"Living" You must have capital and always live confidently. What you live is your own life.

Article by Yue Yue Xiaojiang

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Some people say that if you have experienced the impermanence of fate, you must read Yu Hua's "Living" 》.

Yu Hua wrote in "Living": "There is nothing happier than living, and nothing is more difficult than living." Living is a very happy thing, but how to live is the key Your own life?

Fugui, the protagonist of Yu Hua's "To Live", was originally a rich young master but lost all his family property because of his addiction to gambling. The life that had no worries about food and clothing became torn to pieces, and his life also entered another track.

His father was angry to death because of this, and his mother was seriously ill. When he was taken to be a young man, his wife went through all kinds of hardships to raise the child. I thought the family could live a good life, but I didn’t want my son to die of excessive blood loss during the blood donation...

In the end, his grandson, who only depended on him for life, was starved to death because of eating beans... the last companionship in life. His is an old cow, living alone.

Fugui has experienced too many life and death partings in his life. To understand living, I think it is just living. As for things other than living, perhaps they are too far away from him and too "harsh".

Because living itself is a kind of "happiness".

But Fugui has his own "life", although the process is not satisfactory.

There are many compromises in life, but today's young people can be more themselves. To live, you should be yourself more and have your own life.

At all times, you must remember that having capital is your greatest confidence. Only when you have the confidence to live can you do your own things and live your own life.

More often than not, capital is a kind of umbrella of destiny.

If you have the capital, you can live as you please. Listen to your inner voice and follow the expression of your character. You can give yourself the freedom you want and buy what you want.

It can be a casual trip, or it can be a happy-go-lucky life. You don’t have to worry too much, but everything requires capital.

The well-known movie star Angela Chang grew up in a poor family. His father's business failed and the family's financial situation was very bad. Moreover, his father cannot work because of a heart condition. Angela Chang is the eldest sister in the family, so she naturally assumes the responsibility of sharing the family's difficulties.

Before the fire broke out, she had done jobs such as car washing and lunch delivery. It wasn't until she participated in the "China-Guangzhou Meteor Star" singing competition that she won the first place in the Canadian division. She was spotted and successfully signed a contract.

After Zhang Yunhan became famous, her mother took away all her money. Her parents, uncle, grandmother and others jointly accused Zhang Shaohan of abandoning her adoptive parents, and also claimed that she took drugs and took her younger siblings with her...

Zhang Yunhan said: "Never let others threaten you. You must have capital, because after you have capital, no one can threaten you, and you live your own life. "

Different People's understanding of capital must be different. People with abundant money do not think that money is a capital, and people with good health do not think that health is a capital. But only when you truly experience helplessness will you understand.

My colleague Xiaolan’s neighbor, because her family conditions are not good, she is also my sister. Before joining the company, I had been working in the countryside.

She said that her parents never thought that she was a member of the family. She never had the things that her brother had. She couldn’t imagine the clothes that her brother had. The money she earned was not hers, and she didn’t even have the opportunity to go to school. Deprivation...

As a sister, in addition to helping her brother pay tuition and living expenses, she also has to bear the responsibility for his daily life, washing and cooking... If she goes too far, she will not be able to do all this.

By chance, we had dinner together. She said that she was very tired of living, and felt that she was not living for herself, but for her parents, and for this family that did not treat her as a family member...

Confidence is something that no one can give you except yourself. you.

No matter who you are, you can earn your confidence by yourself. There is poetry and calligraphy in my belly, which is the confidence brought by knowledge. Coming back after all the money is spent is the confidence brought by society and work experience.

My classmate Xiaoying is a person who has confidence in dealing with everyone and everything.

When high school was divided into arts and sciences, her parents advised her not to choose science as a girl. It would be better to become a teacher after graduating from liberal arts. But she refused to listen and chose science.

Because she is confident. On the one hand, she likes the rigorous logical thinking and reasoning skills of science. On the other hand, she likes to realize the process of her life through her own efforts.

After graduation, she did not enter the job arranged for her by her parents. Instead, she made her own choice again and went to a financial institution. She said: "Life is mine, and work must also be mine. Only in this way can we have confidence in life.

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Later, relying on her own ability, when we were still in a tight financial situation, she achieved "wealth freedom" and could go anywhere at any time, travel, take photos, learn dance, and experience life. < /p>

Now she is more confident, more rational and mature. She said: "In the past, I was afraid of losing my job and being fired; I was also afraid of being criticized by others, or having any accidents in my family.

But now, these are not things. Because you find a job by yourself, and you earn money by your own skills. These are my confidence, and only with confidence can I live my own life. ”

When a person is no longer afraid of any changes and has the ability to adapt and embrace changes, I think this is a person’s confidence.

Because you have the confidence, you can be yourself better!