How to stop caring about other people’s lives and just be yourself?

If you want to be yourself and not care about other people's lives, you need to be able to avoid comparison, ignore other people's opinions, and have your own clear life plan, so that you can naturally live in your own life. In this world, there is no need to care about others.

1 Stop comparing.

If you want to stop caring about other people’s lives, start with yourself and stop looking at other people’s lives.

Many people in the circle of friends will share their daily life.

Some people in my circle of friends traveled to Malaysia during the National Day and played in shallow water. Every photo of the underwater world was in the style of a blockbuster. The Malaysian sea looked intoxicating. There are also people who drive their Mercedes-Benz to distant mountains and set up tents on the mountains to drink red wine and admire the stars and the moon... There are also people who don't even have time to post on WeChat Moments and are still working overtime...

I believe you In your circle of friends, there will be people who live a wealthy and luxurious life, while some people live extremely difficult lives... What about you? What is your position? What kind of mentality will you have after seeing other people's friend circles?

If you cannot look at other people's lives with a normal attitude and always want to compare with others and ignore your own actual situation, this life will be too tiring. What you need may be to close your circle of friends. Adjust your mentality and live your life well.

2 Listen less to other people’s opinions.

Listening less to other people’s opinions may be different from the education you usually receive, and it may feel very “rebellious”. But in fact, are other people’s attitudes and opinions really that important?

Older young people are definitely left with men and women. They must arrange a blind date early so that they can get out of singles as soon as possible? To find a job, you have to find a job as a civil servant, and you will have an iron rice bowl; you cannot be a volunteer teacher, it is too hard and there is no money; you cannot be a doctor, it is too dangerous...

If you always listen to these words, Your thinking can also be affected without even realizing it. What you have to do is try to stay away from these people and listen less to their opinions. When you keep a sufficient distance, what they say will fall on deaf ears, and you will naturally not care about what they say...

3 Think more clearly about the life you want to live, and use your own abilities Follow the mindset to achieve it.

This last point is the most important thing. If you don’t want to care about other people’s lives, you must first figure out what kind of life you want to live.

Is it acceptable to have a simple meal? Or do you want big fish and meat? Food, clothing, housing and transportation, the most basic daily needs, how do you deal with them?

These are all things we need to consider clearly. Only when our desires match our abilities can we be better ourselves.

In this way, when you see others posting on Moments, you can face it calmly.

When we hear other people’s opinions, we can still live freely, just because we have the confidence and ability to be ourselves...why should we care about others?