Characteristics of heartless people

1. Always care about everything and love small gains

Don’t forget to take a handful of green onions before leaving when buying side dishes; *** After riding a bicycle, lock it in a nearby tree and treat it as a You bought your own exclusive travel mount; you went to eat with a friend and agreed on AA, but when the other party was paying the bill, he kept mumbling to you, saying that he didn't get what he wanted to eat at all, and clamoring for less money. The reason was "The only one who really enjoys it is you." Others will turn around and forget about his generosity and boldness, but if he feels that he has suffered even a little loss, he has to make it known to everyone, as if you have taken advantage of him. This kind of person is careless. , People whose minds are smaller than the eye of a needle.

One of my colleagues met a girl from the same city while traveling. The two of them traveled together, saving half the money on accommodation, taxis, meals, etc. They became friends and kept in touch when they returned to the city where they lived. But when she was shopping not long ago, she discovered that this girl was very fond of petty gains: she would drink endlessly when she arrived at the free drink area, and would not even buy water when she had to pay for it; when she went to coffee shops, restaurants and other places, she would , and will also stuff free tissues, straws, etc. into their bags and take them away. She felt that such a person's character was worth worrying about, and she gradually became alienated from him.

2. Not grateful

Ting'er's mood has been extremely bad recently. The reason is that she did a small favor for her best friend. Ting'er has a cousin who runs a Taobao store. Recently, the store has been discounting old clothes while also selling new products. Ting'er's best friend saw that the prices were very attractive and she took a fancy to several discounted clothes. Because I knew that this store was owned by Ting'er's relatives, I asked her to come forward and see if I could still negotiate the price.

After hearing what her cousin said, her cousin asked her to tell this best friend: Although the clothes on sale look good in the pictures, there are still some minor problems in terms of quality and quality. It is recommended not to buy them. Buy it, and also recommended to her several other good new clothing styles in his store. As a result, the other party insisted on buying the discounted items and said that he liked the style of these items. There was no other way, so Ting'er's cousin gave her an additional 20% off the original discount and sold the clothes to her at a price of half buy and half free. Unexpectedly, within a day after receiving the goods, this best friend came to Ting'er angrily, threw the clothes in front of her, and said that the quality was so poor that she could not wear them at all, and asked her to find her cousin to return them. Ting'er went to her cousin several times for this matter, and she made it clear that she didn't listen.

On this basis, a considerable discount was also given. Even if you are not satisfied and want to return the product, Ting'er's help and her cousin's sincerity should still be expressed in advance, right? It's as if someone inherently owes her this attitude. After that, Ting'er broke up with her and now they are strangers to each other.

3. If you are not honest, your words will not count

If people are not honest, even if it is just a little thing, they will lose friends unintentionally. Because for the other person, the matter is very small, but you can't even implement such a small thing, which shows that you don't take the other person to heart.

Xiao Han is only 17 years old now and is in her second year of high school. Since her first year of high school, she has been very close to Jiang Chan, a girl in the class who has a lively personality and has many friends. Jiang Chan told her that among her many friends, she felt that Xiao Han was the most special and the most connected to her. After Xiao Han heard this, he naturally regarded the other party as his best friend. But last Sunday, she denied what Jiang Chan said and recognized her true status in her mind, which had no special meaning at all.

The matter is very simple. The two agreed three days ago to go shopping together on Sunday. As a result, Jiang Chan went to the appointment that day and when she arrived at the agreed place, no one was seen. After waiting for another quarter of an hour, the other party didn't appear. When asked on the phone, Jiang Chan actually said that she had completely forgotten about it. She was at the amusement park at the time, playing with some other friends, and asked her if she wanted to go with him. "People who are dishonest do not deserve friends." Xiao Han ended the friendship between the two with such a sentence.