Without time and money, will you still go on the graduation trip?

After four years in college, it's finally time to graduate. Seeing that more and more people in the circle of friends began to send photos of graduation trips, and thinking that they had not traveled with their classmates for four years in college, the originally silent heart began to stir up.

So, I ran to the dormitory group and asked my sisters if they could squeeze in a time to go on a graduation trip together. Just throwing this "graduation trip" stone into the group, all the divers emerged, and many expressed their willingness to participate.

Only Mao refused our invitation. She is one of the few reliable girls among my sisters. Asked why, she said, "I don't have enough money and time now. I have planned to make up a graduation trip this time next year. "

This shocked me. Just a few months as an intern, where did you get the money? Let's not talk about time. The only thing that can be used is the Dragon Boat Festival. There will be no shortage of tourists at all scenic spots, right?

However, whether I have time or not next year and can I save this money, will I still have this mood?

Travel, after all, depends on the mood

I still remember that I have a net friend in Wenzhou, whom I have known since junior high school and have never seen since I graduated from college. In recent years, when chatting, he would invite me to visit him from time to time, and even expressed his willingness to pay for my round-trip fare many times, so as to eat, drink and be merry in the future. I still delayed my college for four years on the grounds of lack of time.

At first, I really calculated the time carefully, and felt that going to Wenzhou for two days a week was not enough. Later, I thought, is Wenzhou really so fun? Is food and shelter really that attractive? Is it worth staying there for two days?

The initial impulse was not enough to drive me to go on a trip. Later, it took time to find out that not going more is just because it is not worth it.

Imagine, just meeting a netizen is not worth it.

On the contrary, my friends and I have traveled several times.

What impressed me the most was my sophomore year. It was a Thursday night, when I came back from school, I saw my sister surfing the Internet, and there were some small travel advertisements on the edge of the webpage. I had a brainwave and said to my sister, "Sister, let's travel."

At that time, my sister's job was mainly to translate Japanese novels, and she also wrote online novels to earn extra money and be more free. So, after hearing my words, she closed the webpage without saying anything and began to search Zhou Bianyou.

On Friday, she made a one-day tour plan for Shaoxing at home. On Saturday, we got up at 6 o'clock, carrying a small bag and set off happily.

That day, we went to see Lu Xun's former residence. In fact, to put it bluntly, we passed a field. In broad daylight, we went to Shenyuan Garden. The two men looked at the words on the two tablets and shook their heads for a long time. They were regarded as fools by passers-by, but they were moved to tears. Shaoxing also has Wu Peng boat. We swam in its former Qingshui ditch, but found that the imaginary Qingshui ditch had been polluted. But it still doesn't make us regret it.

To tell the truth, we didn't go to Shaoxing for real fun at first, at least that's my impression after studying in Shaoxing for four years.

But that trip was by far my proudest.

Travel will probably be like that time. No matter what the scenery is, people around you are the happiest thing.

This reminds me of a reader of onelab who loves to travel. He once told me about his graduation trip in a private chat.

For the graduation trip, he looked very lightly: "At the graduation meeting, all the students went to participate in the graduation trip, but I didn't." But later, I got a job in a foreign company, and I got more than 10 free holidays every year. I travel with my friends. On the contrary, those students who have participated in graduation trips have rarely had the opportunity to travel again in recent years. "

I couldn't help saying "Hey" on the phone. If he didn't have so many free holidays to travel now, would he still speak so easily?

Thinking of him this time, I sent another message.

At first, I asked him if he regretted not going to the graduation trip, and he really answeredno. Later, I changed my strategy: I told him that I was struggling with not having enough time and money to go to the graduation trip. I didn't know whether to go or not, and I wanted to ask him what he thought.

He said: "If the reason for your struggle is money and time, then go. If you are concerned about whether it is not worthwhile to spend the money and time traveling with these people, then don't go. Money and Time In the next 3-5 years, you will find that this is nothing at all, because money is always there and time is never enough. "

Later, he added: "I didn't have any feelings and nostalgia with my college classmates, so I didn't go at that time." Of course you will go if you have a good relationship with your friends. Time and money, don't be too entangled. "

Wake up the dreamer in one word.

Time is like a sponge, there is always a squeeze. Money is not a big problem. After all, who has the ability to earn some money for graduation travel after studying for so many years? At best, consider whether this trip is worth getting you out of college in debt.

Most importantly, there may not be such sisters who can go this way together in the future.

In fact, it's not just a trip, there's more. I often want to do it, but I always give up because I have no money or time. But is it really because there is no time or money? I'm afraid that's just an excuse not to go.

As the reader said, there is one thing in front of us. If the only reason you are struggling is money and time, then do it. If you are concerned about whether it is not worthwhile to spend this money and time to do it, then don't go.

Because there is always money, and there is always not enough time.

Some people, some opportunities, miss them and never come back.

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