"My mother is going to travel, so go back to her mother's house to have a confinement." "Yes, let's get a divorce first." what do you think?

Some people say that women have a hard life, not only to take care of their husbands and in-laws, but also to have children. In real life, many daughters-in-law have conflicts with their mother-in-law during confinement. This contradiction is not easy to solve. Why do you say that? If women are not taken good care of during confinement, they will lag behind the root cause of the disease and it will be difficult to eradicate it.

Some mother-in-law complained that her daughter-in-law was difficult to serve when she was confined, and some daughter-in-law complained that her mother-in-law was not careful enough about herself when she was confined, so there was a contradiction between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law. Why should mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be embarrassed each other in the most important period of women?

My name is Huanhuan, a very ordinary rural girl with poor family conditions. I don't have to go out to work in high school. In the fifth year of working in the city, I met my husband Xiaojun, who is just a small clerk and just graduated from college for one year. Speaking of which, our meeting is quite predestined.

I remember that summer, I came home from work and was caught in a rainstorm. I had to take shelter from the rain at the bus stop. It happened that Xiaojun was also waiting for the bus there. He accidentally saw that I didn't bring my umbrella and gave it to me before getting on the bus. To my surprise, I met him again at the bus stop the next day. I took the initiative to ask for his contact information and invited him to dinner to express my gratitude. Later, with the increase of contact, we gradually became familiar with each other. We often go out for a walk and watch movies on weekends. After getting along for half a year, we fell in love.

Our love was opposed by her mother-in-law, because Xiaojun is a college student, and I am not only a high school student, but also a rural girl. My mother-in-law thought I joined Xiaojun and forced Xiaojun to break up with me. Fortunately, Xiaojun finally married me regardless of her mother-in-law's pressure.

Although we are married, my mother-in-law wants to accept me as a rural daughter-in-law, but my mother-in-law has a lot of complaints about me and thinks that I have confused her son. Every time we go to her mother-in-law's house, her mother-in-law always gives me a cold face.

Two years after marriage, we bought a house with a loan, and I paid the down payment, because before we bought a house, my mother-in-law was seriously ill, and Xiaojun's savings were almost used to treat her, so I took out all my savings and bought a house, and my parents paid about 80 thousand for the house decoration.

Although I finally have my own house, I am under great pressure. In addition to paying the mortgage every month, I have to give my mother-in-law living expenses, but my husband and I will get along well with each other slowly with our efforts.

A while ago, I gave birth to a daughter. My mother-in-law became more interested in me when she learned that I didn't have a boy. She took one look at her daughter in the hospital and left. I was discharged from the hospital and went home for confinement. Xiaojun is on a business trip He wanted his mother-in-law to take care of my confinement, and she agreed in front of Xiaojun. I didn't expect her mother-in-law to change her mind just after Xiaojun left.

As soon as Xiaojun arrived in the field that day, her mother-in-law solemnly said to me, "daughter-in-law, I'm going to travel." Go back to your mother's house for confinement. Recently, I signed up for a tour group. Now it is also the off-season and the price is cheap. I think your mother is free at home, too. Why don't you go back to your home for confinement! "

I didn't expect my mother-in-law to be in the mood to travel when I was confined. Such a mother-in-law is really wonderful.

I said coldly, "mom, if you want to travel, go ahead." Don't come back after the trip! " ! You are not welcome in our family. I tell you, I paid for this house. When you have someone to take care of you, I will treat you as you do now! "

Later, I called my mother and asked her to take care of my confinement. I don't want to know if my mother-in-law is traveling. All I know is that she is old and I won't take care of her.

Comments: Huanhuan married and bought a house to catch up with her mother-in-law's serious illness. In order to buy a house, Huanhuan made a down payment with her family, which also shows that Huanhuan is really living.

Huanhuan gave birth to a daughter, but her mother-in-law didn't like it and wanted to travel. Such a mother-in-law is really inhuman. When she is old, she will treat her daughter-in-law like this. When she is old, the daughter-in-law will certainly treat her like this. Why can't my mother-in-law understand such a simple truth?