What is the difference between having a wife and not having a wife?

In the past few days, I saw an interview video on Youtube about "the difference between a wife and a XX", and my imagination was instantly restricted by some godly replies...

For example:

This is the answer in a solo interview.

But when the reporter interviewed other respondents who were with the target, their answers became...

The expression on the girl next to her can be described as both... Reserved, and secretly abusing the dog...

But no matter what answers the male protagonists gave, they all expressed their dependence on their wives.

Even if she turns into a yellow-faced woman one day, she is irreplaceable.

01

"I am not happy for a second without my wife's company"

I am a software testing engineer. Because I am too busy at work, I rarely have time to travel.

But because I performed well at work, my company once rewarded me with a five-day free trip to Puerto Rico (an island country).

For such a rare travel opportunity, of course I have to take my wife with me.

But when I went home and told her, she rejected me! !

Because our baby is only 7 months old, it is inconvenient to go out. So I had to go alone.

After I went there, I saw a lot of beautiful scenery, but I was the only one who witnessed it...

This feeling...

Coming back Finally, I put my travel photos online and planned to never go alone again.

Later, the company gave me another opportunity to travel. So, I tried my best to persuade my wife to go with me. This time, I finally felt the warmth.

This "I" is Kevin who lives in the UK. He posted before-and-after pictures of his two trips online.

Compared to the last time he traveled alone, this time he was no longer depressed. Because he said: "I can go to Puerto Rico again, but this time with my wife, it's a lot of fun."

So traveling alone is not as good as two people. No matter how beautiful the world is, without my wife by my side, all I can see is loneliness.

02

“After I married her, I never thought about marrying another woman.”

My husband can’t tie a bow and can’t tell the difference. With my left foot and right foot, I can only grasp with chopsticks.

He often laments that he is clumsy, but other than that, I don’t think there is anything clumsy in other aspects.

This is what Qian Zhongshu’s wife, Mr. Yang Jiang, recorded.

It is said that once, Mr. Yang Jiang was hospitalized, and Mr. Qian Zhongshu was the only one left at home. Every time he visited Yang Jiang in the hospital, Mr. Qian Zhongshu would always say: "I did something bad."

The first time he knocked over the ink bottle and dyed the tablecloth black. Mr. Yang Jiang said to him: "It doesn't matter, I can wash it." But Mr. Qian Zhongshu said: "Ink." Mr. Yang Jiang replied: "Ink can also be washed."

The second time It was the desk lamp that was smashed. Mr. Yang Jiang asked him: "What kind of lamp is it?" Then he said to him: "It doesn't matter, I will replace it."

The third time the door shaft was broken. After Mr. Yang Jiang asked him clearly again, he said to him: "It doesn't matter, I can fix it."

Every time his wife said "It doesn't matter", Mr. Qian Zhongshu went back with confidence, because He trusts his wife unconditionally.

Of course, not all wives in the world will do these things, but most women will be men's "good wives" after they get married. She can do laundry, cook, wash dishes, clean, and take care of her family.

Apart from my parents, only my wife can do it.

03

"My wife is a sharp-tongued woman with a soft heart."

Once it was almost 12 o'clock, and I heard a "clanging" sound in the kitchen.

When I got up and took a look, it turned out to be my mother fucking me there.

What is she doing in the middle of the night? In order not to let her find out that I was not sleeping yet, I secretly hid by the door of the room and waited for her to come out.

After waiting for about ten minutes, I saw her going upstairs carrying a plate, a bowl, and a pair of chopsticks.

The next day, my father took the initiative to tell me, "Don't look at your mother who always advises me to lose weight. She even got me something to eat last night."

Seeing his frustrated look, I just smiled and said nothing.

Although many people say that after marrying a wife, there is a nagging woman in the family, which makes them upset.

But when something goes wrong, most wives nag only in words, but in action they dote on their husbands in every possible way.

04

"We really can't live anymore"

After my wife gave birth to the child, we had big problems.

Maybe my wife was suffering from postpartum depression at that time, and she became blind to everything.

It is best that no one bothers her, otherwise she will "hack" you to death...

Living together in those six months was really hard.

This is the emotional experience Zhang Yuan and his wife revealed on Aya’s talk show.

In fact, after having a wife, you may not always live happily. Because no matter how loving a couple is, they will encounter all kinds of troubles in their lives.

Just like a popular saying before: "In this world, even the happiest marriage will have 200 thoughts of divorce and 50 thoughts of strangling each other to death in a lifetime." "

But no marriage in this world is perfect. It is because of flaws that two people need to cherish each other better.

05

"As someone who doesn't even have a girlfriend, you ask me such a profound question, I..."

There is a question on Zhihu The question is: "How good is your wife to you?"

If you look at the answer, it is really cruel to a single woman.

But there are also some dogs who still use their imagination to answer. For example:

"I am afraid of delaying my studies and wasting my energy, so I have been guarding me silently and not showing up."

"In order not to put more financial pressure on me, I still She didn't come to me."

"She never showed up, knowing that I couldn't afford it. However, she still didn't show up in the past two years. I’m really convinced, hum!”

“She is the teacher, you know.”

Only single people can understand the amount of envy and helplessness hidden behind these words. .

Although being single can cause a lot of "emptiness, loneliness and coldness", it also gives a person full freedom.

Just like a friend I know doesn’t have a girlfriend now, but he has more time to do the things he likes.

Compared with those men who encounter various troublesome incidents such as unreasonable troubles from their girlfriends, "deadly serial" text messages and phone calls, single men are much luckier.

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According to a survey report on marriage and love status, 63% of singles spend more than 10 hours alone on their holidays, and 31.7% of them spend more than 10 hours alone on their holidays.

Usually the activities of choice for these men are staying at home surfing the Internet and sleeping. Most of the men who have a partner just date and talk on the phone. If they start a family, they also have children with their wives...

Whether there is one more person or one less person, getting married Some changes will occur in our lives before or after marriage. Maybe now you have stopped buying clothes a few times a year and have become more and more image-conscious. Maybe now you have become more and more cheerful from being autistic in the past, and maybe you have become more and more skilled. ..

Of course, it may turn into the same situation

But if you encounter the above situation, don’t give up on yourself.

Even if no one illuminates us, we must still be our own little sun.

Because one day, someone like him will definitely appear, like the refreshing wind in the mountains, like the warm light of the ancient city. From early morning to night, from the mountains to the study, as long as it's him in the end, that's fine.