How to keep a person?

The way to keep a person: speak with facts, get rid of your own faults, give yourself a period of buffer and transformation, let the other person know his mood and changes, and enhance his attraction.

1, speak with facts.

Everything should be told with facts, and the facts are in front of us. Give yourself a new life. Face your heart, don't deceive yourself, and solve the problem with the most sincere attitude. If the other person still cares about you and still has love in his heart, then the happy days can come again.

2. Get rid of your own problems.

Everyone has a problem. When two people are together, they will become interdependent. If you want to recover, you must change your bad habits. You must promise yourself that the changed diseases are not allowed to appear again. Changing your bad habits will make that person happy, see your understanding and work hard.

3. Give yourself a period of buffering and transformation.

Rest is to go further. Under such emotional entanglement, my nerve clockwork has been stretched too tight. Relax your mood properly, then adjust your state and correct the problem. Let the other person, who is still under high emotional pressure, feel the balance after you dilute at once, thus creating a gap and increasing the sense of demand.

4. Let the other party know their feelings and changes.

Cold treatment is not to cut off all contacts and not to deal with them. The best cold treatment is not to treat the other person as a stranger, but to position the other person as an ordinary friend who does not take the initiative to contact, but to indirectly expose his life atmosphere at the intersection of the two parties, such as QQ space, friends circle and Weibo, so that the other person can indirectly know and feel his mood and changes.

5. Enhance the attraction.

There is a rift between two people's feelings, which is undoubtedly that the other person has reached the limit of patience with you and thinks that you are not the person he or she is looking for, which implies that you have to make a change.

At this time, what you need to do most is to improve your attractiveness. On the premise that both sides can get cool time, be yourself, get rid of your shortcomings, let you appear in front of each other again with a brand-new image, let the other side shine at the moment and re-examine your good feelings.