Will a woman who marries first and then marries (who is pregnant before marriage) be happy?

In today's relatively open era, couples living together before marriage abound, and it is normal for many women to "get on the bus first and then make up the ticket". It seems that everyone is no longer surprised because it is a very common thing. When asked in the street, many couples get pregnant before getting married.

So, are unmarried pregnant women happy? Listen to the experience of a person who has experienced it, and every sentence is from the heart.

Netizen 1: My sister was pregnant before marriage, and the bride price was only 10,000. Our family also posted 30,000 to 40,000. Up to now, the baby is two years old, and my sister-in-law gave the baby a bath basin of 30 yuan. From before marriage to now, except for 1 10,000 bride price and 30 yuan's bathtub, all of them are gone, and even the expenses for birth check-ups and babies are paid by themselves. Her husband is like an ordinary relative except that he doesn't cheat.

Netizen 2: I was pregnant before marriage, and now I will get married in more than ten days. My boyfriend is angry with me now, saying that he doesn't love me as much as before, and it doesn't matter whether he gets married or not. If he does, he will do whatever he needs to do. If he doesn't want it, he also said that the bride price is enough to go to the hospital to beat the children. I don't know what to do now, nor can I tell my parents. I feel so sad.

Netizen 3: I have a friend who is chatting with his boyfriend. It turns out that the man's parents promised to buy a house. Later, because my friend was pregnant, I stopped talking about the house at all. Now the child is over one year old, and friends take it with them. The man works in a different place, divorces every day, and getting pregnant before marriage can really see the family clearly.

After reading the experience of netizens, I feel that everyone is unhappy, but not everyone who is pregnant before marriage has a bad life, but they are also happy. There is nothing wrong with cohabitation or pregnancy before marriage. When the relationship develops to a certain stage, there will definitely be something, but as a girl, you should learn to protect yourself and learn to judge whether this person is worth it. Some people say: "A good man won't let a girl get pregnant before marriage; Good girls don't put themselves in a passive position. " Do you agree?