The child is too young to travel with him? That's because you don't understand the true meaning of parent-child travel.

I took my children to Yunnan a few days ago, which was a farewell trip. A friend asked, it is tiring and worry-free to take the children out to travel. Why not wait until he grows up?

Yes, taking children out is definitely a chore. In addition to worrying about children getting lost, getting sick, or having various situations, they will also face the problem that children are too young to remember anything, which is beyond question.

Is being young really an obstacle to parent-child travel? Not necessarily.

It is too narrow to measure the meaning of parent-child travel only by what children can remember. Because traveling with children is of great significance:

? ? On the way to growing up

1. broaden your horizons and see the world.

Under the influence of the sentence "Life is not just the present, but also poetry and distance", Gao He's sister is always drifting.

Gao once said: If my money is only enough to travel or buy a house, then I will travel. Because only travel can broaden our horizons and broaden our minds, so that we will not be trapped by what is in front of us.

There was a news report that a seven-or eight-year-old boy was addicted to online games all the year round. My father, with anxious eyes, snatched his mobile phone in an argument. The child didn't hold back and turned and jumped off the building. A mobile phone, a video game, will firmly trap a child, what about vision, what about the world?

Traveling is completely different. Children can get in touch with people and things that they can't get in touch with at ordinary times and learn about different customs and habits. Freshness will make them full of curiosity and desire to explore life, and their vision will never be narrow enough to jump off a building for a mobile phone.

2. Exercise children's courage

The Best Education on the Road tells the story of the author Park Sang-e's 80-day trip through 30 cities in 5 countries with her seven-year-old daughter. During the trip, my daughter accidentally got lost, and Park Sun-e was so anxious that she searched carefully on every floor of the mall. Just when she was in a hurry, her daughter stood in front of her, holding the hand of a strange uncle.

Park Shan 'e recalled that this was unimaginable before, because her daughter was always shy. However, after the trip, her daughter's growth surprised and surprised her.

3. tap children's potential

For example: the concept of planning. Before going out, I borrowed some books about Yunnan travel and invited my boss to make a travel plan with me. My friend was very surprised to learn that the child was so young that he could make plans.

No one is born to do everything; There are also many people who are not young, but they can't do anything.

It is much more efficient to let children know the local customs and general itinerary first and ask him what he is interested in and wants to see than to make a "perfect" itinerary plan for adults.

Because interest is the best teacher, it will lead children closer to and better understand your destination.

4. Exercise children's independence.

Our first stop in Dali is Erhai Park. At that time, we really thought it was just an ordinary park, so we just dragged the box away.

However, when we saw the long and steep steps, our legs trembled. I was going to put the box down before I went back to pick up the children when I went down the mountain, but I didn't expect him to bravely hold the steps one by one. Although it was slow, he finally did it.

In addition, letting the child carry a small bag and let him choose what he wants to use that day can also exercise his independence well.

Similarly, the meaning of travel is the same. Every scenery a child walks through and everything he encounters will be integrated into his growth and become the cornerstone of the future.

Some people say that there are too many things to pay attention to when taking children out for a trip, which is a headache. In fact, parent-child travel is not as complicated as expected.

Knowing the following four points, you can leave easily:

? Matters needing attention in parent-child travel

1, trial and error peak tour.

Traveling at the wrong peak means getting a higher quality trip with less money. For example, the price of the Lugu Lake view room we stayed in this time is only1/3 in the peak season; Only air tickets and accommodation saved thousands.

Off-season, few people. No one crowded and lined up, we had a good time, and it was a real slow-time trip.

? 2. You don't need famous scenic spots. Try to choose an easy route.

When traveling with children, try to choose an easier route. Children's physical strength and interest are limited. A tour that is too tight and boring will make children feel tired and then they will not cooperate.

Children may not be interested in famous scenic spots, but this will not affect their fun at all. Because children are always good at finding bright spots from ordinary things and scenery and leaving good memories.

So parent-child travel, the easy route is good.

If possible, choose a suitable travel partner to go with you.

With a familiar partner, children will feel less strange when traveling. Moreover, two children can play by themselves and supervise each other every day, which will make adults relax a lot.

Moreover, with good friends, children can be more open, and they can discuss things with two people, which will increase their courage.

4, ready to commonly used drugs

When parents and children travel, the biggest worry is that their children are sick, so commonly used drugs must be prepared, such as band-AIDS, antipyretics, cold medicines, etc., just in case.

I just want to say: the world is so big, I want to take my children to see it more.

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Auntie: a horse who loves writing and life and shares scientific parenting and parent-child feelings.