I want to travel alone, but I always hesitate. What's the problem?

You talk about traveling, but you want to travel in your heart.

In fact, if you don't want to go alone, there is no need to go alone, otherwise you won't be happy.

Not to mention there may be some unpredictable security factors.

Birds of a feather flock together.

Just live in your own circle with peace of mind, there is no need to yearn for other people's lives and experiences.

Many things in life can be learned without wanting to learn.

Some people like to be free, they like to walk alone, which is the most efficient, and they can really concentrate on traveling by walking more attentively.

Facts have also proved that a person's trip is often the most rewarding trip.

There are more people, the novelty is gone, and the environment for independent thinking is gone.

And some people, bored by themselves for a weekend, want them to go on a long trip alone? Isn't it the end of the world?

People who are afraid of loneliness should never travel alone! This is a long journey! That two-day tour doesn't count.

With the ability, you won't hesitate to make a decision.

Friend, do you know what the problem is now?

This is determined by your personality.

A person's personality is formed by many factors such as family, growth environment and growth experience, and it is not easy to change.

I have a friend, and this is my character. Once she and I went to a wholesale market to buy bowls and plates. Faced with dozens of dishes of different colors, materials and styles, she didn't know which one to choose. Finally, I asked her what she bought these dishes for, and narrowed it down for her, and then she made a choice.

The reason for your hesitation may be that you don't know where to go, or how to get there, or you are worried that it is not safe to go out alone. Finding your reason will make it easier to solve it.

If you don't know where to go, then you can think about where you want to go most. Now that we have the conditions, everything will be OK and we can go to the place we want to go most. If the conditions are not mature, then change to a place similar to it and see if it has conditions, so choose one by one and finally decide where you want to go.

As for how to get there, you can choose one or more of them, such as plane, train, high-speed rail, ship and self-driving. And choose which one is more economical according to your own economic situation.

I'm afraid it's not safe to go out alone. This kind of worry is actually unnecessary. Now most areas are safe, and your life and property will not be damaged.

You can also imagine the worst result. If you lose your wallet and have no money to stay in a hotel or eat, won't you call your family and ask them to transfer some money to you right away? ! Even if you lose your ID card, you can ask the police for help to reissue temporary id card, and you can still move on.

Think all these questions clearly. What are you hesitating about? !

Hello! I belong to a person who often travels alone. In my opinion, traveling alone has many advantages, such as freedom, relaxation and free will. So, why do you want to travel alone, but you are hesitant?

In my opinion, this situation is mainly caused by the following four reasons: I am worried that I will be lonely when traveling, I am not skilled in free travel skills, I have not planned my trip well, and I am not confident enough. Next, I will carefully analyze these reasons for you and propose solutions.

Traveling alone, from the moment you step out of the house, there is no one else to travel with you. From going to the train station, boarding the train, to another city, dragging luggage to hotels, checking in, going to scenic spots, eating and shopping, it is a one-man show. Therefore, many people are worried about whether traveling alone will make them feel lonely, or whether traveling with several people will be more interesting.

In fact, traveling alone is not necessarily lonely. In traffic, scenic spots and hotels, you can often know the same person who travels. After getting familiar with it, you can join the following journey together. In addition, if you travel alone, you can have more opportunities to communicate with local people, so it is more suitable to experience the local culture in depth.

Compared with the group tour of "only listening to others' requirements", there is indeed a certain threshold for free travel. Book hotels, screen scenic spots, buy air tickets, find restaurants, etc. And all aspects should be done by yourself. Therefore, a person needs some skills to travel freely.

Specifically, you should be very familiar with calling a car by mobile phone, buying tickets for scenic spots, buying train tickets and booking hotels. These trivial things are not difficult to deal with. If you are not skilled enough, you can take a short trip of 1-2 days to accumulate experience for yourself.

The essence of hesitation is that there is no clear travel plan and goal. Many times, we see people in the circle of friends taking beautiful photos of some scenic spots, but there is no clear itinerary. Therefore, whenever we have leisure to travel, we always hesitate. If you travel alone, a clear itinerary plan is even more important.

As far as I am concerned, if I find a scenic spot I want to go to, I will check the train ticket (air ticket) price and see where the hotel is, whether I will go in the near future or not. The trip will take several days. Make a simple preliminary plan in advance and start the specific scheduled work as soon as there is a holiday. In this way, every time it's time to have a rest, I can't wait to prepare for a trip without hesitation.

Finally, when you travel alone, you need to be confident. I believe that I have the ability to arrange my own itinerary, and I also believe that I have the ability to handle the difficulties and emergencies encountered during my journey. On the basis of prudence, be bold and take the first step bravely, and you will find that traveling alone is not so terrible, but rather fun.

In a word, traveling alone is a free and easy way to travel. If you plan your trip in advance and have a certain ability to travel freely, you can get rid of hesitation and live a good life alone.

I always hesitate to travel alone. What's the problem? I think the problem is that you are still in the fantasy stage. I don't really want to travel. So whenever you think about going out for a trip, there will be a lot of objections in your heart. How much does the trip cost? If you don't care about money, you will think how tired it is! Isn't that paying for the pain? Some disasters are not worth it. As the saying goes, staying at home for a thousand days is good, but going out for a day is difficult. All kinds of worries will come out. As the saying goes, read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road. I think we'd better take Wan Li Road instead of talking about thousands of books. Of course, if you get on the bus and sleep, get off to see the temple, talk about dinner and sleep at night, and know nothing, that is another matter. As long as you are good at observation and diligent in thinking, travel will always bring you unexpected gains. Give a simple example. A person traveled to Shanhaiguan, came to the pass of Shanhaiguan and looked at the gate of Shanhaiguan. I finally understand the problem that has been bothering me for many years. I used to wonder why I called the three northeastern provinces Kanto. It's in the northernmost east of our country! Now I understand, because the only way to enter the northeast is Shanhaiguan, which faces east, with Dongguan outside and Xiguan inside. Guandong is a Commissioner, although you have to go north immediately after passing the customs. Such problems may not be clear to many people and have never thought about them. Even if you don't want to be here, it's hard to figure it out, because few books will explain such problems. From such a small example, you should understand that taking Wan Li Road is at least as important as reading thousands of books. Frequent travel will certainly gain a lot of life experience and knowledge that books can't learn, and you will also fall in love with travel. Under the condition of ensuring a normal life for yourself and your family. Put down your schoolbag and run to your poem and the distance. ...

The problem lies in my heart, because my personality and habits are not decisive enough, and because the place I want to go is not attractive enough.

Personality habits affect people's behavior ability. I want to travel alone, but I'm afraid the place I go alone is boring. Always hesitant, unable to make up my mind to leave as soon as possible, worried that it is not safe to go to a strange place alone.

In fact, a person's travel is also very meaningful, and a person can feel a lot of happiness that the human body can't. * * * is a kind of happiness, and being alone is also a kind of enjoyment.

Another advantage of traveling alone is that you can go anywhere and take any route you want.

When I want to travel alone, I always hesitate. This kind of mood is very understandable. The cool girl decided to travel alone for the first time. She thought twice before going out.

This situation, the reason for hesitation, is basically not a question of money. Money should be only a small part of the reason. I'm hesitating about the money, how much it might cost.

The biggest problem of indecision is what's wrong with traveling alone.

After all, the unknown always scares us, and when we get used to living in groups, when we go to a strange place alone, we always feel a lot of problems.

A person who leaves the familiar circle will feel helpless. There are no people you know, no friends, everything is unknown and strange, and it is terrible to meet things without consultation and help.

I will worry about safety and what will happen.

In fact, the phenomenon of social security in China is very good. As long as a person doesn't go to a sparsely populated remote place, there is basically no problem. The same is true of traveling abroad. It's not a big problem to go to some socially stable tourist areas.

Secondly, it is said that the phenomenon information is developed, and transportation, accommodation and so on are very convenient, no problem.

Some people think it's interesting and worthwhile to go out to play alone.

It depends on your mentality and how to travel. A person's travel is to cultivate the mind.

Everyone has a fear of strange things.

That's your problem.

You don't know how wonderful the outside world is until you go out. The scenery, history, culture, specialties and food of each place are different. Don't look, don't know anything, just sit in the well and watch the sky.

Don't go out, you don't know that people outside are like neighbors. Hearing the news that too many passengers were slaughtered, I always felt that people outside had ulterior motives. Go out and have a look, you will know that there are bad people, but only a few. Most people are kind and will lend a helping hand when you are in trouble. Just like the eldest brother and sister-in-law in the neighborhood. Everyone is smiling and friendly to others.

You don't know your ability to handle all kinds of things until you go out. Anything can happen when you are away from home, and you may encounter it. It's terrible to think about it. In fact, when you go out, you will find that you can cope with all kinds of situations by yourself. You are not as cowardly and ignorant as you think.

Friend, go out bravely!

With the first time, you will like it more and more.

It is understandable to travel alone, to be honest, to hesitate and worry about all kinds of sudden symptoms. Financial reasons, physical reasons, family reasons and so on. My suggestion is to travel no matter how long or how far it is. Mainly mood, when you see the vast mountains and rivers of the motherland and everything in the world recovers, you are looking for a way to decompress and then enrich yourself! If you are tired from walking, you can trim yourself in a quiet town. If you see beautiful scenery, you can share it with your relatives and friends. Life is really short, maybe at my age, it's a bit exaggerated, but I know what I want. At the age of 50, I don't want to have money and time, but I can't walk. I don't want to recall my busy life when I am old. You can earn money to spend on travel, but the lost youth is gone forever. Do you regret not remembering your life journey like this? People should be filial to their parents first, and then be kind to themselves. There are so many regrets in life. If that year ... if possible ... if there is a next time ... if ... young people don't leave regrets! After all, there is no next life! No matter where you go, you must report your safety to your family at the first time! Bless you!

Traveling alone may still be different from traveling! No matter what kind of travel, I think the main reasons for hesitation are two problems: thought and physical condition. I have these two experiences. I haven't been out of the house before I was 60 years old. When I first wanted to travel abroad, my heart was full of curiosity, and my mind began to think about all kinds of unknowns! Worried about good things and bad things? Because it's the first time, I can't make up my mind. Later, my sister suggested a colleague and went to Phuket, Thailand! With the first experience, I was less nervous when I went to Vietnam for the second time. Because I am timid, I am afraid every time I fly! Always think in a bad direction! This is what I call having a problem in my heart! Besides, I'm not used to eating! I can't sleep well at night, and it's hard to go out and find a toilet. Now it is a stumbling block for me to travel alone. Of course, there are other reasons, such as the working hours and vacation time of young people, and money is also a factor! In fact, when a person makes up his mind to travel and is fully prepared. Actually, it's not as terrible as you think!

Traveling is a very common thing for people nowadays, and people often blurt out a trip when they say they leave. However, the reality is that I want to travel, but in the end I hesitated and stopped. What is the reason? Let me share my personal experience with you.

1 personal reasons, casual personality, procrastination, no thinking, just want to travel but not ready to follow the eyes of others. Blindly dreaming about how to travel. In fact, the real travel is to choose safe, reasonable, planned, selective and purposeful travel. For example, you want to go to humanities tourism, sightseeing tourism, food tourism, loving charity tourism, healthy tourism for exercise, or leisure tourism to relax your body and mind. Make clear the purpose and goal of your trip. When you have goals and objectives, you have a choice and plan how to proceed. Without the feeling of disorder, you have taken the first step of your journey.

For social reasons, many people will consider many factors when traveling. For example, is the current social atmosphere lively, jubilant and peaceful? Or immersed in a sad and unstable social environment? Many people are afraid to travel somewhere and are discouraged by all kinds of potential dangers and troubles. Worried about all kinds of unfavorable factors happening to themselves. In fact, on the whole, the whole social environment is beautiful, safe and legal, and most people have quality and morality. Especially in China, the overall environment is positive and beautiful, the society is stable and the people are happy. With the improvement of living standards, people's skills and quality have improved. Don't worry about social factors that threaten your own security. China is a society ruled by law. Most people in China are law-abiding, friendly and peaceful. Of course, if you travel, you will be afraid of being cheated and mistreated, and you will be forced to do unreasonable things against your will. You must bravely stand up and safeguard your own interests. But first of all, you have to be yourself and be a person with morality, quality, cultivation and understanding of the law.

Generally speaking, it is not difficult to travel alone. We should make rational and purposeful choices. Think about what you want when you travel. Take precautions, put food and grass first, plan the significance of the whole trip, and reserve some solutions that may encounter problems and need to be solved. Nothing is difficult for you as long as you are willing to do it. To tell the truth, a trip that goes away is not just an empty slogan. I believe I can do it.

Finally, I wish you all a pleasant journey without hesitation. !