don't wait for him, wait for me." I took one look at the man and left in a hurry for fear that he would be up to no good.

It's almost five o'clock. At this moment, the mobile phone rang. He said that he had arrived at Jiaokou passenger station. He also said that his mobile phone was dead and he was using a public phone. God, it's still so far, so I said, "I'll wait for you at Guangzhou Railway Station. Come by bus. " And then I just waited there. Waiting for someone is really a torture. Time goes by, and it's almost six o'clock. It's almost dark. At this moment, the phone rang again. He said he had been to the railway station, but he didn't see me. This is normal. After all, we haven't met. Although we met in online video chat, we don't remember what it was like, let alone so many people at the station. I was smart enough to go to the security booth, because everyone was in a hurry to go home and no one went, so I said, "I'm here at the security booth. Come here." A few minutes later, I saw a man coming towards me. Before I could speak, he put his hand on my shoulder and seemed very close. I subconsciously shook off his hand, and I was obviously a little angry. "Wait! He didn't know what to say when he saw it, and then I said, "I rented you a house." Let me take you there. "Although we got on the bus at the same time, we didn't choose side-by-side seats. He sat in the front and I sat in the back. At this time, I secretly looked at this man from behind-he is not tall, his height should be less than 1.7 meters, which is consistent with the height he once told me about 1.7 meters, and he is not handsome, carrying a big bag of things. It looks like a "Tuba Road" and looks very tired. I seem to have been in the car for a long time. We said a few words casually, but we don't remember what we said. Anyway, I don't seem to be satisfied with such a boyfriend in my heart, because the prince charming in my heart has always been the kind of white and handsome boy in a suit and tie, which is not worthy of his casual and travel-stained appearance. Maybe he doesn't appreciate my girlfriend very much. After all, I just dumped my arm. " Well, it's embarrassing to think that all kinds of ambiguous information have been flying all over the sky for half a year since we met, but now we don't know what to say. Since everyone admits the relationship, try to accept each other, as long as he is good to me. "I can only look on the bright side. I remember once he told me that he was neither tall nor handsome, and I also told him, "All I want is someone who loves me, and I don't care about his looks or the wealth in his family. "It seems that I was right.

Back to the house I rented for him, it was a rental house in Chebei Village. The whole building is rented, but the landlord doesn't live there. This is a single room, on the fourth floor, with a big window, which allows sunlight to come in during the day. There is a kitchen and a bathroom in it. The bed was probably left by the last tenant, and it was 1.5 meters. It's a little dirty, but it still works. The rent is only for one month in 230 yuan. Seeing that it was getting late, I wanted to send him here to go back to my colleagues, but the thought that he went to bed without covering himself at night was still in February, and it was still very cold. If he doesn't cover himself at night, he will surely catch cold. So I said, "There are two large supermarkets nearby, Lotus and Trust-Mart. I often go there. I can take you to buy a quilt. " He readily agreed. As we walked along, he suddenly took my hand, not on my shoulder, nor on my waist, but with his fingers clasped tightly. It is clear that the night wind is blowing and the weather is very cold, but my palms are sweating, and I don't know whether I am afraid or nervous. My hand is already slippery, but he still won't let go, and I'm embarrassed to let go. We came to Yichu Lotus Supermarket near Yichu. Then we took my hand and didn't say a few words along the way. At Trust-Mart, the quilts are all the same, and the price is not much different. "Why go further?" I thought to myself, "I don't think he will buy it." Sure enough, I don't know whether he has no money or other reasons. In the end, he really didn't buy a quilt, but bought a special pressure cooker and went back. When I left, I said, "Isn't it cold at night?" He said, "I have a small quilt in my bag." Oh, no wonder there is a quilt in the bulging bag. I returned to my colleagues with a clear conscience.

The next morning, I was having breakfast. He called me and asked me to come over. I said, "I'll come after breakfast." I went to see him half an hour later, and it turned out that the quilt he said was just a small blanket. I asked him, "weren't you cold last night?" "Not cold" Although he answered confidently, I could still see that he was lying and probably didn't sleep much all night, so I rushed to the stall downstairs and bought him a quilt casually. It's really weird. I opened it and wanted to go back and change it. He said forget it. I had to bite the bullet and wash myself. He hurriedly bought a pack of washing powder, so I took it out and washed it three or two times. He washed the apple and ate it. After eating, I said, "Let's go find my sister's brother-in-law." He groaned and said nothing. Look, it's almost 1 1 o'clock. "It's so late, don't go!" I quit, too So I closed my eyes and had a rest. Just then, suddenly, I felt something climb up my lips and suddenly opened my eyes. He kissed me secretly without telling me. You know, I've never let a boy kiss me. Although I didn't push him away at this time, after all, he is my boyfriend and kissing is a matter of course, but I still turned my head to one side and said to him, "I have never kissed anyone and I don't know how to kiss." He is even more excited. But it was only limited to kissing, so I went back to my colleague's house to sleep that night.

On the third Monday, the insurance company goes to work for free. Basically, I went to the company after the morning meeting, and then I was free to expand my business. Me too. After the meeting, I went to his house just in time for lunch. I saw that he had prepared delicious food for me when I came back. I went into the kitchen, and he actually bought kitchen utensils, pots and pans, and even gas tanks. "Is this the rhythm of living with me?" I thought to myself, eating in my mouth, "the cooking is not bad, and the food I cooked is delicious." I silently praised him in my heart. After dinner, we chatted for a while and had a rest. It will be evening soon. After dinner, I want to sleep at my colleague's place. He said I can sleep there if I want. I said I didn't have a shower or pajamas, so I had to go back and get them. He said, "Then go here and take a bath." And then kissed me. I went back and told my colleague, and my colleague said, "Be careful that he cheats you." "I'll be careful." Although I promised, I was still a little scared. In case … I dare not recall, but I am determined that I can protect myself. That night, we slept in the same bed. At first, I slept in a coat. He laughed at me and said, "I've never seen you like this. You have to sleep in a coat." I am embarrassed to take off my coat, leaving only my pajamas. He obviously wants to see my figure. Unfortunately, my figure is really poor, and I have never been very confident in this respect. He doesn't seem to care much. He hugged me and kissed me, but that's all. I won't allow him to do too much to me. I said, "You can hug me and kiss me, but you can never have me." He understood what I said, but he didn't agree. Maybe in his opinion, it is normal for boyfriend and girlfriend to eat forbidden fruit together, but I'm not ready yet. I will never allow it.

In the following days, he found a job as a photographer in an advertising company. Although the salary is not high, it is a piece of cake for him, because he is a photographer himself and he has his own professional SLR camera. Occasionally he showed me the photos he had taken before, which actually aroused some joy and admiration for him in my eyes.

In this way, although we slept for several months, neither of us crossed the half-step line. Until one day, I felt that I could accept him completely, that I might spend my whole life with this man, and that I could be responsible for my own life, I agreed to give myself to him. One day, my sister and brother-in-law came to see me and saw us together. Of course, my sister knew we were related, but she didn't say anything. After all, that's how they got here. It's too normal for boyfriend and girlfriend to live together unmarried now. Suddenly one day, my sister called and said that my father was hit by a cyclist. The situation was a bit serious. He is in the hospital and asked me to go back to see my father with her as soon as possible. Originally, I wanted to take him home and let him meet my father by the way, but my father said, "Being physically injured is not good for me. Why should I bring my boyfriend back?" Besides, he doesn't seem to want to go to my house. He took me to the railway station that day, and then I went home with my sister and brother-in-law.

I broke up with my husband because I believed his false lies, which really made people love and hate!

After going home to take care of my father for more than a week, I returned to Guangzhou. I don't think I can continue to insure. I am very depressed when I think that I haven't paid any bills for months. I want to find a stable job, but I don't know what I can do. On the one hand, I want to continue living with him, on the other hand, I want to rely on myself instead of him. But I haven't found the right one after looking for it for a long time. But also because I was eager to find a job, I was cheated by others and lost my mobile phone. Maybe he thought I was too simple or stupid in his eyes, so he made up a story about him having children with other women to ask me to break up with him. This is a big blow to me, and I don't know why I believed it so much. Anyway, I just feel that if he has a child with another woman, he must be responsible for that woman.

I cried like a child that day. No matter how delicious his cooking is, it doesn't taste good in my mouth I just want to find a job and leave him as soon as possible. One day, I went to the talent market again, but I didn't expect to meet the former general manager of the electronics factory who was personally recruiting. She was very impressed with me. When I left my job, she tried to keep me. I was a little surprised to see her. Although I know that "a good horse never looks back" and I am a face-saving person, I really forgot so much at this point. I went to the recruitment booth with trepidation, but I didn't expect the general manager to really recognize her. Then she asked me what I had done in the past six months. I didn't answer her truthfully, only that I wanted to go back to work. I thought she would think about it, but she agreed on the spot. For a moment, I found myself like a lifeline.

The next day, I said nothing to him. I quickly packed my things and went to Foshan. I don't have a mobile phone, and I have no money to buy it for the time being, so I bought a watch to tell the time. Before you leave, tell him, "Remember to tell me when you leave. I have a deposit slip for renting a house. I rented a house. I'll pay it back then. " And then left in a hurry.

I thought this first love failed like this. My heart is dying. I went back to the factory to continue my previous work, thinking that he might leave in a few days. A few days later, I called him to ask him about checking out. He said, "I'm not leaving, I'm not returning, I'm still waiting for you." I thought to myself, "don't you have children with others?" Why don't you go back to your women and children? " He said, "Then wait, I won't go back." But my heart is so soft, because I think I have really fallen in love with him.

A few days later, I returned to the rental house. It turned out that he really didn't leave and continued to live there. I vaguely felt that his reason for breaking up was lying to me, and I didn't think so much. When he was at work that day, I wrote a letter advising him to go back to that woman if the situation was true. I said in my letter: "When your career is successful, you will find your first love!" Of course, I also showed my love for him. Finally, I added: "I hope you will live better than me in the future." About a month later, I called him again and asked him. He still said, "if you don't come back, I'll come to you again!" " ""Is the reason he said for breaking up fabricated? "I began to doubt again, but I was still not sure, and I didn't ask him for proof." Since he won't leave, he should still love me. "I thought to myself and kept in touch with him intermittently. It's sad to go back to Guangzhou after a break. Although sometimes I think of him breaking up with me in the car, tears can't stop flowing downwards, but my footsteps are still close to him. I suddenly hate my incompetence, and I am really afraid that he will leave me, because as I said before, I gave him my whole person and heart. As for happiness, that's another story.

In this way, I worked in the original factory for more than half a year. Because I couldn't stand staying up late and changing shifts, and I really felt tired running between Guangzhou and Foshan, I left again without promotion.

At the beginning of 2006, I returned to Guangzhou again and returned to his side. At this time, he has rented a house with two bedrooms and one living room in a garden community, because he said his sister would come here. I will naturally continue to live with him. I never gave up looking for an eight-hour and five-day job, so I posted my resume online. I didn't expect to receive an interview a few days later. I passed the interview smoothly and finally got the job I wanted. I am really happy. The company is not far from where I live. It's only ten minutes' walk. I don't even need a car. The company arranged accommodation, but I'm still used to living with him. Although we sometimes have conflicts and quarrels, I still can't convince myself to leave. His sister came and slept in the other room. We all like watching TV. As long as you have a rest, in addition to going to the supermarket to buy food, you can watch other people's lives by TV.

Although my husband and I naturally got married, our hearts are also unheard of naked!

More than half of 2006 has passed, and we have been together for almost two years. Both parents were forced to get married. After all, we have reached marriageable age. My parents have been urging me to get married as soon as possible for fear that I will suffer. They always say, "What will you do if one day he doesn't want you?" ! "You make it sound as if I have to marry him, but I can't get married except him. Finally, the arm can't twist the thigh. In the last two months of 2006, we got married naked without a house, a car and a wedding. He also became my husband, and I successfully became his wife. Two little red books really tied us together. Because we were both at work at that time, and we both asked for leave to go home and register for marriage. There was no hurry, no flowers, no applause, no dowry, and no dowry. We simply met our parents and registered important events in our lives. You may think that we are irresponsible for marriage, but he said that those superficial forms may not lock each other's hearts together for life, and many people go their separate ways after the wedding. But in my eyes, I will still feel sorry for the missed wedding, just as another regret. It has happened once before, so what does it matter if it is added?

This is my husband, the man who came into my life; This is the fate of my husband and I, destiny takes a hand! Although I don't believe in fate, I believe in it. I got pregnant soon after I got married and gave birth to a lovely daughter. Five years later, I gave birth to a handsome son. In the process of raising children, I suddenly saw the letter I wrote to him before, which opened my dusty memory and asked him, "Why did you make up such a lie to cheat me to break up?" Do you know how sad I am? " However, he casually understated, "I came all the way to see you. Who knows if you are sincere to me? I just want to test you." Although his explanation is a bit far-fetched, I have to believe it, because he really came to me alone and treated me sincerely in these years.

Today, our marriage has gone through eleven years. Although we had quarrels, frictions and even separation in the process of raising children, we still failed to really separate. In his eyes, I became his relative, and in my heart, he has always been my refuge. He is a photographer, so I also studied photography. In order to make myself more beautiful and better cooperate with his work, I also learned to make up. I take care of my family and study hard to improve myself. He works hard and tries to support his family. Finally, we have our own company and I have more time at my disposal. At the end of last month, I arrived and instantly activated the words I love in my heart. I love reading and learning so much, how can I not calm down and write about myself? Life is an endless living book, and each of us can write beautiful words in our own life. What a wonderful thing! Thank god for giving such a good photographer husband. The experiences he gave me along the way are enough for me to remember. We will continue to move forward hand in hand in the future. He said that a golden wedding would surprise me. How can you expect without relying on each other? As a gentleman said, it is difficult to catch up with him. He belongs to the horse. I really hope that one day, we will not suffer from money, not be tired of life, and let go of everything indifferently. Everyone will travel around the world with a camera on his back, freeze the wonders of the world with a shutter, and present the poems of magnificent mountains and rivers with words, so coming to this world will not be a waste.

Uh-huh, we are looking forward to that day! "Life and death are generous, Zi Cheng said. Holding your hand and growing old with your son ",it is a great honor to be with such a kind and lovely photographer husband in this life. Enough!