Men don't marry women, is this "double-headed marriage" in Jiangsu and Zhejiang reliable?

This kind of "double-headed marriage" is only a helpless choice in some areas, and most of the people who choose double-headed marriage are only children. Although there are many benefits, it is not suitable for large-scale promotion, and "second marriage" is still not very reliable for normal families.

First, although there is no bride price and dowry, the intimacy between husband and wife is not high. This kind of double-headed marriage is neither the woman's usual marriage nor the man's adoption, but the husband and wife will live in different families after marriage. After giving birth to a child, the first child takes the father's surname and the second child takes the mother's surname, which means that there will be only children in the family who can carry on the family line.

In this case, it seems better. Both sides basically don't have to work too hard, and they all have children. However, there will always be many things beyond the theory in the actual situation. For example, it is difficult for children to have complete "parental care" when they grow up, which is not conducive to cultivating intimate relationships between husband and wife and is more likely to divorce.

Moreover, if two people get married, the balance between the two families needs to be maintained more carefully, and one of them will be psychologically unbalanced. For example, if a man lives in a woman's house longer, he will feel adopted by his wife. If the woman is going to visit the grave, it is not appropriate for the man to go or not.

Second, the double-headed marriage is unstable. In the future, the number of people who choose double-headed marriage will gradually decrease. Most of them are only children, and the only child is only a specific product of an era. Double-headed marriage is also a new form of marriage based on this. In the future, the situation of the only child will decrease, and the number of second marriages associated with it will also decrease.

After all, if the woman is allowed to get married and have two children, if the first child is a girl and the second child is a boy, then the psychology of the man's family will definitely be unbalanced and the contradictions will intensify. In this case, it is easy to get divorced. In addition, it may be difficult for some girls to have a second child, which is actually a burden for girls.

In addition, according to the facts, the surnames of two married couples are confused, so it is not easy for children to distinguish between relatives and intergenerational relations. There will also be a certain gap between brothers and sisters with different surnames at home, and it is more difficult for the older generation to be equal with their children.

Finally: My personal choice is to lack everything, and I will not choose this form of marriage. If I can't meet my lover, I might as well be single.