Should you choose to break up when traveling?

Traveling is the easiest way to see what kind of person a person is. If you really get to know your boyfriend's true face through traveling, and there is a big difference between his behavior in daily interactions, you can choose to break up with him.

I believe this sentence very much, so the year before last I proposed traveling to another place with my ex, with the purpose of seeing him clearly. So on the way, I deliberately made him angry over little things to see if he would still take care of me and comfort me when he was tired from traveling.

As a result, he was not as gentle and considerate as before. He kept a straight face and felt particularly cold.

Later, I didn’t go to several of the scenic spots I had agreed to see. I was very unhappy and even got into a fight.

After that trip, he and I naturally broke up, clean and tidy. The other party didn't look like he wanted to redeem himself at all.

Finally, I couldn’t help but ask him, why is his temper so bad when traveling?

He said: "Traveling is the best way to see a person clearly. When you are traveling, you will lose your temper over trivial matters and show your face to me. You are particularly difficult to take care of. This is not like you at all. I I finally see it clearly."

What is this...

During the journey, it is inevitable that things will happen; more importantly, when you are away from home, there will be constant interactions between people. The way they get along with each other breaks away from the tranquility of daily life. After being busy for more than half a year, they can't help but relax their usually sanctimonious nerves. As soon as a few clues come out, whether it is communication style, emotional management ability, or problem-solving skills, it can be seen at a glance. Compared with strangers who form a temporary group, intimate relationships face more tests. The truth of adversity and adversity escalates. Once you slack off, your previous dignity will seem so unreal. Those who are mature and secure partners will be even more vulnerable. It’s easy to get the other person’s approval.

Travel is full of accidental factors, and it may not be wise to rush to define your partner's behavior.

Therefore, traveling does not necessarily have to be a relationship curse. The accidents that everyone wants to avoid during travel may also become a turning point in the relationship. The key is whether to focus on the other person and take into account the other person's needs. My feeling is that I still put too much emphasis on myself and put too much emphasis on myself - I am not traveling alone, but "we" are traveling.

If you want to wait and see about an intimate relationship without being disappointed, perhaps the safest way is not to throw away your perfect assumptions about life and your partner on a hurried trip.