It will be too late for Gillian if she doesn’t get divorced. She deserves to be loved even at the age of 39. How should a woman live?

On May 8, 2020, Taiwan media broke the news that Gillian and Lai Hongguo divorced on March 1 this year. It is reported that Gillian made the request for divorce, and the man frankly admitted that the reason for the divorce was: "She doesn't love me anymore." Looking back at the marriage of two people, how could it make a grown man so sad?

The man pointed out that after their wedding in May 2018, his wife Gillian expressed regret for the marriage and made her feelings known to him from the beginning. Perhaps it is very difficult for many people to understand. Why should we get married so early if we have not thought about it well? Perhaps for Gillian, there is too much helplessness in this marriage! Gillian’s “mask marriage” of compromise

Like many newly married couples, if the husband says he doesn’t love her, the wife may kick him out early; and as a husband, Lai Hongguo is naturally reluctant to give up. His own beloved wife. Lai Hongguo once wanted to use various efforts to exchange for this marriage, but he was unable to do so. The two "continued to maintain a fake marriage for the reality show they had signed." For this reason, they were able to maintain this marriage that should not have existed. However, in February this year, Gillian once again filed for divorce. It must be reasonable for this marriage.

The entire period from marriage to divorce lasted only 14 months, but looking back, perhaps this relationship should not have started. Because in October 2017, Gillian was revealed to be staying in a hotel with a man during the filming of an online drama. Of course, this man later turned out to be Lai Hongguo. Perhaps the original intention of the two getting married was to preserve Gillian's status as a well-known actress, so Yu Lai Hongguo made a grand statement: "I like her very much. She is a very good girl, and she is also the person I want to get serious with." Scripts are common in the entertainment industry. After all, as an actress, Gillian relies on her face to make a living, and we can understand that.

When there was no need for Gillian to stand up and speak out, Gillian admitted the relationship generously and pretended to be sweet: "Although the relationship was bumpy in the past (Quan Ningyi, Edison Chen), I still believe in love (staying in a hotel together), hope to get everyone’s blessings (don’t worry about staying in a hotel together), and hope that the relationship will blossom (Gillian wants to have a child). “As a 39-year-old woman, I have to say this. I believe that my feelings about this divorce were very profound, but after the incident, I showed a decision that can only be made by a little girl who is "in love", and she agreed to get along with Lai Hongguo through humiliation.

However, many problems faced by this relationship immediately came to light. Only a week after the two admitted their relationship, the media broke the news that Lai Hongguo traveled abroad with another woman, and they called her affectionately. But later the woman also stood up and clarified the matter, saying that she already had a boyfriend, and Lai Hongguo was just her senior, and the title was just a joke.

What I have to say is that Lai Hongguo is indeed quite capable, and can make the interpretation of "Gillian 2.0" so fresh and refined, and the plot seems to be able to be rewritten smoothly by himself. However, Gillian, who was stuck in the "love brain", stood up again and expressed her trust in her boyfriend Lai Hongguo. I believe many people can see the role played by Lai Hongguo in this relationship, and Gillian's behavior is even more incomprehensible to many people. Why was Lai Hongguo not favored by others?

The reason why the relationship between Gillian and Lai Hongguo is not favored by the outside world may not just be the repeated incidents of suspected cheating. Because Lai Hongguo had a failed marriage before getting along with Gillian, it may also depend to a large extent on Lai Hongguo's rich love history. Just when many of Gillian's fans were opposed to this relationship, I believe that Gillian's decision also changed many people's views on this relationship, that is: 4 months after admitting the relationship, there was news News of Lai Hongguo’s successful marriage proposal.

How about we say that Gillian is "love brain"? Isn't marriage for a person a lifetime? Why do you decide your life-long affairs so hastily? Could it be said that it really proves the saying that cuts the knot with a sharp knife? The original intention of doing this is difficult for many people to accept. I believe that as the heroine, Gillian also has a lot of helplessness. It is nothing more than a desperate move to stop the unbearable "past" in the entertainment industry as soon as possible in order to prevent it from happening again. On February 1, 2018, Gillian showed off the diamond ring on social platforms and said: "This is the best birthday gift I have ever received. Thank you for your love and happiness in the next stop."

To Wouldn’t it just be said that a girl’s emotional quotient and IQ both drop when she is passionately in love? First of all, the man has a love history and is often involved in scandals. Secondly, when we have only known each other for such a short time, is it too childish to consider getting married? Perhaps as the client, Lai Hongguo must have been overjoyed. After all, he married such a beautiful wife without any effort. Of course, Gillian's appearance and temperament are naturally more charming than Lai Hongguo's ex-wife.

Thus, since the proposal went so smoothly, will the wedding date be far behind? In May 2018, Gillian and Lai Hongguo held a so-called pre-wedding party in the United States. It is reported that Gillian's friends A Sa, Zheng Xiyi, Gillian's manager Huo Wenxi and others came to the scene to offer their blessings.

From announcing their relationship to entering an important stage of life step by step, perhaps because the relationship between the two was too dull, the opposition from the outside world gradually weakened. And in May of the same year, Gillian posted a wedding photo of the two kissing sweetly to express her birthday wishes to Lai Hongguo. Gillian was "induced", but luckily she persisted.

As we all know, parents of the older generation, regardless of their family background, will inevitably ask for "induced" when they first marry their daughter-in-law. Of course, Lai Hongguo's parents also No exceptions. Gillian also expressed that she really wanted a child of her own when she was participating in a variety show. However, due to the special nature of the work, this plan was temporarily shelved. However, shortly after the two got married, Gillian was once questioned for not wearing a wedding ring in public. Is it because there was a problem in the relationship between the two? We don't know.

After these questioning voices came out, what did Gillian do? In public places, Lai Hongguo showed off his affection and dated in a high-profile manner, and the atmosphere was sweet and eye-catching. They returned to the mansion hand in hand and used practical actions to break the doubts about the marriage rumored by the outside world. It seems that she also wants to calm herself down, and Gillian, who is born to love children, doesn't want a child of her own? Gillian also revealed that she had frozen several eggs and wanted to try IVF, but her husband Lai Hongguo was not very cooperative.

As mentioned above, Gillian is affected by her physical condition, such as prone to edema, waist injuries, crooked spine, and some anterior pelvic problems. Therefore, if Gillian wants to get pregnant, she can only get it through in vitro fertilization. I have to say that this reason is also quite sad. Fortunately, modern medicine is advanced enough and the problem of wanting to have children can be solved very well. However, Gillian has been busy with the development of her own film and television industry in recent years, so the plan for in vitro fertilization has been repeatedly shelved.

In fact, as early as 2016, Gillian showed her frustration as an "older leftover" in the variety show "The Temptation of Dinner". In the program, Gillian said that she did not want to fall in love at all, but wanted to find a partner who dotes on her and get married. The words between the lines were full of yearning for a plain married life. Perhaps it was with such original intention that he happily agreed to Lai Hongguo's proposal after two years. Who would have thought that in the end, he would still think highly of Lai Hongguo. But thankfully Gillian didn't give birth to a child, otherwise this child would be the most innocent one. Summary

Now it seems that the relationship between Gillian and Lai Hongguo has obviously reached the end of the water. But at the same time, I believe that more people hope that Gillian can live as she said before. No matter what kind of blows and setbacks life has given her, she can still believe in love and can still reach out for love when it comes. Live it, and I believe this day will not be too far away.

Then again, if the two of them have a child now, Gillian as a mother does not know how much mental pressure she will have to bear; if she has a child, will Gillian continue to stay in Lai Hongguo? What about around you? Looking at Gillian’s past decisions, I believe she will definitely do it!