He Jing: After experiencing two deep-seated love affairs, you sold your house to pay off your ex-husband’s debts. How is your life now?

In the 1990s, He Jing was a well-known popular singer, singing "To the North", "Like You", "The Moon Is Crying", "Home", "Torch" and "Gelsang Flowers in the Sky" and many other popular songs, leaving fans with the deepest memories.

He Jing had two failed marriages. After divorcing her second ex-husband, Zhu Xiaodong, she sold her house to pay off his debts. Now more than ten years have passed, what is He Jing's life situation like?

He Jing was born in Beijing in 1973. Her father is an electronic engineer and she has a younger sister. In 1988, He Jing, who had a good voice, was admitted to the advanced training class of the China Conservatory of Music and joined the performance team of the Beijing Working People's Cultural Palace. At the age of 16, she performed at the Capital Stadium.

After graduating from high school, He Jing was admitted to the Japanese language major of Beijing Yuetan Tourism College. After graduation, she originally wanted to work as a tour guide in a travel agency, but because she loved singing, she chose to be a singer.

At this time, she met the famous musician Gao Dalin. He was 11 years older than He Jing. He worked in the Central Orchestra and was a famous young composer. He Jing and Gao Dalin got married in a flash marriage in Beijing after knowing each other for 3 months. He Jing had just turned 18 at that time

Due to the lack of understanding before marriage and the differences in personality and age, in June 1991, He Jing and Gao Dalin Divorce procedures were completed. Gao Dalin was He Jing's first love. She was devoted and persistent in love, but because she was too young and didn't understand love, her marriage disintegrated.

After the divorce, He Jing always fantasized about Gao Dalin looking for her again. However, her fantasy was quickly shattered by the cruel reality. In December 1992, Gao Dalin remarried in Beijing to Taiwan's popular singer Qian Baihui.

The remarriage of her ex-husband brought huge trauma to He Jing. She lived in the shadow of divorce for many years before she finally came out with difficulty. After all, they had loved each other before. He Jing never said anything about her right and wrong with Gao Dalin in front of outsiders, let alone said a word about the other party.

In 1993, He Jing became popular across the country for singing "To the North". Two years later, her song "Like You" won the silver medal in the CCTV MTV competition. In the same year, He Jing participated in China's top ten provincial and municipal singer competitions and won the championship in one fell swoop.

In 1996, He Jing appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and released her solo album "Homeland". Due to her huge influence, He Jing was also invited to star in the Taiwanese TV series "Sister-in-law Zhan Dian" and sang the theme song "Ladies Street" for the Japanese movie "Shibuya 24", which has a huge influence in the Chinese world.

Just when He Jing became famous, she met businessman Zhu Xiaodong under the introduction of a friend. He is from Jilin, and he was also a singer before. He sang "Prison Song" and "Tears Behind Bars", and later went into business.

Zhu Xiaodong was enthusiastic, generous and generous. As soon as He Jing went out to perform, he put a sum of money in He Jing's bag for her to spend as pocket money. He Jing's parents and sister thought Zhu Xiaodong was a good person and supported He Jing's love affair with him.

In 1996, He Jing and Zhu Xiaodong established a romantic relationship. During the relationship, He Jing discovered that the other party had a somewhat paranoid personality and had severe mood swings, so she proposed to break up. Zhu Xiaodong firmly disagreed. He Jing stuffed hundreds of sleeping pills into her mouth. Zhu Xiaodong opened He Jing's mouth, took out the sleeping pills piece by piece, and then stuffed them into his own mouth to eat.

As a result, Zhu Xiaodong fell to the ground foaming at the mouth, and He Jing called 120 for emergency help. After first aid, Zhu Xiaodong was saved. After experiencing this twists and turns, He Jing decided to break up with Zhu Xiaodong.

After that, Zhu Xiaodong went to Shenzhen to develop, and He Jing completely lost contact with him. Unexpectedly, in 1998, a friend invited He Jing to dinner, and she unexpectedly met Zhu Xiaodong at the dinner party.

Later, He Jing found out that Zhu Xiaodong had entrusted a friend to invite this meal, just to meet He Jing. Zhu Xiaodong told He Jing that he could not forget her and had not found a girlfriend for two years. He Jing still finds it difficult to accept the other party.

Soon He Jing was recording in the studio, and Zhu Xiaodong drove to see her. As a result, he was robbed by four gangsters, and Zhu Xiaodong was stabbed in the leg more than 10 times. He lost 1,700cc of blood and was extremely thin. He Jing was finally moved by Zhu Xiaodong's sincerity and infatuation and accepted his feelings.

In 2001, He Jing released the album "The Moon Is Secretly Crying", and its title song "The Moon Is Secretly Crying" became very popular. On October 1 this year, He Jing and Zhu Xiaodong held their wedding in Beijing.

In 2003, He Jing gave birth to her daughter He Yanlin in Beijing. After becoming a mother, He Jing gave up her flourishing singing career and stayed at home to raise her husband and children. After their marriage, He Jing and Zhu Xiaodong had a peaceful and happy time.

However, just over a year after their marriage, their marriage was in a state of decline. It turned out that the villa they lived in was rented by Zhu Xiaodong, and the decoration cost of more than 1 million was paid by He Jing. Zhu Xiaodong's deception left a shadow in He Jing's heart.

Zhu Xiaodong has a paranoid and suspicious personality and is very unsure of himself in marriage.

He restricted He Jing from going out. As soon as He Jing received a call from a male friend, he would secretly look through He Jing's phone book, then call back and warn the other party: "He Jing is my wife, don't contact her again. Otherwise I will be rude to you."

For the sake of family harmony, He Jing suppressed her anger in her heart. Not only that, Zhu Xiaodong also regarded He Jing as a business card in his business. When he went out to discuss business, he always took He Jing with him and said, "This is my wife, the popular singer He Jing." Invisibly, this increased This gave Zhu Xiaodong a bargaining chip for successful negotiations.

Some partners originally asked Zhu Xiaodong to sign, but in order to avoid future risks, they asked He Jing to also sign, which created hidden dangers for her future life.

In 2006, He Jing was making calls at home and found that there was always a lot of interference from her cell phone. She looked around the house and found that Zhu Xiaodong had placed a bug under the bed, and He Jing's every move was under his control.

He Jing felt that her husband had a psychological problem, so she specially invited a psychologist to come to her home to provide psychological counseling to Zhu Xiaodong, but it had no effect.

In fact, Zhu Xiaodong does not have any real property and is often anxious about money. In the name of He Jing, he went around to borrow money from He Jing's natal family. He Jing's sister owned a house. Zhu Xiaodong said that funds were tight and asked her to take the property certificate to the bank as a mortgage.

In the end, because He Jing's sister could not repay the bank loan, her house worth more than 1 million yuan was auctioned by the bank at a low price of more than 200,000 yuan. In this case, relatives and friends asked Zhu Xiaodong to repay the debt. Zhu Xiaodong couldn't afford it, so his relatives and friends asked He Jing. This made He Jing lose her dignity and fall into entanglement and pain.

Despite Zhu Xiaodong's bad record, He Jing worked hard to maintain this precarious family for the sake of her daughter. However, in 2008, Zhu Xiaodong was controlled by the police for defrauding 47 million yuan. He Jing was also at home that day, and suddenly several police officers came to the door and took Zhu Xiaodong away.

He Jing wiped away her tears and found a lawyer for Zhu Xiaodong. Because Zhu Xiaodong was also involved in other economic cases, He Jing was heartbroken.

In addition, she learned that Zhu Xiaodong was having an affair with other women outside. He Jing decided to divorce Zhu Xiaodong and live alone with her daughter.

Because the villa was taken back by the landlord, He Jing took her daughter to rent a house and move. Since then, He Jing has moved more than 20 times in order to find a cheaper house. Every time her mother, sister, aunt, and third aunt came over to help He Jing clean up the house, they cried while persuading He Jing.

After the divorce, He Jing had nothing. In order to support herself and her daughter, she called her former agent, hoping to come back. The other party said: "You haven't appeared in five years. Many fans don't remember you. The appearance fee will definitely not be high."

He Jing said: "As long as there are performances, it doesn't matter how low the appearance fee is. "He Jing's appearance fee used to be 70,000 to 80,000 yuan, but now it's only 2,000 yuan. In order to earn more money, He Jing also went to a karaoke bar to sing at night. Some guests drank and rushed to the stage to harass He Jing. Thanks to her friends, she came to the rescue.

In 2009, a friend of Zhu Xiaodong broke the bombshell news in the media that Zhu Xiaodong was imprisoned for fraud and that He Jing divorced him due to debt problems. For a time, He Jing was pushed to the forefront of public opinion. This friend's intention is obvious, that is, he hopes that public opinion will put more pressure on He Jing and let her help her ex-husband pay off his debts.

Under the heavy pressure of public opinion, coupled with Zhu Xiaodong's friends often collecting debts, He Jing felt like a huge stone was weighing on his heart. In the winter of 2009, He Jing sold a small house owned by her parents at a low price and returned 760,000 yuan to her ex-husband's friends.

He Jing and her daughter moved forward firmly in the long river of time. At that time, she had no tears left, and all she wanted to do was sing good songs and raise her daughter.

In 2011, He Jing released the album "Quiet Selection", which was well received by fans. In the same year, she released the single "Gelsang Flowers in the Sky", which also caused a huge response.

In the following years, He Jing relied on a little hard work to regain her popularity and released multiple solo albums. At the same time, she raised her daughter well and was elected as an outstanding mother in Chaoyang District, Beijing.

In September 2021, He Jing is 48 years old, still divorced and single, living alone with her daughter. After experiencing two deep-seated love affairs, He Jing finally stood up tall in the pain. Now she has no sadness or tears. She loves life and her singing career. She is an excellent singer and a strong mother.

Today's He Jing is like a frost-stained rose, showing her unique grace over the years!

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