The ability to live life

Liang Wendao said: "Whether it is a man or a woman, if he does not have the ability to live by himself, then he does not have the ability to live with others."

Many people live alone before marriage. The relationship is not good, so I hope to get married. But your ability to live a good life will not get better just because you get married. If you live well, your marriage will be fine. If you live poorly, your marriage will be terrible. No matter who you live with, you actually live with yourself. Live your life well and live your ideal life first, and then you will meet your ideal life.

Grandma Takagi, 65, who is very popular on the Internet, moved into the mountains of Karuizawa a few years ago, bought a piece of land, and built a log cabin of her own.

Before retiring, she was a well-known photographer. After retirement, she brought her beloved career into the cabin.

There is a whole wall of curved windows in the house, which can provide a panoramic view of the natural scenery outside. All the floors and walls in the studio were painted ink to make the characters stand out more when taking photos.

There are different plant areas such as cherry blossoms and maple leaves in the yard. You can feel the changes of the four seasons as soon as you step out of the house every day.

Even though she has reached retirement age, she does not give up her work and still insists on living the life she likes. When she has nothing to do, she likes to cook. With a few simple ingredients in her hands, she can quickly turn them into healthy and nutritious food.

The way she gives people: only smells the fragrance of flowers, does not talk about joys and sorrows, drinks tea and grows flowers, and does not seize the day.

She said: "The most important thing for a woman is independence. Managing oneself well is a career. Life itself is very meaningful and cannot be lived up to.

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