No matter how good the relationship between men and women is, once there is any move, it means that it has "crossed the border".

1. Two people eat the same thing. A boy in Zhihu asked a question: "A girl often eats the same thing as me. For example, two people will eat an ice cream together, two people will eat a bowl of rice together and two people will drink a bottle of water. But are we lovers? I don't know what our relationship is? " In fact, sometimes if you eat the same thing as one person, and you are a man and the other is a woman, it means that your relationship is not so pure. It is quite possible that if we were just friends, we would have crossed the line. If two people eat the same thing occasionally, it will probably be better, but if you do this often, it will make others and you a little embarrassed, and sometimes it will make two people entangled and unable to say clearly what to say.

Most people in this world are like this. If you eat with one person at the same time, you are actually thinking about the other person who is pursuing perfection. If you don't have this idea, then this practice must be discouraged in time. In real life, if a man pursues a woman's perfection, he is likely to buy her a delicious but big thing. At this time, women will eat leftovers, so men will say that he helps women eat. This kind of behavior can enhance the relationship between two people, which is a common way for many playboys. It seems that if you don't dislike each other, you are scrimping, but it is premeditated.

2. Evaluate each other's love. No matter how good the relationship between men and women is, don't judge each other's love casually. These people who casually evaluate each other's feelings sometimes have ulterior motives. I have a friend who has a good relationship with a male friend. Both of them work in the same company, sometimes they help each other, and sometimes they invite each other to dinner at home, so they are very familiar. After that, this friend's love had a little problem, and her husband clamored for a divorce. At this time, this friend's male friend made suggestions for his friend. This male friend meant well and hoped that the two of them could live a good life, but this idea was known by the husband of the best friend, so it actually helped, and the two really came to the point of divorce.

So sometimes in love, if you already have a husband or your own lover, you must keep a certain distance when you are in contact with others, and you must not let others comment on your love life. If someone all girls like you, or all boys like you, this is fine, but if you are a man or a woman, there are still some taboos. Therefore, in daily life, we should still distance ourselves from the opposite sex. You can talk to each other, but don't talk to girls about your's love life. If you are clear, it may cause more harm to your future love, and your other half will have some guesses.

It is also a particularly sensitive topic to ask the opposite sex to be together at night. A few years ago, when Hawick Lau was acting, he stayed in a room with an actress for one night. After the news came out, it caused a heated discussion and boarded the hot search list. At this time, Yang Mi also wrote: "I firmly believe in Kaiwei." Two years later, it seems that everyone is about to forget this matter, but Hawick Lau and Yang Mi have embarked on the road of divorce, and have officially announced their divorce. So sometimes, no matter how good the opposite sex relationship is, don't spend the night in the same room, which will leave me an excuse. Sometimes, it's really troublesome for you to be in the same room with the opposite sex, and some improper means may happen because of the temporary chaos. In this case, it's really out of line.

And sometimes there is no one in the room to supervise, so even if you two have done nothing, it is equally helpless to deal with other people's doubts at this time. So don't disturb yourself and the people around you, and don't hurt the people around you and the opposite sex. Stay together, or be cautious, think twice before you act.