What do you want most?

What I want most is to play with my partner.

The so-called partner culture means that young people express their attitudes and values through posting their photos or videos on social platforms, accompanied by various fashionable clothing, food, travel and other elements.

The popularity of this cultural phenomenon not only reflects the changes of young people's aesthetic concepts and consumption concepts, but also has a certain impact on our society.

First of all, the prevalence of partner culture reflects young people's pursuit of a better life. In the past, we may have put more emphasis on frugality and simplicity, but now with the development of economy and the improvement of personal income, young people begin to pay more attention to enjoying life and pursue a higher quality life experience.

All kinds of fashion elements in partner culture make people feel a beautiful state of life and inspire their love and yearning for life.

Secondly, the prevalence of partner culture also reflects young people's demand for personalization and self-expression. In a society where the trend of integration is becoming more and more obvious, young people are more eager to express their independent personality in their own way.

Partner culture provides a platform for young people to show their creativity and aesthetics, and also establishes their personalized identity.

However, there are also some problems and challenges in the partner culture. First of all, excessive pursuit of fashion and collocation may make young people pay too much attention to appearance and form, while ignoring internal value and significance.

Secondly, while expressing yourself, we should also be careful not to cross the bottom line of social morality and law. Finally, we need to pay attention to whether the consumption habits and waste in the partner culture meet the social goal of sustainable development.

In short, the prevalence of partner culture reflects some changes and needs of young people in our society, and also has a certain impact on our society.

We should look at the advantages and disadvantages of partner culture objectively and guide young people to understand and express themselves correctly, thus promoting the progress and development of our society.

The topic asks what kind of "partner" you like. Ye Zi is an independent person. She always thinks independently and wants something different, except that the seller sends something to catch. She never wants other partners to leave.

Having a like-minded partner can not only make an unremarkable working meal lively and fragrant, but also give a boring and heavy job a hope. It is a small blessing to have a partner.

Of course, the pain of losing a partner also exists. "Lunch at work jumped ship. Who knows the pain? " A netizen shared his feelings of losing his meal online, and his tears and tears made people feel the same, which also made other netizens start sharing mode. Some people say that it is only after going to work that they know that the most terrible thing is to lose a colleague. Some people say that losing a meal is worse than being lovelorn; Some people say that strong migrant workers can endure the hardships of the workplace, but they can't stand the pain of the absence of their food partners, and the food they eat is not fragrant. Who knows?

They are completely different even when they have a partner and when they don't have a partner, so that the enthusiasm for quitting when they lose their partner will skyrocket.

You can not fall in love, but you can't live without a partner.

The relationship between partners is also staged?

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Take the rice partner as an example. According to the different fit, it can be roughly divided into three stages.

In the initial stage, "dining partner" is most similar to its original meaning "dining partner". Whether your taste is sweet or salty, whether you are a fan of spaghetti or rice, or even whether you bring rice from home, he orders takeout. As long as you are willing to sit down and have dinner together, everyone is a good partner. However, the relationship at this stage is also fragile. Once someone's status changes, the combination of meal partners will be rearranged.

After the initial stage of understanding, selection and running-in, the friendship between rice partners will gradually advance to a new stage. At this time, the communication between rice partners began to slowly extend to the private sphere: when they saw their favorite food or restaurant, they would share it with each other; Even if you are not studying or working, you should make an appointment to punch in. At the advanced stage, rice partners need each other, respect each other, make appropriate concessions and develop new food maps.

And what is the ultimate stage, that is, the most ideal state? Some netizens concluded that we should have the same taste, the same dining habits, the same economic level and the same money, as well as synchronous topics, geographical location and free time. It is almost impossible to find a partner who meets all the criteria. Wandering between the advanced stage and the ideal stage is the normal state of friendship between rice and children; Being as close to each other as possible is the meaning of happiness.

Recently, in Lishui, Zhejiang, three white-haired grandmothers met AA for a restaurant, and they were cured while eating and laughing. The netizen said with a smile: "Isn't this the most ideal stage for eating a meal?" "After having an ex-girlfriend with a dinner party?"

We need each other and are independent of each other.

The popularity of "shallow socialization" among young people has its rationality.

Why is "partner friendship" so popular among young people? Some people are out of interest, others are to relieve loneliness, and others think that finding someone is synonymous with serious life. In short, some people think that it takes too much time and energy to re-establish intimate relationships in a fast-paced life. When you get along with your partner, you can not only enjoy each other's time together, but also maintain emotional "low dependence" and devote yourself to life without pressure, which largely meets the social needs of "mutual independence". Because of this, they often use "sense of relaxation" to describe their relationship with their partners.

Pan Helin, co-director and researcher of Digital Economy and Financial Innovation Research Center of International Joint Business School of Zhejiang University, said that the popularity of "partner friendship" is synchronized with the increase of young people's "single rate", and such "shallow socialization" can effectively alleviate loneliness. In addition, there is a phenomenon of "minority cultural tribes" among young people, which is also the reason why various subcultures gather different people. He concluded that "companion friendship" is difficult to develop into a mainstream social model, but its existence is reasonable, because many young people in cities lack the opportunity and time to get in touch with each other deeply.

It is worth noting that some young people do not regard their partners as "second best" choices. Many young people believe that even if they have a stable intimate relationship in the future, they will not "abandon" or alienate their partners. This social model is also a proof of "keeping yourself".