Review "How can you talk about freedom if you can't even be self-disciplined?"

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It is said that when Jobs was young, he got up at four o'clock every morning and finished his day's work before nine o'clock. Master Joe said: Where does freedom come from? 2 comes from self-confidence, and self-confidence comes from self-discipline.

? Comments: ① What time does Jobs go to bed? You can't just talk about the tail and don't talk about the head, so as not to mislead readers who don't know the truth. Second, the untimely death of Jobs is a pity for mankind. Is this caused by his long-term fatigue? In fact, I prefer him to sleep until 8 o'clock every day, and I hope he will live longer 10 years. Self-discipline must be accompanied by self-confidence? Not rigorous. For example, I have been running more than 10 km a week for a year, but I have not gained any more confidence than in previous years. Whether a person is confident or not depends more on what his real inner needs are and what the external environment requires of him. Make an extreme deduction, such as a high school student, who is good at sports, but not good at study. Is he 100 percent confident at school?

Self-discipline is the control of self, and self-confidence is the control of things. Learn to discipline yourself first, control your life with strict schedules, and let yourself constantly hone your self-confidence in this self-discipline.

? Comments: ① "Self-confidence is the control of things?" I don't understand what this sentence means. Please leave a message to dispel doubts. (2) A large number of studies show that the strict control of life and rest mentioned in traditional and classical self-discipline education is not effective. Time management needs flexibility to play its greatest role, because people, after all, are not machines, including complex human environment, which cannot be accurately controlled by a theoretical model. This is also the fundamental reason why pomodoro technique, which is very popular, is actually difficult to popularize in daily work.

They are all adults. They can't even control the most basic behavior. How can they talk about confidence and freedom?

? Comments: ① What behavior does the basic behavior refer to? For example, peeing in the pool, I did it, but I still don't feel too confident and free. Hmm. How interesting

Li Ka-shing, the former richest man in China, is famous for his diligence and self-discipline. His schedule is famous: no matter what time he goes to bed, he gets up after the alarm clock rings at 5: 59 in the morning; Then, watch the news and play golf for an hour and a half; Then, go to the office and start work. Decades are like a day. ② Self-discipline is close to self-abuse.

? People who are awesome in the impression are vicious characters: self-abuse and abuse must each account for one or two.

Comment: ① It is not clarified that Li Ka-shing did this because he became a great man? I don't believe it. ② Self-discipline is close to self-abuse, but it is not true. This is the author's own subjective cognition. Why don't you consider Li Ka-shing doing it himself and feel comfortable instead? If the following author deduces on his own narrow cognitive basis, the conclusion will definitely mislead children. 3 Is there an example? The cattle people around me, celebrities in social history, don't have to abuse themselves or others. This statement is too extreme. Self-discipline is not equal to self-abuse.

Many business people manage themselves like professional athletes: work and rest, diet, habits, hobbies, physical strength, desires, etc ... In this way, you will soon touch the door of "awesome people". A person who can keep his mouth shut, spread his legs and keep running every night will not be bad at work. Comment: ① Wrong! There are really people around me who are not like this. As for him, he cares about other things, such as fitness and photography, but his work is sloppy. Whether you can keep your mouth shut, whether you can keep running, and whether you can work hard are all irrelevant. Why should we say that the front and back have a positive influence on each other? In terms of probability at most, people who can keep their mouths shut and keep running seem to have good self-control and a high probability of working. Whether the work is good or not depends entirely on the person's mentality. It is caused by a series of comprehensive factors, such as the recognition of their own professional needs, the recognition of their current work, and their views on the company and the boss.

After work, I gradually found that self-discipline is the cornerstone of life: if you ban it, it will be easy to get on the track, find mistakes, correct them, behave better and better, and live a bright and neutral life; If the order can't be banned, it will easily be scattered, and it will be repeated mistakes, repeated mistakes, "knowing what you are doing and not doing it", depression and guilt, and chaos. Self-discipline determines the operation of personal machine, your execution and whether you can become a better self.

Comments: ① Logical error. It is not that self-discipline affects execution and determines whether it becomes better. The core is your mentality, and your value cognition determines whether you are self-disciplined, whether you have the ability to execute, and whether you will become better. At least self-discipline is a personal management term that is parallel and equivalent to execution, but it will have a positive impact on each other, rather than the logical relationship between who decides who. Comments: The whole first paragraph, without hierarchy, has the same meaning and keeps piling up sentences. This is a common problem in many articles at present.

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Steve nash is my favorite NBA player. This is a thin white Canadian with serious back nerve injury and is considered as "the basketball superstar with the worst talent".

? Such a person won the "Lianzhuang" MVP: the most valuable player for two consecutive seasons. Only ten people in history have done this, and the other nine are great gods like Jordan and Chamberlain.

Nash's famous self-discipline: sugar-free, deep-fried and deep-processed food. On the day of training, he ate six meals a day: porridge (excluding gluten), almond slices, raw nuts, fruits, vegetables, brown rice, carrots and raw celery.

He and teammate grant hill urged each other not to eat chocolate or high-calorie food. Hill was also "occasionally caught breaking the rules", but Nash was never regarded as an exception.

Nash recommended his recipes to his teammates. As a result, the young people of the Suns became Nash's followers, followed suit in succession, and then the performance was thoroughly remoulded. The whole team is trying to follow Nash: eat and drink, work and rest, train and keep a healthy atmosphere. ...

? Nash's success has given ordinary people some thoughts: if you have no talent, you will never become Kobe or McGrady; But if you are diligent and self-disciplined, at least you still have a chance to be Nash.

1 talent, godsend; Self-discipline, the decision is yours.

? Comments: ① This sentence is good.

Tim duncan is the evergreen tree of NBA and the treasure of Spurs' town team. At the age of 40, he has just played a high-intensity playoffs. He may be competing with a young man who is 20 years younger, so you can see how amazing this is.

? Duncan has become lighter and lighter by losing weight, and his physical condition is also very good, and he continues to maintain the true color of a stone Buddha. Only regular training and strict self-discipline can do this. Although he is old, coaches and management can see his self-discipline and professionalism every day, so they will always have confidence in him.

? Ray Allen is one of the best shooters in NBA history, and his whole-body shooting is unique in the league: it tests muscle, speed and touch. Ray doesn't drink coffee himself and has obsessive-compulsive disorder to control his diet. So we got to this point. Normal children can't eat this kind of suffering.

? Djokovic is the 20 15 Wimbledon champion. After winning the championship, he sat in the locker room and wanted to do one thing: have a taste of chocolate. He hasn't tasted it since the summer of 20 10. "I broke off a piece, a small piece, put it in my mouth and let it melt on my tongue. I only allow myself to eat so much. "

? To be the first, you have to pay such a price.

Comment: The whole second paragraph lists the stories of some sports stars. Every example is a flash, intercepting the excellent living habits of stars, and then talking about how self-discipline can help them succeed in a big way. This view is too hasty. It can be said rudely that just a little good living habits can't support their shining success at all. A person's life is complicated. He, his family and his external environment have formed an intricate support network. Without any link, he can't succeed.

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Desire management is an important life skill, and it is necessary to cultivate forging literacy as soon as possible. From a perceptual point of view, excessive desire will devour you.

? Comment: ① Why is it a perceptual view? From the following point of view, the analysis is very organized and quite rational. Ha ha.

Eat drink man woman, the greatest wish of mankind. Don't be afraid of desire and your own heart. Excessive desire will devour you. From the perspective of life, we should know how to be temperate and not indulge our desires. Don't believe it? Ask Emperor Yang Di Yang Guang.

Indulgence is like a mountain, self-discipline is like reeling. Don't indulge yourself and don't make excuses for yourself. Be strict with yourself. After a long time, self-discipline will become a habit and a way of life, and you will thank yourself later. Many people don't know the importance of self-cultivation and indulge their desires under the pretext of life pressure. When you are young, you should work hard to make progress. You should cut off weeds and concentrate on your own growth like cleaning the yard. "For the sake of the stomach, not for the purpose" is what keeps the inner happiness forever.

Comments: ① What is the logical relationship between self-discipline and habits, lifestyle, self-cultivation and self-growth? What do you want to talk about? (2) my god, in this day and age, it is said that the stomach is not for the purpose. Now, we must pursue internal needs and external beauty, and what we pursue is that everything around me is beautiful, and every day is beautiful. Yeah! ?

I don't want to be a slave to desire. I enjoy being unaffected by desire, not exciting, but very comfortable. ① From a rational point of view, desire management can lower the threshold.

? Comments: ① Look at the following, it is not a rational analysis, but a very subjective perceptual statement. 2 What is the threshold? Desire threshold? Meet the threshold?

When students are poor, a snack in Shaxian is also enjoyable, and a KFC meal is like Chinese New Year. Making money from small to large, mountain fierce seafood abalone prawns, may not arouse your interest. In the 1990s, the description of love in martial arts novels could make you blush. Nowadays, online pornography is rampant, and you have no idea about women in your life. Why is it so far? Because of the threshold Constant stimulation raises the trigger point of desire.

? Comment: Why don't you think we are growing and maturing? Do I need a 40-year-old man to read a description of love and blushing? Excited at the sight of women?

It is often said that "young people suffer not suffering, but happiness". This is not pure chicken soup, it has logical basis: ① Suffering in youth is a kind of happiness that flies against the wind, and suffering in old age is the sorrow of candle torch in the wind. Bitter before sweet, you can remember bitter and sweet; First sweet and then bitter, I can only cry and be depressed.

? Comment: ① What a sad sentence! He calls himself rational analysis. Why do you have to endure hardships when you are young, but not when you are old? The meaning of life in the two stages of youth and old age is equivalent. At the best of times, every day is a little sweet. If you can't do it, you can't suffer first in one stage of life and then be sweet in another stage of life. I will work hard every day until I am old. Nothing is bitter. Back to the core, what is "bitterness"? What is the standard of definition? For example, I study every day, and some people feel bitter, but I don't feel bitter. I want to die like this. For example, when I am old, I have to find something to do outside every day, such as driving a taxi. Others will think that I am struggling for a living, but in fact I am happy. Oh, some people say that there is no money to spend and they can't even eat. This is a very bitter thing. Therefore, teenagers should work hard to avoid poverty in their old age. If this is the measure, I can't suffer this when I was a teenager. Why did I have to go through this poverty when I was a teenager? Anyway, I've been working hard since kindergarten, and now I'm doing well, very well. What kind of teenagers suffer hardships and fly against the wind, why don't I fly against the wind?

A certain degree of restraint and self-control is necessary, which is an effective means to prevent the threshold from rising. Desire is endless, and the extreme excitement of winning the lottery will only last 18 months. (3) The happiest way is to let the desire be released a little bit and match it with your reality:

? Comments: ① Ouch, life is short. Why should I prevent the threshold from rising? I constantly improve myself, constantly satisfy myself, and constantly challenge higher thresholds. Isn't it a great state of life? Do you have to be a quiet turtle? I'd rather have the excitement of winning the lottery in 18 months, even for one month. I really need it. Why should I abstain from sex? I can't stop washing my shoes today, because it will rain tomorrow. (3) Why not think the other way around, I want to keep my desire, release my desire, and then constantly challenge myself and change the reality to satisfy my desire? This is an active and hard-core life.

Wandering in Beijing, sharing → renting a big house alone? → Own your own house → Become a general manager, become a CEO, and reach the peak of your life … What if the experience is the other way around? That's really a sad story.

? Comments: I think these two lines are the biggest failure of the whole paper. Who says this order is ok? Is it cool that I go directly to the CEO and then challenge the higher life and things behind the CEO? On the other hand, this is a sad story? Not exactly, CEO. He doesn't own a company. If the CEO wants to start his own business, resign from the CEO, and then sell the house for his own business, develop in Beijing, and share a house, then the company will take over and go public successfully, and he will explode ... Gee, it seems that he is more powerful than the CEO. Who says this is a sad story?

It is easy to be frugal, but difficult to be frugal. The ancients were not easy to bully.

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When I first started working, I didn't know the rhythm. I am a workaholic. "All my time is filled with work". After studying time management, I found that there is a lot of room for improvement in my work and life.

Try to make a plan, keep a diary, control my attention, give priority to important things, finish what I can do today, first bite the bullet, establish my own time management system, and balance work and family ... Slowly, I began to come out of my tedious mistakes and "jump out of the painting to see the painting"; I began to have time to think about life and life goals; I began to feel "quiet and orderly"-the source of all this is self-discipline. The result of self-discipline is to have more energy to do what you like. For example, writing an official WeChat account has brought me a lot of unexpected fun. In fact, after building a good structure, thinking about playing well and getting on the track, this activity will not affect my normal life: when I am not too busy, I will write a few paragraphs. It's like a time container, which stores the time of all corners. When I was poor in self-control at school, I began to study the method of "forming habits". I have cultivated many good habits with the methods I have learned, and my life will change a lot gradually. I have been keeping a diary since 20 10, and I have been used to it until now. After the initial running-in, all the discomfort disappeared, which is very natural. A few minutes of recording, let me examine myself and have a peaceful mind. It is not a burden for me, nor is it a job that needs to be assigned. It is an old driver's life driving recorder. A few years ago, I began to "go to bed early and get up early", from the initial "uncomfortable" to the present "wake up naturally at six o'clock every day". The benefits of getting up early are enormous: two hours out of thin air; Be able to have a leisurely breakfast; Staggering the crowded morning peak; The quality of lunch is higher, the dinner is less, and the sleep is more practical ... When the body is getting better and better, it is a different world. Self-discipline allows me to enjoy the good side of life.

? My goal in life is: freedom. It also includes three dimensions: financial freedom, time freedom and role freedom. Thanks to this colorful and surging opportunity era, it does not seem unattainable, but requires more than ten years of intensive cultivation, continuous and stable positive accumulation, down-to-earth efforts and unremitting self-discipline.

? Self-discipline sets you free.

Comments: The whole fourth paragraph is much more attractive than the last paragraph. There may be the author's real experience in it. But the author still doesn't go deep into how he is self-disciplined and what details have changed. So it still didn't really impress me, it was just a superficial statement.