"Daughter-in-law, please rest assured during confinement, I am going on a trip." Is this appropriate for my mother-in-law?

The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been an eternal problem. Even in the 21st century, there is still no clear solution.

As the saying goes, every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite. Whenever a daughter-in-law lives with her mother-in-law, conflicts will inevitably arise. After all, women in these two generations are different in all aspects. Living under the same roof, it is really difficult to live in harmony.

But even so, in real life there are many relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who get along very harmoniously. If mother-in-law and daughter-in-law want to live harmoniously, there is only one secret, and that is to think about each other.

As the saying goes, it takes ten years to look after the mother-in-law, and ten years to look after the daughter-in-law. As long as the mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law as a family member, the mother-in-law, grandma, and daughter-in-law will naturally be willing to contribute their part.

Luo Miao is 26 years old this year and has been married to her husband for two years. She just gave birth to a son not long ago. It is naturally a happy event to have a new member in the family, but this happy event also brings a certain sadness, because There was no one to take care of Luo Miao during her confinement period.

Luo Miao is a career woman. When she was pregnant, she was always busy at work and did not stop until she took maternity leave. Other women gave birth to their children with their whole family accompanying them, but Luo Miao only had her husband by her side. .

After 8 hours of giving birth, she finally saw her son. At that moment, she felt that she was the happiest person in the world. Her parents-in-law also rushed over later. They were very happy to see her grandson. But he didn't stay long and left the hospital the same day.

After returning home from the hospital, Luo Miao thought about asking her mother-in-law to take care of her during confinement, but before she could speak, her mother-in-law spoke. She said to Luo Miao: "Daughter-in-law, you can rest assured while I am going on a trip."

The mother-in-law's words made Luo Miao very angry. Her mother-in-law did not take care of her when she was pregnant. Now she After giving birth to a child and needing confinement, my mother-in-law actually chose to travel at this juncture. What kind of thing is this?

If it weren’t for marrying far away, she would have called her mother over to take care of her, but now that her mother is thousands of miles away, she can only rely on her mother-in-law.

Faced with her mother-in-law's attitude, Luo Miao was very angry. She said to her mother-in-law rudely: "If you want to travel, I won't stop you, but when you get old and need my care in the future, I also want to travel. This is what you taught me!"

My mother-in-law did not expect Luo Miao to say such a thing. She was stunned for a while and then said with a smile: "I was joking with you. Two days ago, Sister Zhang signed up for a tour group for me and wanted me to go out with her for two days. Since you are in confinement now, I will stay and take care of you."

Luo Miao. Without saying much, she told herself that she would treat her mother-in-law how she treated her. She didn't owe others anything, but she would never let others owe her anything.

The main reason why many mothers-in-law cannot get along with their daughters-in-law is that they simply do not treat their daughters-in-law as their own family members. In the eyes of the mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law is just a successor to the family line. Just a tool.

When their daughters-in-law needed them most, they did not give them corresponding care and help. Then when they were old and frail and needed their daughter-in-law's care, their daughters-in-law were naturally not willing to stay by their side.

From a legal perspective, there is not much relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law has no inheritance rights in her husband’s family and has no obligation to support. Therefore, if the mother-in-law wants to have a filial daughter-in-law, You have to be a kind mother-in-law first.

People are mutual, especially between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When two women who are not related by blood come together, they should care for each other and establish family ties, so as to achieve harmony*** The ending.