Excuse me, the best man and maid of honor invited at the wedding must be the one looking for the best man. Do women find bridesmaids?

Generally speaking, when planning a wedding, this is the first question that couples will consider. Wedding hotels, wedding photography and so on are all hardware, but the choice of male and female guests and friends is out-and-out "software" and very interesting. Usually, the best friends or close colleagues of the bride and groom are listed first on the list. If you want to use your fingers to calculate the conditions, they are similar in age, warm-hearted, willing to do anything for their friends, and can stand the test of "alcohol" and the hard and soft of the guests. In real life, choosing a friend or relative is not as easy as choosing the best man and maid of honor. If you are worried about this, the following suggestions will help you make a decision.

[Wedding scale]

At present, there is no rule that only one groomsman and maid of honor can be invited to a wedding. If you are large-scale, you can invite them all to your side. In addition, don't "force" your best man and bridesmaid to dress low-key. In fact, their brilliance will add luster to your face!

[Your purpose]

Best man, what do bridesmaids do for you?

Do you just give you moral support, or do you expect them to be your right-hand man? Did he or she eat well in the scene? Is it exquisite? Are there any interesting talents that can stir up the atmosphere of the wedding? In case of emergency on site, can you solve it calmly? You should carefully consider whether he (she) is the most suitable candidate, and don't push a friend who may not like the excitement to this position just because of personal relationship.

[difficult commitment]

When the invitation was printed, did you suddenly think, "Oh, how could you forget him (her)?" Last time I promised to ask him (her) to be the best man (maid of honor)! Or, did your partner make a similar promise on a whim? Don't be too afraid of this situation, but don't avoid the question. Explain it to your friend and he (she) will forgive you.

[Special quota]

Do you have any close brothers and sisters? Maybe this wedding is a good internship opportunity for him (her). If you still have die-hards in the dance academy who regard marriage as dirt, entrusting him or her with the task of best man or maid of honor may change their minds.

[Internal blind date]

Marriage is of course your wedding day, but there are still many articles to be done besides this fact. Do you or your lover have any friends who are worried about love? This wedding is a great opportunity. Ask this friend and his (her) lover to be your bridesmaids and groomsmen. At this time, it is difficult to open your heart without love. Coupled with the jubilant wedding banquet, I believe that the effect of this blind date is incomparable to that of ordinary cafes!

[openness]

When the final list is determined, you should have a good communication with the selected people. Do you need a dress? What series of colors are today? Does he (she) have a ready-made one or do you want to buy it specially? All the guests and witnesses, the master of ceremonies list, the whole wedding process and the solution of unexpected things must be given to him or her first. Remember, you can invite several bridesmaids and groomsmen because of excitement or human relations, but you must know who is the closest, and you must let him (her) know this first, because only he (she) can really play a role in your wedding.