How to observe a person

To observe a person, you must grasp this order: from bottom to top. That means, first, start with his shoes. Some people may ask: Why not start observing from his face? In fact, once we observe a person's face from the beginning, we will easily evaluate the person subjectively, and thus affect or ignore a lot of things. Important information about this person. This can be avoided by looking at your feet.

First of all, observe his shoes. If the shoes are dirty and it has not rained recently, it means that this person does not care much about living hygiene. At the same time, it can also be inferred that this person is not rigorous in life. One can even make the assumption that maybe his character is like this. Then look at his pants, then his clothes, and finally his face. If there are some wrinkles or stains on the clothes, it can prove that part of the above conclusion is correct. At the same time, the accessories on a person are also the main basis for identifying that person. Sometimes remembering something more personal, such as earrings, necklaces, and rings on a person, often becomes the key to identifying that person. (See observation details)

Next, you can observe the person’s physique, such as the thickness of the arm muscles, height and shape, etc. The accessories he wears are also key information, such as earrings, purple necklaces, silver watches, etc. Sometimes accessories are also an important basis for identifying a person.

After searching for all kinds of information, you can make a comprehensive and general evaluation of this person.

How to identify a person’s occupation

First of all, let’s use an analogy. The common characteristics of migrant workers are: generally strong physique, dark skin, ragged clothes, and don’t care much. Clothes and a series of details. If you see such a person on the street, you will be able to tell immediately that he is a migrant worker.

For example: a person who often uses computers will have calluses at the base of his right palm because he often uses the mouse;

If he works in a bank, , the calluses between the thumb and index finger of his hand are relatively thick;

If he is a driver, then the calluses on the part of his hand that often holds the steering wheel are particularly thick;

If it is a doctor who gives injections, there will be calluses on his thumb, index finger, and middle finger, because the doctor needs to use three fingers to hold the injection. This is the general habit of injection doctors;

If he is a soldier, he must have a stronger physique, darker skin, eat quickly, have a straight back, a stubborn or even rigid temper, and his whole person exudes a certain atmosphere. This kind of special temperament can only be mastered slowly through the observation of soldiers. It is difficult to master this special temperament without observation.

The best way to know the occupation of a person without asking the person involved is to know the characteristics of many occupations, and to be able to memorize them and use them freely. If not, you can infer the scope of his occupation based on the information he reveals when speaking, which requires a certain amount of association ability.

How to train observation skills

To train observation skills, you should start from the things around you, the environment you are in, and the characteristics of people. For example: the position of the table at your home has changed slightly, one of your new friends has double eyelids, there are a little less cars on the road today than before (from this you can deduce why there are less and what happened), we met at the restaurant A stranger is left-handed, the expressions of the people around you, the way they dress...etc.

Observation is a careful act, rather than just "looking" casually. Observing a staircase, you can calculate its series and height. Just by looking at it, you may just remember: it is a staircase.

When first practicing observation, it is best to develop conscious observation. For an ordinary and impermanent thing, you should deliberately observe its characteristics in detail and pay attention to the places that are difficult for ordinary people to discover. Furthermore, comparison is also a good way to train observation skills. For example: what are the changes in the dust on the windows today and yesterday, changes in the stock market and speculation on its future trends. Observation should not only observe the inner essence, but also focus on discovering changes in things.

In short, if you have an observation mind and put it into practice, over time, you can train your subconscious observation ability, that is, you will habitually observe everything. This is a good habit.

(This aspect is not comprehensive enough, please forgive me.)

Characteristics of some professions

The so-called characteristics that some professions may have are mainly Including: habitual clothing, habitual movements, physical characteristics, etc.

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* Chef: The skin on the face is poor and the complexion is not good; the body is slightly fat; the hair and face are greasy; the left hand is larger than the right hand (because most chefs are right-handed, the right hand has high flexibility, So hold the spatula in your right hand and the pot in your left hand); there may be small burn marks on the arms and back of the hands; there may be a smell of oil smoke on the body.

* Receptionist (the situation in China is unclear and more complicated. In some busier areas abroad, they are mainly external receptionists in government departments or the tourism industry): Have a habit of biting nails, buttocks facing each other. Be more lenient.

*Old-style train driver: The sole of the right foot will wear much more than the left foot, and the facial skin will be poor.

* Taxi drivers: Taxi drivers who have been working for many years generally have varying degrees of gastric and spinal problems.

＊Freight truck driver: The spinal disease is more prominent; the hips are relatively wide; the body shape will have varying degrees of obesity depending on the place; the skin on the face is not good; there are calluses on the inside of the thumb and index finger on the hand.

＊Surgeon: There is a diagonal mark on the inside of the upper part of the index finger (one theory is that it is because of the frequent use of surgical sutures)

＊Carpenter: When smoking, he holds the cigarette in his mouth for a long time Habits on the mouth

＊Civilian workers who often use pens: protrusions on the index finger and middle finger joints

＊Soldiers: Generally speaking, they eat quickly, walk quickly, and are more introverted and unkind. Speech, with a tendency to be submissive.

* When shaking hands, if you feel that the other person's fingers are particularly long and strong, it means that he may have considerable artistic talents, such as good calligraphy, painting, playing the piano, etc.

*Athletes: Swimmers have extremely wide shoulders, their upper bodies are basically in the shape of an inverted triangle, and their bodies are well-proportioned; while those who play Australian rules football have less wide shoulders and more well-proportioned bodies; those who play football have legs The upper muscles are particularly developed, the eyesight is good, and the sense of space is very good; gymnasts are basically not very tall, and their bodies are extremely toned; divers are generally not tall and have good jumping ability; table tennis players are a little hunched, Good eyesight; tennis player, strong arms, good physical strength, big chest.

*Artists: If you play musical instruments, use thicker fingers to play plucked instruments, such as guzheng, harp, harp, etc., because some music requires a certain amount of strength, slender fingers, and wide span to play (especially (Thumb and index finger) play keyboard instruments; as for people who play string instruments, such as erhu, large and medium-sized violins, the index finger, middle finger and ring finger of the left hand will have calluses, which are rubbed out on the strings; for people who play violin, he The head may be slightly tilted to the left because it has to clamp the piano body.

Observation is very important for a person. Keen observation can enable us to avoid being confused by superficial phenomena and truly see the essence of things and changing trends. Observation can make a person more wise and cautious, and discover things that many people cannot.

Five ways to practice your observation skills

1. Look quietly - see clearly at a glance

1. Find something in your room or outside, such as A table, a fountain pen, a desk lamp, a chair or a flower or a plant, about 60 cm away, look straight ahead, blink naturally, and focus on this object. Count 60 to 90 times silently, that is, 1 to 15 minutes. While counting silently, you should concentrate and observe carefully. Close your eyes and try to picture the object in your mind, describing it in as much detail as possible, preferably using words to describe its features. Then read it over again and add it if there are any mistakes.

2. After you become proficient in training, gradually move to more complex objects, observe the characteristics of the things around you, and then close your eyes and recall. Repeat several times until every detail is seen. You can observe the horizon, the color of clothes, the shape of plants, people's postures and movements, the shape and color of clouds in the sky, etc. The key point of observation is to constantly change the focus of your eyes and remember as many characteristics of different parts of the complete object as possible. The more you remember, the better. After each analysis exercise, close your eyes and observe comprehensively with your mind's eyes, then open your eyes, correct your mind's impressions against the real object, and then close and open them again until they are exactly the same. You can also focus on a shape or color in a certain environment and try to find it elsewhere around you.

3. It is recommended that you observe famous paintings later. It is necessary to compare Bai Ji's description with the original object, and strive to make the description subtle and detailed. When practicing with famous paintings, you should stimulate your emotions through image thinking, generate interest from feelings, and rise from interest to mood.

In this way, not only can observation and attention be improved, but also memory and creativity can be improved. Because in the process of making a new mental image, you absorb and use a lot of clear visual information and store it in your brain.

2. Walking sight - looking while walking

Walk through your room, classroom, office at a moderate speed, or walk around the room, quickly paying attention to as many things as possible object. Think back and describe what you saw in as much detail as possible. It is best to write it down and then compare and supplement it.

In daily life, eyes see like lightning. You can look at the object in front of you in the blink of an eye, that is, between 01 and 04 seconds, and then recall its type and location; look at the license plate of a car speeding on the road, and then recall its letters and numbers; look at an unfamiliar face, and then Recall their characteristics; look at the trees and buildings on the roadside, and then recall their number and layers; look at the billboards, and then recall their images and words. The so-called "bright mind and bright eyes" can not only effectively exercise the sensitivity of vision and the strong concentration of vision and brain in an instant, but also make you smarter from the inside out.

3. Throwing - Heavenly Lady Scattering Flowers

Take 25 to 30 medium-sized colored balls, or building blocks, checkers, among which red, yellow, white or other Each color accounts for one-third. Mix them together completely and place in a basin. Quickly grab two handfuls with both hands, then let them go and let them roll down from your hands to the sofa, bed, table, or floor at the same time. When they all fall, take a quick look at the fallen objects, then turn away and write down the number of each color from memory rather than guessing. Check if it is correct.

Repeat this exercise for 10 days and see your progress on the 10th day.

4. Quick vision - sparse but not missing

Take 50 7 cm square pieces of paper, write a Chinese character or letter on each piece of paper, the handwriting should be Be clear and neat, with the side with the writing facing down. Playing cards can also be used. Take out 10 sheets, make them face up with your eyes closed, and spread them as far as possible on the table. Now open your eyes and take a very brief look at them. Then turn around and write down what you see from your memory. Then, repeat this exercise with another 10 pieces of paper. Practice this three times a day for 10 days. Notice how much progress you've made on Day 10.

5. Unified vision - panoramic view

Open your eyes wide, but not so much that it makes you feel uncomfortable. Concentrate completely, look straight ahead, and observe all objects in your field of vision, but your eyes cannot move even a little. After holding on for 10 seconds, recall what you saw. Use your memory to write down the names of the objects you can recall. Do not rely on your existing information and guesses to make records. Repeat for 10 days, changing the observation position and field of view every day.

See your progress on Day 10