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A young Jia can keep up with his contacts (1)

Case owner: Jia.

Author: Dad

Writing time: July 20 19 18.

Jia is 7 years old this year. He will enter the school gate in September and officially become a primary school student. Although this is the most natural thing for most families and children, for Jia and our family, this road is extremely difficult and full of love and hope.

Jia was born on 20 12. At the age of 3, she found that the child had a bad temper and was easy to shout. Attention is not concentrated, eyes can't be fixed, and people don't make eye contact; Clumsy movements, uncoordinated body, excessive movements, running and jumping, and unwillingness to speak in crowded or unfamiliar situations; Children always eat badly. They are tall but thin. They sleep late at night and don't take a nap during the day. They have severe night sweats and severe skin allergies.

20 16, Jia, 4 years old, was diagnosed with developmental retardation and sensory disturbance by Qingdao Women and Children Hospital. She is suspected of having autism spectrum disorder. The doctor told us that Jia's degree is light, and it is a gray area between white (normal) and black (autism), and it needs sensory training for intervention treatment.

Because the sensory training center in children's hospital is overcrowded, Jia can only make an appointment for training 2 or 3 times a week, each time for 40 minutes, and the whole process is led by parents, so the training intensity and effect are far from what expected. Half a year has passed, and the child's condition has not improved. For fear of delaying the child's treatment, we suspended Ajia from kindergarten and went to the capital Beijing for treatment.

When the child was four and a half years old, he came to Beijing for full-time induction training. The training fee alone exceeds 1 ten thousand yuan in one month. Plus the rent and living expenses in Beijing, the monthly expenses reach more than 20 thousand yuan. My husband and wife and four old people in my family take turns to take care of their children in Beijing. After half a year's intervention, children's ability in big and fine sports has improved, and their attention has also improved, but other conditions such as bad temper, poor emotional self-control and hyperactivity have not improved.

Jia returned to Qingdao when she was 5 years old. She basically goes to kindergarten for half a day, trains for half a day, and insists on giving her children a full-body massage every night. In order to treat skin allergy, I have to do neat desensitization treatment twice a week for nearly two years. During this period, Jia learned to play the piano, swim, jump rope and ride a bike. Her allergies have improved slightly.

In recent years, the family's income, time and energy have basically been invested in the intervention and treatment of children. Compared with before, Jia has made progress. Horizontally, there is still a big gap between him and his peers, mainly in:

1, grumpy, irritable, and poor emotional control.

2, attention can not be concentrated for a long time, often distracted, sometimes in a daze for a long time.

3, hyperactive, restless, often habitually squint and jump when walking.

4. Weak social skills. Although I like to play with my classmates, I have poor communication and interaction skills.

5, timid, afraid to say hello or talk in public or when meeting strangers.

6, thin body, poor diet, poor sleep, skin allergies.

From June, 2065438 to June, 2009, I learned from the Internet that many autistic children have recovered through the teacher's energy meditation. I immediately contacted Mr. Xiang Hui for consultation. She inquired about the children in detail, and then looked at the family system.

At the end of the month, our family came to Guangzhou and met our teacher for the first time. After seeing the child's condition, he found that Ajia's meridians were badly blocked. He immediately conditioned Ajia's acupuncture and squeezed out a large amount of milky sticky paste from his finger joints, and told us on the spot that the child's spleen and stomach had been conditioned.

Surprisingly, at dinner that day, Jia had a big appetite and ate a lot. After dinner, I ate slimming powder for the first time according to the teacher's request. The teacher has suggested before that you may have a fever when you eat meal powder for the first time. This is a "mistaken attack" and a good phenomenon. When he slept at night, Jia began to feel hot in his limbs, but his temples were not hot at all. We're just cooling him physically. Jia got up early the next morning, but he didn't have a fever again and was in good spirits.

In the next few days, Ben gave Ajia energy meditation therapy, and Ajia improved both physically and mentally. Two days after the second energy meditation treatment, the performance is as follows:

1. My appetite is much better than before. Basically, I ate well at every meal and gained a lot of weight.

2. Night sweats basically disappear at night.

3, the temper has been greatly improved, not as grumpy as before.

4, the heart is more stable than before, and there are fewer distractions.

5, concentration and understanding have improved, listening to instructions is much better, and I can take the initiative to wash clothes, dress and fold quilts. Doing homework is also much faster, and you can find the missing places.

Changes of dietary powder after 2 1 day;

1, the chronic disease of skin allergy suddenly got better, and it doesn't matter if you eat seafood and other previously allergic foods.

2, the flexibility of the legs become very good, you can put your feet on a higher barbell leg press.

3. Self-awareness becomes stronger, and many things have their own ideas and ideas.

4, communication with peers began to increase, playing more tricks, language expression gradually enriched.

I am in contact with young children now, so I can sit still for a long time in class and keep up with the course.

However, there is still room for improvement:

1, timid, insecure, and quiet when answering questions and communicating.

2. There will still be places of inattention, and the habit of skipping and squinting still exists.

Although the temper is not as impatient as before, the self-control needs to be improved.

Looking back, as parents, we have basically tried various ways to deal with the problems from children's examination to meeting teachers, and authoritative experts in Qingdao, Beijing and even Hong Kong have seen them, but some core problems have never been improved.

It has been less than 1 month since my teacher nursed Jia, and Jia has made such great progress, which fully shows the magic of ancient medical gods in China. Thanks to my teacher!

Looking back now, it seems that I have been helping children in recent years. In fact, it is the children who recognize us and make us. It is he who makes us realize the suffering and impermanence of the world, and at the same time helps us expose our own faults and shortcomings, so that we can discover the real eternal value of life. We believe Jia will have a bright future.

Ajia goes to primary school smoothly (2)

Case owner: Jia.

Author: Mom

Writing time: 2065438+September 20th, 2009.

Foreword:

On April 22, 2065438+09.6, Mama Jia said that the problems that children need to improve are as follows:

1, often distracted, distracted;

2, attention is very unfocused, forgetful, not listening to instructions, procrastinating;

3, emotional self-control ability is very poor, very violent, and will shout loudly when unhappy;

4, move more, can't calm down, have more small moves, and like to jump;

5, weak social skills, courage, poor self-confidence, often denying yourself;

6, poor sleep, night sweats;

7. Habitual strabismus;

8, there is a slight TIC disorder.

9. Stubborn and rigid behavior; Tactile sensitivity.

Text:

From June 2065438 to June 2009, we learned from the Internet that our teacher had cured many autistic babies, so we visited our teacher at the end of the month. After acupuncture and energy meditation, Jia is like a different child. After returning to Qingdao, we continued to take art photos. The photographer said that the child is in good condition, his eyes are good, his chest can stand, and he can cooperate and laugh with the photographer. (Note: I took an artistic photo when I was 3 years old, because I didn't cooperate; I went to take art photos in June, because I only took one set because of poor conditions. )

In July, we had a month of young convergence, laying the foundation for primary school. The teacher reflected that Jia's attention was not very focused and he was not active in the face of problems he didn't understand. She doesn't want to raise her hand to answer questions, and her voice is particularly low when she answers questions. But what is commendable is that I can sit still, get along well with my classmates and play louder than anyone else.

At the end of July, I consulted my teacher and wanted to continue to improve my ability, so I went to Guangzhou Buda Sensory Training Hall for nearly a month. The biggest difference between here and other sensory training halls is the energy of meditation and healing. When children arrive here, their mood will be better and their attention will be focused.

Children change every day. During this month in Guangzhou, they learned to do housework (sweeping the floor, mopping the floor, taking a bath by themselves, picking vegetables, washing clothes, hanging clothes, etc. Although they used to do it at home, it was difficult for them to do it actively and consistently. After the child can do these things, I will make it more difficult for him and gradually train him to feel in class. Four days later, he confidently and generously said goodbye to me and walked steadily to the feeling hall. In these processes, my self-confidence has also been improved. I can recite an ancient poem every day, and my voice is getting louder and louder every day, and my literacy speed is getting faster and faster. I have a lot of ideas, unlike I used to lose my temper for a little thing.

After nearly a month of training, Jia returned to Qingdao. The first thing he did when he got home was to play with the toys he had missed for a long time. To my surprise, he played a lot of tricks and played independently. Take the initiative to help adults do housework, and their self-care ability has been enhanced a lot.

On September 2, Ajia officially entered primary school. On the first day of school, she came back to tell us about the interesting things that happened at school, and also told us where her seat was and who she was sitting with. After a week, I can pay attention to the details, describe what happened at school, the content of the class, the age and appearance of the teacher. Have a sense of time, turn off the alarm clock when it rings, get dressed, and a series of actions don't need to be rushed too much, but will remind me to hurry up and not to be late. You should show off your works of art to me when you come back from school.

I talked to Jia's class teacher privately. He said that Jia's voice was a little low when answering questions. Usually, he should open his mouth wide and speak slowly. Safety awareness should be strengthened; I had a good time with my classmates. Other problems will get better and better with age. It seems that Jia has taken off his hat and is a normal baby.

Half a month after the start of school, Jia told me that I was not as worried as I thought when I went to primary school, and I quite liked primary school life. He has met several classmates in the class. The teacher praised him for speaking much louder and writing Chinese characters and numbers well.

I taught him martial arts routines before, but I didn't learn them well. I only know some simple boxing footwork. I can study hard this time, and the imitation of action has made obvious progress. I will soon be able to remember the martial arts moves, and I can also play the five-step boxing properly. In English interest class, I can interact with foreign teachers and speak English with my mouth open. The teacher took my hand excitedly and said that he had spoken. Other parents also say Andy has made great progress, like a newborn baby.

Now when eating slimming powder every night, Jia will tell herself what kind of baby she wants to be, and her goal is gradually realized. Let the child take his time and give him some time and space. Sometimes Jia procrastinates, and I don't remind him. He will realize that he is wasting his time later. He can listen when he makes mistakes and criticizes him, instead of resisting as before; My personality has become more and more cheerful, I love to laugh and my temper has improved a lot. Although I will still be angry in the face of difficulties I have never encountered, I am willing to try to solve them.

As our teacher said, when the child is back, our parents have more things to do and need to make up for many places he missed before. We should all realize that after having children, we find that we know too little. Children make us grow up, make us strong, and let us see the other side of ourselves (children are the shadows of our parents). We have exposed many problems and shortcomings of ourselves. Many problems do not happen to children, but to ourselves, to our own environment and to our own hearts. Only by facing up to the problem, can we solve the problem and discover the real eternal value in life.

Teachers can't help us in the later stages of children's growth, but can only give us some good suggestions. Therefore, changing children depends on parents, studying more, reading more, thinking more, practicing more, believing in and appreciating their children. Some parents will think that my child has not made progress. That's because you are too demanding of your children. In fact, as long as you watch carefully, he changes every day. In fact, you are changing yourself.

Ajia's Primary School Growth (3)

Case owner: Jia.

Author: Mom

Writing time: June 65438 +654381October+August 2020.

Time flies, 20 19 has passed in a blink of an eye, and the Spring Festival of the Year of the Rat is coming soon. This year is destined to be of great significance to Ajia.

20 19 at the end of June, my family came to Guangzhou to see the teacher. At this time, 7-year-old Jia has reached the age of going to school. The teacher gave Ajia injections and energy meditation therapy, and also gave Ajia slimming powder. After energy meditation therapy, Jia improved obviously, which brought hope to our family. In order to better connect with the primary school, in August, we took Ajia to the Buda Sensory Training Center opened by our teacher in Guangzhou for about one month. Jia has made great progress under the careful training of teachers and teachers. As parents, we are full of expectations for Jia's smooth entry into primary school.

On September 2, 20 19, Jia entered the primary school for the first time. What was waiting for him was challenge, more growth and surprise. I don't attend class, pack my schoolbag slowly, don't hand in my homework in the morning, and lose my temper when I encounter difficulties. It makes Ajia's class teacher crazy, and it also makes us realize that although Ajia has made great progress compared with other children of the same age, there is still a big gap in many aspects. In fact, the teacher said that after the energy meditation treatment, the child recovered, which does not mean that the parents can let go and everything will be fine. Because of the previous obstacles, children's development and ability growth in many aspects have been hindered, so it is normal for children to lag behind their peers in some aspects after returning to their original places. But after energy meditation therapy, the child's mind is normal and progress will be rapid. At this time, if parents give some help, children can successfully pass this transition period and achieve a good result.

In view of Jia's situation, we have carried on the appropriate "addition and subtraction" to his daily life. First of all, we stopped all the projects that exceeded Ajia's ability and energy time, including the piano lessons I have been taking since kindergarten and the oral English classes for foreign teachers twice a week. The off-campus care class was cancelled because Jia spent two to three hours doing her homework after school every day. Secondly, we allocated more time to train and strengthen Ajia's weaknesses. Every day after school, A Jia Club has about 1 hour of outdoor activities, which not only exercises his physical fitness, but also adds some sensory training content. At the same time, he plays with other children and exercises his communication ability with children of the same age. Then going home is a special training for attention and listening, about half an hour. This kind of training materials can be bought online. Although Jia is over 7 years old, we do it from the difficulty of 0-6 years old, because it must be based on the actual ability level of children. After dinner, it's time for Jia to review his culture class. Generally, let him talk about the main content of the main course during the day first, so as to urge him to pay attention to the lecture in class, then talk about the knowledge points he learned that day again, and finally write homework time. After finishing your homework, you should start washing your hands. Basically, you should go to bed before 9 o'clock every night. Children's sleep is very important

In addition to the efforts of parents, Mr. Ben and Mr. Wang have been caring for and helping Jia's growth. The teacher adjusted Ajia's slimming powder in time according to her situation. In order to improve some of his problems, Ben told us the folk prescription of roast chicken eggs. In a word, with the constant help of my teacher, Jia is making continuous progress. Now he dares to raise his hand to answer questions in class. He also made some good friends at school and performed martial arts for everyone at the class's New Year's party. In the final exam of the first semester, Ajia scored 99.5, 100 and 98 respectively in Chinese, mathematics and English, reaching the upper-middle level in her class. The class teacher also felt that Jia had made great progress from the beginning to the end of the first semester, which was a surprise.

Nowadays, many people think that children should not be allowed to lose at the starting line, but we think that educating children is more like long-distance running and has many aspects. In addition to school, children's moral education, character cultivation, self-care ability and interpersonal skills are all very important, even more important than school. Of course, these are not achieved overnight, and they need enough patience and love. I hope all children can grow up healthily and happily. As parents, we just need to cultivate and harvest in Mo Wen, keep a normal mind and wait for the flowers to bloom.