Is online dating reliable? Have you ever experienced online dating?

?Strictly speaking, we cannot simply say that online dating is unreliable. It can only be said that the success rate is lower than that of real love, and the safety and timeliness are more fragile than real love.

?My current partner and I also met and met through online dating (although we are in the same city). We have been together for more than two years now. I would like to talk about this topic based on my own experience. . Whether online dating is reliable or not depends on the person

?The Internet is just a virtual reality after all. You have no way of knowing who the person behind the opposite screen is, male or female, beautiful or ugly, Neptune or someone who really wants to be single.

Love concrete people, not abstract people. ——Luo Xiang

?This may be the reason why most people don’t believe in online dating. To a certain extent, online dating is also a quite abstract thing. There is still a difference between abstract people, people who are shaped by imagination only through communication, and people who are standing in front of themselves and communicating. In addition, distance and freshness are factors that make online dating inferior to real love. Everyone communicates through a screen every day, and the only way to maintain a relationship is by typing, phone calls, or video.

?Maybe I am lucky, because my high school classmate is the junior high school classmate of my online dating partner, so he is equivalent to the "matchmaker" among us. My partner and I can also understand what kind of person the other person is, including but not limited to what he looks like, what he usually likes to do, etc., so there will be more topics to talk about when we go out later.

?Benxian can stabilize online dating relationships, but it cannot be blind.

?But for those who add a friend in the game to get to know each other, the two people are in different places and usually only rely on typing and voice communication. , I think we still need to be more cautious and rational, not blind and hasty. You can try to regard online dating as a way to get to know each other, but you still need to get to know each other carefully before you can step out of online dating and transform into real love.

?In my opinion, if you really confirm your relationship online, it is best to meet in person at least two or three months later. Because this period of time will test online dating. Once the novelty wears off, you will know whether your partner really loves you. If so, then the relationship will be better if we meet each other. If not, it would probably break up. After all, this is also a place where online dating is considered unreliable.

?My current partner and I had been chatting for almost a year before we met, but after all, it only took an hour and a half to take the subway, which was very convenient. Ben Xian's first feeling is that real love is indeed stronger than online love, and makes people feel more secure. It is no longer a cold typing chat, but can actually do what you want to do and see what you want to see together. landscape.

?In short, whether online dating is reliable or not depends on whether the person dating online is reliable. If you and your online dating partner have a full understanding of each other, and both of you feel that they are suitable for each other, then BenXian will solidify the relationship between you. For other online lovers who only have cold chats and don’t know anything about the other party, it is really unreliable.